Real Sex Question: What is the average time to wait for sex and how long is too long?
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Yo that line is cold as f**k
Or as Busta Rhymes would have said in the mid to late-90s ...
"Keep your hands, lips, and pussy where my eyes can see ... you missed your opportunity to be fuckin' with me ..."
I mean, these women better understand the message or get left. Nobody got time for their foolishness.
Exactly. Now I’m not saying we have to but if it’s not even being acknowledged then it’s time to move on
Most definitely because if she doesn't lust after me, I'm out.
I'm not letting her waste my time..
How you know what that man wants from her?
Yall ninjas is wilding 
Exactly, your barking up the wrong tree, why not find a tree thats easier to climb and get all the fruit you want.
3 Dates is the most and that is gonna be at the crib with some drank
Exactly, your barking up the wrong tree, why not find a tree thats easier to climb and get all the fruit you want.
3 Dates is the most and that is gonna be at the crib with some drank
So, are you saying dudes don't want sex?
I'm just speaking on women that like to play games instead of being grown telling the truth. No need to waste anybody's time.
Clearly this chick in the thread was out there toying with DUDE talking about waiting for 3 months knowing damn well she wants to fuck and want to come back around to have sex and got her feelings hurt when he told her NO.
Wasting money and time with this date shit, shouldn't even have to come to all of that if y'all only want to just smash.Yall ninjas is wilding
Exactly, your barking up the wrong tree, why not find a tree thats easier to climb and get all the fruit you want.
3 Dates is the most and that is gonna be at the crib with some drank
Also, don't be having these women have you waiting for them to give you some pussy when she could've gave it up right then and there.
Bro, when I used to fuck with her, she would be like, "Aye, Papi....." and she's not even Latina.Sidebar...
A women that can get nipple orgasms?
Undefeated
But it was frustrating getting head from her because she would be on that dick lick shit, you know how a lot of chicks be, licking the sides of the shit and you be like, "SUCK THE DICK! It's called dick sucking, not dick licking."
And when my ex was a master dick sucker like Shelby from The Best Man Holiday (I recently asked her what she did better than 80 or 90% of people. Now I was expecting an answer like debate, critical thinking...this chick said, "Suck dick...but I'm out of practice." NINJA) - anyway, coming from that, a chick who just does that sensual dick lick shit ain't the business
Yo, that line is already stolen. I'm going to put it in part two of Naughty Nurse Chronicles Volume II. Similar situation. Dude gonna call her a dick tease because she wouldn't let him hit it again after they did a MFM as the extra guy.
Her side dude is gonna give ole boy the Marine Corps version of "an offer to get the fuck out of here and don't come back that you can't refuse."
Bro, speak your mind. That's what we here for. Everybody got different experiences down this lane
the real answer to this question depends completely on that specific woman. some women r not worth waiting 10 mins andothers may be worth waiting a month or so. personally I never had to wait longer than a date or 2 mainly cause they knew if they played the waiting game with me I had other options. There was 1 woman from my 20's that I actually waited 6 months for. She was a Jehovah Witness and I knew it would be a challenge for both getting her and waiting til I did but this woman was incredible. I can only describe her as shaped like Thelma with Halle Berry face and sweetness of an angel. So I waited and waited and I finally got her to kiss me which was bad cause she had never kissed anyone so I had to teach her. Then we did the heavy in the car kissing and touching and I finally touched her pussy and she felt a man. That was the opening I needed eventually I got her to get nude and then I got her to do oral and then we did the due. it was awesome to finally get her and once we did it the 1st time she was insatible. it was all the time but to wait that long was very unusual and only happened cause she was a unicorn.
Bro well done very well done.
I UNDERSTAND
Brah......Since when?
I'm old and married forever
So trust my view is my own and by no means the standard
But everyone male and female has sexual conflicts hang ups challenges hurdles difficulties especially religious backgrounds
So I was always much more forgiving with this stuff. And why I was really called playa because I was the opposite. I never noticed girls sweating me and gave tine and attention to women most would dismiss but after being with me suddenly everyone wanted them. Hence playa.
