I mean she 57 and if she got dudes coming at her like that, she should have a dude ready to come over to eat her out and leave...pretty simple. just like we move on to the next, she should too??
Real Sex Question: What is the average time to wait for sex and how long is too long?
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You read her the wrong lyrics
Baby, come to me
Let me put my arms around you
This was meant to be
And I'm, oh so glad, I found you
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I respect it.
But are just gonna cut her off or actually discuss the situation face to face?
At the 2-3 week mark we're discussing it. She gives me a good enough reason, then I wait...THE MONTH! If she is trying to wait longer then after that month I have one foot out of the relationship.
Exactly, that 3month with is some rip-off shit but dudes allow it being scared to let her know they aren't gonna wait that long for some pussy.
You're right about that, but a lot of chicks do this shit where they just refuse to get into the pool at all and just get little miniature toy dogs and just live a remiserable single life not wanting to even try at it.
In the end, they don't want to deal with any of their trauma or face the fact that they might be their biggest problem.
I respect your personal boundaries and limits just as I respect hers.
You keeping it real and honest.
You as much as she shouldn't have to unwillingly conform to a relationship that doesn't make you happy.
I'm going to try to smash this week. I told her I'm going to try to get her to come to a lifestyle Hotel takeover event with me next month and watch some women get railed on & gangbanged to show her that sex is just sex and not anything special like she has in her head.
I know she's more than likely going to punk out, but she needs to see something different
Your version of Mr. Miyagi brings an entirely new and slightly uncomfortable spin on wax on wax off.
Chhhrrrruurrrcccchhhh
One thing that always killed me is women on social media announcing they've been celibate for an extended amount of time. Like it's some badge of honor, integrity and the key to a healthy and long lasting relationship. Bitch, you fuck around and let that sex juice get too backed up on you dat shit will fuck around and kill yo ass. 
Then you wonder why you walk around snappin' at your kids, not getting along with your coworkers (especially other females) and constantly saying all men aint shit. I'll give you a month bitch. If you not wanting to suck on my Charles Bronson I'm out.
Then you wonder why you walk around snappin' at your kids, not getting along with your coworkers (especially other females) and constantly saying all men aint shit. I'll give you a month bitch. If you not wanting to suck on my Charles Bronson I'm out.
This is just an observation, and not a response to the "waiting period."
She's known this guy for over 40 years and they've reconnected,and had been dating for at least 3 months. So, it would be safe to assume that he's a "decent individual" (I don't think he was in the relationship for just sex).
I could be wrong (I have very limited knowledge of her past), however, I get the feeling she has dealt with her fair share of "Ne'er-do-wells," but didn't make any of them wait longer than a week or 2 at the most?
File this under the same "twisted logic" that I've often heard women say that "I can't date him because he's too nice."
Hopefully, at some point she'll trust her decision making skills and find a guy who has her best interests at heart (because for now, I think she realized she just lost one).
She's known this guy for over 40 years and they've reconnected,and had been dating for at least 3 months. So, it would be safe to assume that he's a "decent individual" (I don't think he was in the relationship for just sex).
I could be wrong (I have very limited knowledge of her past), however, I get the feeling she has dealt with her fair share of "Ne'er-do-wells," but didn't make any of them wait longer than a week or 2 at the most?
File this under the same "twisted logic" that I've often heard women say that "I can't date him because he's too nice."
Hopefully, at some point she'll trust her decision making skills and find a guy who has her best interests at heart (because for now, I think she realized she just lost one).
One thing that always killed me is women on social media announcing they've been celibate for an extended amount of time. Like it's some badge of honor, integrity and the key to a healthy and long lasting relationship. Bitch, you fuck around and let that sex juice get too backed up on you dat shit will fuck around and kill yo ass.
My cuzzo ain't trying to hear the peace and love save em bars I'm spitting.
He on that @killagram
Bruh
He ment dat shit too. You know that hurt dat bitches soul!!!!
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Man just read half these responses and know they are BULLSHIT.
Out in the real world shit go a diff way
@godofwine
My brother I know you a grown man very experienced in the ways of the world
So you don't need any advice from me
@tallblacknyc always says I'm too kindhearted when it comes to alot of things. He is one of my most trusted keep sh*t real consiglieres
I just want to drop this cause you a brother of mines
I wouldn't play these sexual awakening games with this specific woman.
If everything you telling us is true... you might end up on the wrong side of a case because she "feels different" all of sudden about your "relationship" after doing something she has regrets about later.
Just saying
Peace.
My brother I know you a grown man very experienced in the ways of the world
So you don't need any advice from me
@tallblacknyc always says I'm too kindhearted when it comes to alot of things. He is one of my most trusted keep sh*t real consiglieres
I just want to drop this cause you a brother of mines
I wouldn't play these sexual awakening games with this specific woman.
If everything you telling us is true... you might end up on the wrong side of a case because she "feels different" all of sudden about your "relationship" after doing something she has regrets about later.
Just saying
Peace.
