Sorry yall if this sounds insensitive,
But if you have children and you take your own life, I feel it’s selfish and cowardly.
I try not to speak ill on the deceased, but c’mon fam. You have children that are going to be forever scarred from this. They will never recover from this. And you are showing them that when shit gets tough, it’s ok to quit.
I ain’t with it at all.
You really shouldn't speak on things that you clearly don't understand or can't truly empathize with. It should be clear to anyone that on average someone willing to take their own life was suffering from a mental disorder. In my opinion, he wasn't weak or sad because of a bad day. He needed medical intervention. If your thought is he should have tried to get help, a lot of people with mental disorders ( not just depression) don't believe they have an issue and will refuse treatment/help.
As far as the wife, she's a piece of shit who seems to be trying to profit from his death at his expense. She could have easily spoken to him taking his life and how it impacted their family instead of trying to give the appearance that he was some secret junkie and she's telling her truth. So he was self medicating and killed himself yet his wife didn't seem to notice a change in his behavior? Add in the fact that his family including his mother had to sign an NDA to attend the funeral and her supposedly writing a book. That behavior doesn't come off as someone who would notice their partner needs help, yet she can attempt to profit or get attention from his death.
Part of the reason she may not have paid attention is because men are ignored or are told to hide their issues for fear of looking weak. I could see friends and family, but your wife should be able to see a shift in your behavior. The reality is she likely ignored the signs and didn't know her husband. That's assuming she actually cared and respected him to begin with. Some people are just married and stopped caring along time ago.
There was a video passed around recently of a husband basically having a moment and reflecting on his life and being closer to death. Instead of his wife not saying anything or finding a way to comfort her husband, she basically devalued the moment. The husband would later make excuses for his wife after social media does what it does. If this guy were to later take his life, I'm positive his wife would have been clueless as well.
People don't just kill themselves. Unfortunately, sometimes friends and family ignored the red flags.
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