RIP - Stephen 'tWitch' Boss, the famed DJ on Ellen Degeneres' talk show, is dead ... and TMZ has learned it appears to be a suicide.

phanatic

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Foolishness. There’s a time to be casual vs professional. That kind of thinking will limit your potential in so many ways. Pls don't pass this along to your kids.
His professional life is being a football player. When he was in a game, he was professional. After the final whistle, he is himself. Be yourself, or be a tortured soul that ends up hating your life, because keeping up the image is more important than being happy and well.
 

Non-StopJFK2TAB

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Foolishness. There’s a time to be casual vs professional. That kind of thinking will limit your potential in so many ways. Pls don't pass this along to your kids.
Limit your potential. Let me give you hint, Jack: shoe-shining for cacs isn’t the cause for our existence. Money isn’t the apex of reasoning. You’re here to sing the praises of god. That’s why you’re here. Not to sell wack shoes for $3000 if you act now.
 

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So you’re saying the house is up for sale? :lol:
 

JustChillin

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Sorry yall if this sounds insensitive,

But if you have children and you take your own life, I feel it’s selfish and cowardly.

I try not to speak ill on the deceased, but c’mon fam. You have children that are going to be forever scarred from this. They will never recover from this. And you are showing them that when shit gets tough, it’s ok to quit.

I ain’t with it at all.
 

jawnswoop

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Sorry yall if this sounds insensitive,

But if you have children and you take your own life, I feel it’s selfish and cowardly.

I try not to speak ill on the deceased, but c’mon fam. You have children that are going to be forever scarred from this. They will never recover from this. And you are showing them that when shit gets tough, it’s ok to quit.

I ain’t with it at all.
I agree, but we don't even know how tough shit has gotten for him to off himself.

yeah, a lot of us has been in the worst situation that we were able to live long enough to get out of it.

I understand some people wouldn't have sympathy for a dude who committed suicide leaving his family behind prematurely that it would fuck them up for the rest of their life.

I hope his kids will be able to learn from this giving them the strength to want to live no matter how tough shit gets.
 

JustChillin

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I agree, but we don't even know how tough shit has gotten for him to off himself.

yeah, a lot of us has been in the worst situation that we were able to live long enough to get out of it.

I understand some people wouldn't have sympathy for a dude who committed suicide leaving his family behind prematurely that it would fuck them up for the rest of their life.

I hope his kids will be able to learn from this giving them the strength to want to live no matter how tough shit gets.
Of course nobody know what he was truly dealing with and everyone is built to handle life differently.

I just can’t think of a single scenario that the thought process would be “You know what will help my children? Suicide!”

I’m of the thought process of once you bring children into the world, every decision you make, they have to come first and how it affects them.

I just don’t agree with the thought process.

And they are mulatto kids. So now they are gonna be raised with a single white mother and may not have knowledge of self moving forward.

There’s so many layers to this shit.

But I’m off it. Hope those kids get the help they need.
 

guyver

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Sorry yall if this sounds insensitive,

But if you have children and you take your own life, I feel it’s selfish and cowardly.

I try not to speak ill on the deceased, but c’mon fam. You have children that are going to be forever scarred from this. They will never recover from this. And you are showing them that when shit gets tough, it’s ok to quit.

I ain’t with it at all.
You really shouldn't speak on things that you clearly don't understand or can't truly empathize with. It should be clear to anyone that on average someone willing to take their own life was suffering from a mental disorder. In my opinion, he wasn't weak or sad because of a bad day. He needed medical intervention. If your thought is he should have tried to get help, a lot of people with mental disorders ( not just depression) don't believe they have an issue and will refuse treatment/help.

As far as the wife, she's a piece of shit who seems to be trying to profit from his death at his expense. She could have easily spoken to him taking his life and how it impacted their family instead of trying to give the appearance that he was some secret junkie and she's telling her truth. So he was self medicating and killed himself yet his wife didn't seem to notice a change in his behavior? Add in the fact that his family including his mother had to sign an NDA to attend the funeral and her supposedly writing a book. That behavior doesn't come off as someone who would notice their partner needs help, yet she can attempt to profit or get attention from his death.

Part of the reason she may not have paid attention is because men are ignored or are told to hide their issues for fear of looking weak. I could see friends and family, but your wife should be able to see a shift in your behavior. The reality is she likely ignored the signs and didn't know her husband. That's assuming she actually cared and respected him to begin with. Some people are just married and stopped caring along time ago.

There was a video passed around recently of a husband basically having a moment and reflecting on his life and being closer to death. Instead of his wife not saying anything or finding a way to comfort her husband, she basically devalued the moment. The husband would later make excuses for his wife after social media does what it does. If this guy were to later take his life, I'm positive his wife would have been clueless as well.

People don't just kill themselves. Unfortunately, sometimes friends and family ignored the red flags.
 

D24OHA

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I ain't mad at her. He married her and she pushed out a few pups for him. She has every right to get every red cent she can off his fame and death.

Bruh, if she's lying about the drug use, that's nasty work.

Even if dude was an habitual weed user, that's nothing like what she's alleging.

She said dude had shrooms, pills and "other substances" she had to look up on her phone....... so what, meth, heroin.....???

And if she was the cause of his pain and torment to begin with..... that's extra nasty. Just to sell some books and maybe tour the gossip show circuit??

Their kids have to read the dirt and allegations she's making
 

Tom Slick

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You really shouldn't speak on things that you clearly don't understand or can't truly empathize with. It should be clear to anyone that on average someone willing to take their own life was suffering from a mental disorder. In my opinion, he wasn't weak or sad because of a bad day. He needed medical intervention. If your thought is he should have tried to get help, a lot of people with mental disorders ( not just depression) don't believe they have an issue and will refuse treatment/help.