What a dumb dumb
Damned right. She called me damn near crying a couple hours ago. She fucked up and she knows it.
I'm going to have her talk to this freaky chick right here and watch her get dug out all weekend so she might be able to comprehend. Some people need to be shown that the way they've been going about things is the wrong goddamn way
I hear you, but it is what it is. She is either gonna get it or not, but she's not going to Tell me how horny she is and then thwart potential opportunities to quench that thirst.
I'm going to go against the orders of a very wise individual and put the offer out there for her to either take or not. If she takes it she's going go there, and get her eyes opened to what reality really is or she's gonna punk out and not go.
Either way, I'm not losing much with her and the next dude is going to gain a lot. Or she's going to become a dog lady, and not the fun kind
Be safe.
Man.. when I was single, I used to ask a woman if she knew what the difference between having sex and making love.. I had to explain to them that making love has nothing to do with anything sexual.. it's the time you spend together making love work, and sex is just "fuckin".. I also let them know that I approach each relationship/engagement like I'm purchasing a car. I have to test drive for performance to make sure that I at least will want to lease with an option to buy. If you want to be a showpiece only to look at, I'll leave you at the car lot.. and I also let them know I only want to be bothered with those who want to fuck me also..
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When I was in the dating game I always had at least one that I was actively having sex with. If dated a woman that wanted to wait, I wasn’t too disappointed because my sexual needs were being met. Being nonchalant almost always got them to reconsider. They would often ask if I was seeing anyone else and if we were sexually active and I would always reply yes without providing any details. They almost always ended up initiating sex soon after. I don’t think it is right to pressure a woman to have sex. They don’t “owe” it to us. That said, I can understand how hard it can be if your sexual needs aren’t being met or if you are spending a valuable amount of money.
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I did have friends that were genuinely celibate for years. All of them were very promiscuous prior to their celibacy. Women like this can’t be shamed or tempted into giving up the pussy anyway.
Real talk! For me, it depends on the woman. If she's really worth waiting for (wifey status), I can wait (but not too long). If she's a jump off and I just wanna fuck, I'll give it a month if we chillin' all the time. A blow job/hand job? Something! If you ain't doing nothing by 3 months, then it's def time to bounce! Time is valuable!
I have a friend who is built likean older Danni Lynne. She is stacked like this still at 57.
Now, I stop fucking with her because she was a dick tease. She believes that sex is connected to her heart and she's not trying to get hurt again and wah wah wah. She has been willfully celibate for 5 years. She just said she tries not to think about it, but she's built like Dabbi Lynne. So she gets approached.
I tried to tell her over and over that getting a nut isn't connected to your heart, or it shouldn't be. Or, you should be able to turn that shit on and off and get you some and quiet the pussy rumblings.
She calls me today and says she's been dating this guy for 3 months. They used to go to high school together and she still hasn't let him hit after 3 months.
Last night, she gave him a massage When they met up after work, he asked to return the favor and He eventually got her to let one of her gigantic breasts free.
She can have nipple orgasms, so eventually he got the other one free and she came four times. Then she said, "I don't know if I'm ready for this, yet" and made him go home.
She said when he called this morning he said, "I'm done. I can't do this anymore. Keep your lips, keep your tongue and your pussy."
She called me and was like, "Am I tripping? I just don't want to get hurt again."
I told her, "you goddamn right you tripping. You came four times to his zero, sent him home horny as fuck after you busted four nuts. I read the lyrics of sexual healing to her and told her she was torturing the poor dude. This ain't 1953. What are you waiting for? You are on some Cooley High type shit, holding out like your mama watching, and for what?
Now, we as men WANT to hit the first night if we can, but we won't press it if it ain't there. But I'm not waiting 3 months.
Her and I used to fuck, and when we reconnected, even though we used to fuck she was a dick tease like a motherfucker, letting me kiss her, suck on them big ass titties and sending me home hard and horny.
This is what she finally understood. I told her I imagine going to work for 2 weeks without getting paid, that's how it feels for a guy to fuck with a woman for a number of weeks or months and not get no pussy, no payoff.
I said that and she finally understood. Fucking women
This is what she looks like except just a little bit older, but still built like a brick house
She's been celibate for 5 years and he thought he was gonna get some in only 3 months?
That's his mistake. I don't know what their status was as in dating, meaning I don't know if it was at or close to the love stage yet but that's what she wanted. She wanted to be in love and know that he was in love with her before she gave herself to another man.
She's 57, probably been married a time or two and has been with numerous men. Who in the end she found pointless and empty in being with so she's had a change of heart and emotion regarding Sean's intimacy.
For the past 5 years she didn't want to get into a simply physical relationship that she would eventually end up regretting.
You can't teach her how to feel about sex. You can teach her how many men and many others view sex.
But you and him did educate her on how men fell empty when teased and get tired of the shit and bounce though.
Tell her to give that man some pussy. Text him “im ready”She just hit me up today
He's going to smash and dash. You know he is. He might not have smashed and dashed before, but he DEFINITELY will now.