Besides not having impeccable personal hygiene here's a few snippets not in any particular order because they all hold equal weight as turnoffs for me.
- Living in an unkept or nasty residence (your neighborhood and building can be effed up but your personal space doesn't have to be)
- A negative attitude and mean for no reason (goes for people and animals)
- Aggressive, jumps too conclusions, overly emotional, and confrontational
- Not motivated to do anything or go anywhere besides a club (was tired all day and didn't cook but soon as a friend says lets go out....Welp)
- Having an all about them or don't need a man attitude
- Playing the blame game - nothing is their fault and not taking accountability for shortcomings and even worse not working on them!!
- Loud even when you're right next to them - Geez this is a big pet peeve for me (get yo hearing checked, that's gotta be it, right?) lol
- Limited vocabulary - Way too hood
- A eye roller when around other sisters or anyone not even thinking about them - to include making unnecessary comments
- Unaware of world, hell local events, but up on the gossip game - I don't give a damn what Bam Bam is doing, I really don't so don't rape my ears wit the BS.
- Fake anything (hair, nails, BBL etc,.). I could care less, I'm like just cook something and show up naked
- Two or more kids under ten with multiple DNA donors
- Unemployed but have the expectation that someone is supposed to take care of her and her kids
- Shallow goals and misguided priorities - hair and nails done but your vehicle needs service or you're behind on your rent - fuq dat, make it make sense
