Why is John Legend and his wife loosing their baby not private???

easy_b

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I don’t see the issue with sharing this information this is how some people express their feelings with personal issues so I give my condolences.
 

Uncle John

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Condolences because I’m human.
Just saying.....keep your eyes open.
weeks ago she was trending in a really bad way. Connected to the whole pizza thingy.
media is a motherfucker.
 

xfactor

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this celebrity worship has to end. just another distraction for the masses :smh:

Nah she an attention whore. Before JL got with her, she was?? who?? now she tryna be a bigger celebrity than he is.. Some shit should never be a social media post.. she just trying stay relevant. Had she had the baby, then the three of them would have been up on Instagram, acting like shit is new, amazing, out of the world. FOH and I don't feel sorry for her loss and the posting of such loss!
 

Deezz

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YOOOOOOO.....I literally just saw that black and white photo of her sitting on her bed and was like, why would they put that photo out there like that?!!!

She is the biggest goofiest attention whore weirdo ever!! I can't stand people like that.
 

PsiBorg

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There's nothing like losing a child. The sorrow that comes behind that is astronomical and it seems unbearable to you. One minute, you're fine. The next minute, you're crying: inconsolable. You'll ask yourself, "Why my child?," constantly.

You'll question yourself. You'll question God. You'll see other people's children, then weep because yours is not here. You can be driving somewhere, and you'll have to pull over because you're crying so much that you can't see. The grief hits you in waves, and you never know when its going to hit.

I know that she's an attention seeker, but I give them my condolences. I wouldn't wish that shit on anyone.
 

Amajorfucup

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That b&w bed photo was a bit much imo. But this is literally and figuratively their "business". They are celebs and social media stars, its their prerogative to post this if they choose.

My condolences.

And which one of you faggot ass niggas is @tameytam ? Y'all need to stop that shit man. :smh:
 

TENT

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She and her husband are bonafide celebrities. So it is only right for them to make a statement.
She let people know she was pregnant and was having a baby. It would have been weird not to make a statement.
However we didn't need all the hospital pictures.

If you gonna get all the fame and big mansions because of me viewing or buying your shit. I wanna see ALL YOUR SHIT.
That includes you naked and fucking! I am entitled to know everything about you. If not, go back to the projects.
 

TENT

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@tameytam Do you see the irony of you hating that it is out there but you are making a thread putting it out there?
No one would have posted this. Chrissy is not a blackgirlonline.
 

younghustla

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They had already disclosed that they were expecting, so they HAD to say something.
Were they just supposed to act like they never said they we're having a baby to make you happy?
 

smoovejazz

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Not a Legend fan, but I am sorry he's going through this.

She shares her whole life on IG, so I would expect her to share this too.

That said, I'm one of those people that does not feel the need to out my life on social media. I probably wouldn't have shared this. The picture makes it look staged (although I know it wasn't).
 

d-weezy

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I figured it was for their fans that might have gone through a similar situation. Obviously, they would have to share it at some point cause we saw her walking around pregnant as hell. Not like the public ain't going to question where the damn baby at after awhile.
If it's a part of their grieving and allowing other to speak on their experience then fine. It doesn't apply to me so I'm minding my black ass no children having business.
 

0utsyder

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They had already disclosed that they were expecting, so they HAD to say something.
Were they just supposed to act like they never said they we're having a baby to make you happy?

I think people would understand if they took a day or two to grieve. Or just a quick blurb about the the loss, this is a "thing"!
 

TEN

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it was months before a lot of my friends and family found out my son was stillborn last summer.
that aint shit im just tryin to run and post on social media right after.
My sincere condolences to you and yours
 

sammyjax

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I'm not a big fan of all that oversharing on social media. I ran into this black family on IG. They had been vlogging and in the process their son drowned. Then they posted the video they were recording right before he drowned. He survived miraculously, and they've been sharing his recovery.
don't that mean the nigga didn't drown?
FOH and I don't feel sorry for her loss and the posting of such loss!
piece of shit statement
She's lived very publicly. She didn't clam up after a devastating loss. Apparently, women love her for the transparency and it also helps them deal with their own losses.

I'd never do it. However, you'd be surprised at how much this helps people.
agreed. Niggas on this board average 62 years old, I think maybe it's generational
That's what your family is for, not social media.
Everybody does them
 

Spectrum

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That b&w bed photo was a bit much imo. But this is literally and figuratively their "business". They are celebs and social media stars, its their prerogative to post this if they choose.

My condolences.

And which one of you faggot ass niggas is @tameytam ? Y'all need to stop that shit man. :smh:

I saw John Legend talking about "Jack" on twitter and I thought he was giving a shout to the founder of Twitter..Clicked it and started reading and saw the pic. Sharing that moment is already a lot... but sharing the literal picture (and who takes a picture of that moment) was kind of weird... but she shares everything.

that's a tough loss... they'll never be the same :smh: i wonder how much this changes her posting style...she might not have the fire to post all the heat she used to post
 
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Camille

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I have mixed feelings. I think it's an overshare, but we live in a time when everything is posted now, and some people need support like that. She does have a following that likes to be involved. I'm not going to judge her for grieving how she needs to in order to get past this.

That said, it bothers me that that picture even exists. Who decides to take a picture or have their picture taken at the worst moment of their lives? I may just be ole, but that seems calculated to me.
 
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