As far as the wife, she's a piece of shit who seems to be trying to profit from his death at his expense. She could have easily spoken to him taking his life and how it impacted their family instead of trying to give the appearance that he was some secret junkie and she's telling her truth. So he was self medicating and killed himself yet his wife didn't seem to notice a change in his behavior? Add in the fact that his family including his mother had to sign an NDA to attend the funeral and her supposedly writing a book. That behavior doesn't come off as someone who would notice their partner needs help, yet she can attempt to profit or get attention from his death.

Part of the reason she may not have paid attention is because men are ignored or are told to hide their issues for fear of looking weak. I could see friends and family, but your wife should be able to see a shift in your behavior. The reality is she likely ignored the signs and didn't know her husband. That's assuming she actually cared and respected him to begin with. Some people are just married and stopped caring along time ago.

There was a video passed around recently of a husband basically having a moment and reflecting on his life and being closer to death. Instead of his wife not saying anything or finding a way to comfort her husband, she basically devalued the moment. The husband would later make excuses for his wife after social media does what it does. If this guy were to later take his life, I'm positive his wife would have been clueless as well.

People don't just kill themselves. Unfortunately, sometimes friends and family ignored the red flags.
Maybe he was just a bitch though.
 

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guyver

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Maybe he was just a bitch though.

Or maybe you are. Who knows.

What we do know is a man took his life and should be given the proper respect regardless of your personal opinion on what he choose to do. If nothing else, have respect for the family who is dealing with the loss especially if the thought is he failed or didn't consider his kids.

I didn't personally know him, but i know two people who did and they spoke highly of him and his character. I only mention this to say you don't know who is on the board and how they may be feeling even if you don't believe you're doing any harm.

It's easy for someone to say what they wouldn't do. Primarily because you aren't suffering from a mental disorder. Instead of trying to belittle someone for their decisions, your time would be better spent checking on your family and friends to ensure they get the help if needed. We're all guilty of waving people off and downplaying their state or outright saying man up.

I had a friend who came out and said they considered taking their life and my words help them through that time. When I thought back on it, the person would say things that should have caught all of our attention sooner. For some, a reminder that they are valued is enough and others need medication/ongoing counseling.It's not as simple as I loss my girl so let me go swallow these pills because she won't take me back.

I recently had an ex who's brother took his life. He was in the military, so I'm assuming that experience may have potentially caused him to take his life considering he suffered from PTSD for over a decade. I would like to believe he held on as long as he did because of his kids, family and friends.

Not making this a man vs women thing, but women can get the help they need because they aren't made to feel ashamed or less than by society. What man is going to be honest with his friends/family if he's going to be clowned or looked at as weak?even if someone did try to get the man to open up, we've been trained since we were kids/babies that men don't complain or give the appearance of weakness.

We've had people on the board come out and say they were dealing with depression, so it's somewhat surprising to read people down play this to someone being soft or being selfish.
 

Tom Slick

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Or maybe you are. Who knows.

What we do know is a man took his life and should be given the proper respect regardless of your personal opinion on what he choose to do. If nothing else, have respect for the family who is dealing with the loss especially if the thought is he failed or didn't consider his kids.

I didn't personally know him, but i know two people who did and they spoke highly of him and his character. I only mention this to say you don't know who is on the board and how they may be feeling even if you don't believe you're doing any harm.

It's easy for someone to say what they wouldn't do. Primarily because you aren't suffering from a mental disorder. Instead of trying to belittle someone for their decisions, your time would be better spent checking on your family and friends to ensure they get the help if needed. We're all guilty of waving people off and downplaying their state or outright saying man up.

I had a friend who came out and said they considered taking their life and my words help them through that time. When I thought back on it, the person would say things that should have caught all of our attention sooner. For some, a reminder that they are valued is enough and others need medication/ongoing counseling.It's not as simple as I loss my girl so let me go swallow these pills because she won't take me back.

I recently had an ex who's brother took his life. He was in the military, so I'm assuming that experience may have potentially caused him to take his life considering he suffered from PTSD for over a decade. I would like to believe he held on as long as he did because of his kids, family and friends.

Not making this a man vs women thing, but women can get the help they need because they aren't made to feel ashamed or less than by society. What man is going to be honest with his friends/family if he's going to be clowned or looked at as weak?even if someone did try to get the man to open up, we've been trained since we were kids/babies that men don't complain or give the appearance of weakness.

We've had people on the board come out and say they were dealing with depression, so it's somewhat surprising to read people down play this to someone being soft or being selfish.
Ain't no way I'm reading all of that. It seems like you're triggered by this. Hope you get the help you need and don't take any shortcuts. Problems are temporary.
 

jawnswoop

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Ain't no way I'm reading all of that. It seems like you're triggered by this. Hope you get the help you need and don't take any shortcuts. Problems are temporary.
I've read at that shit.

Thought I was gonna fall asleep. :dunno:
 

guyver

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Ain't no way I'm reading all of that. It seems like you're triggered by this. Hope you get the help you need and don't take any shortcuts. Problems are temporary.

I'm in know way triggered. All I have empathy for a man and sympathy for his family/friends.

In place that constantly points the finger at other groups of people, it's sad that black men can't do as remove their ego and show respect.

Hopefully, you never have to experience losing someone in that manner. If so, let's see if you maintain the same energy.
 
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