Sidebar...I miss that brother and this being my birth month my mind is seriously on mortality right now.
Me too, I'm just trying to keep his legacy alive. That's all we can do at this point.
I'm never really waiting for pussy because pussy is always available. I would hope these woman don't feel men are celibate just because they are. If homie fucking he shouldn't sweat it. She seem like she a diamond in the rough mult-orgasmic with big titties stingy with the pussy. I'll wait a couple years if the pussy right. I'm a patient hunter.
Quiet as it's kept homie was about 2 weeks away from getting some box. She just needed to feel safe and that he wasn't just after the pussy solely and he would have been in there.
Quiet as it's kept homie was about 2 weeks away from getting some box. She just needed to feel safe and that he wasn't just after the pussy solely and he would have been in there.
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Everyone is different.
I get the tease thing trust me.
But it's complicated to differentiate between a tease or repressed or conflicted or damaged.
If a MAN OR WOMAN - I make that point because even as a site for men we need to acknowledge there are men out here who women would complain as teases or headaches too - feels the person is wasting their time okay.
But that isn't a WOMAN thing its a person thing.
But sexual repression in our society is usually forced on women.
I don't think celibacy is a bad thing. Having sexual limits isn't a bad thing.
No one should feel forced or compelled to do anything like OP said.
Specifically this woman. It's sad that at 50 years old she is still unsure about her own sensuality and sexual identity.
I disagree with OP (however he knows her intimately so wtf do I know)
It's a little obvious since she was young because of her body and looks it caused her to have sex issues and it probably wasn't her parents being strict. Her whole life men and women probably judged her hated her lusted her touched her manipulated her because of her body.
Again that doesn't mean she gets to manipulate others
It means I can empathize with her.
And other women like her.
there are A LOT of men and women who would be fine with a massage some mid head and watching her cum 5 times in a row. In fact that's a 20 a month only fans subscription waiting to happen.
She needs someone who actually cares about her well being sense of self and what she wants to support her.
And at another time my mouth would be the constant safe place for her to rest her twin issues.
This man gets it.
There is a man out there who would have no issue with her.
And that man isn't a simp or sucker or punk.
That woman just ain't for you.
Just like you ain't the man for her.
She sounds like a prude and ya tolerate her shit.. if ya was fucking for long periods of time her skills should of enhanced cause you want her to learn how to please your dick, which means you tell her this is what you like and that if she wants to keep you around she better show improvements.. the fact she old and still half assing it means lot of nigs allowed her to do that.. so her mentality is the way it is cause nigs allowed her to be that way.. if she met some real dudes that half ass dick sucking wouldn’t be allowed and all this cock teasing with a half ass fucking ability wouldn’t be tolerated
Bro your pimp hand gonna cripple that hoe. She need sensitivity.
That word ya using it again.. I am not that sir.. I’m just saying with age comes wisdom/ knowledge/ experience.. she supposed to have veteran skills and yet being allowed to do rookie mistakes.. man up and set a standard that she needs to match at her age
I mean her body her choice, I understand that. So, if she got all these issues then why even bother wasting a person time telling them to wait and then allowing him to touch you but don't want to have sex afterwards. I mean sensual massage usually leads to sex.
But the fact she has him waiting for 3 months is insane, I don't believe people have to wait that long unless they want to marry that person. Now if it's just sex and y'all are moving on then that's cool.
Also, women are selective on who they give their bodies to and they have every right to feel secure on who they have sex with. But honesty is the best policy which should be honored.
Goldofwine mentioned a lot of what she told him with his interaction with her, He gave her some advice as well which is hard truths she needed to hear. No one wants to deal with a women that's undecided about what she wants when they can move on to someone else who have made up their mind.
There's a lot of hurt women out there dealing with sexual trauma that they need healing before thinking about having sex again with someone else and shouldn't even be thinking about dating or pursuing anyone.
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Bro, this chick would even piss off Ralph Tresvant
She called me about a half hour ago still sad that she pushed this guy away and I told her, we've been talking about her on here. And you got to get out of your own head, but it's too late for that one
Some women gotta learn the hard way to understand the assignment. I bet she won't do that again.