Beyonce be like.....
Bro', Lavar Ball married a white woman and raised three kids with one. Does that brotha come off as weak to you?
Hell, I can speak for myself. A woman can't make you what you're not. Now, if you're one of those people who change depending on their environment, maybe.
My problem with dating sistas was, I always got combative, strong-willed ones who wanted their way in ways that I wasn't going for.
Almost all of my uncles and cousins are fucking henpecked. I absolutely refuse to be that guy, or live in conditions where I have to endure that shit from day to day. I got it enough from my mother. That woman is a total control freak, with unreasonable expectations. I dealt with when I HAD to.
I'm not with that bullshit that, just because I'm black, that that mean I should be cool with struggling on any level.
I've worked for years, like a damn maniac to build a comfortable life myself. I'm not going to struggle in business to come home to even more struggle. That just doesn't compute to me.
I don't even know why thats an option.
There is also a matter of, when I get too much shit from anybody, I start seeing red, and fucked up shit starts happening.
I'm built for peaceful living environments. I have my New Age music playing all the time. You come into my place, that bitch tranquil and comfortable as a motherfucker.
I don't know about cac's but Korean women are strong as fuck and don't take shit.
FohPeace,
I'll say it if no one else will: brothers who date non-black women long term turn into self-conscious cornballs.
went to an engagement party last month...that topic started a damn riot!!
I actually know a dude who changed HIS name to her last name.
Peace,
Completely true based on what I've seen.
#facepalmHis ex wife is a honda and he got Ferrari money shit wasn't adding up
yup I seen it one too many times bruh...
Maybe If you hangout with all crackas.Peace,
Completely true based on what I've seen. Like it or not, our identity as black men is inextricably tied to our relationships with our women.
Maybe I you hangout with all crackas.
Peace,
If she was fucking with a black prez though, it would have been a problem, right?
Interesting question:
1) unfortunately some of the black women who watch Scandal are those "swirl" broads who date white men just because they are white.
2. If it was a black president it wouldn't be a problem but also they would have that show on BET and not ABC.
Shit if it was a black man president cheating on a first lady WHO WAS WHITE. Then this could be some black women's breaking bad
But to answer your question in my opinion HELL MUTHAFUCKIN NO it wouldn't be a problem
she sucked his soul the fuck up.. gatdamn!!!!
I would bet a sizable amount of money that there is either a Becky lurking somewhere, or there will be one on his arm in the the not so distant future.
Hate to say it, but he don't even look like the type of nigga who date black women.
Good for you but your assumptions are beyond ridiculous.Peace,
I'm honestly very much like I portray myself on the board. I love black people and I don't fuck with any other race above my own. My wife is black. My children are black. My focus is on us.
Good for you but your assumptions are beyond ridiculous.
Militants one hour,adoration of non black women the next hour.
even analyzing the shyt...
yikes.
yes lavar ball comes off as weak and corny to me, he has no swag left.. he had to go back to a time he had some swag to come up
with that played out ballers bullshit....
I aint hatin on him, he doing what he doin,
him and his brand just seem corny and soulless to me...
Peace,
See, I think it would have been a huge problem, man. This program premiered when Obama was in office and the imagery of a black president having an affair would not have flown. I get that those stupid "swirl" sellouts dig the show, but I think casting a black president would have hit too close to home.
Ill Paragraph said:If you're not supporting black women, you're not supporting black families/people.
Peace,
Not assumptions at all though. I'm basing it on what I've witnessed over the years.
Too many cats are pro-black when it comes to opposing white aggression but soften up their stance completely when a non-black bitch walks into their space. If you're not supporting black women, you're not supporting black families/people.
To be fair "strong" black women who dont "need no (black) man" dont support black families/people either bruh. And shows like Scandal wouldnt be so popular if black women didnt have plantation fantasies.
Meanwhile Black women drool over Brad Pitt and Paul Walker. Do you know how many "Strong" black women I've heard say what they would do to those two white men? Humans like attractive people period. Unless you're some sort of coon you know what the fuck time it is.
SKATTA one post, another account the next
Lame. Fake ass islander nigga.
Those are the focused, driven, highly intellectual ones. No different than a dude who gets no play end up inventing some shit like Facebook or, better example, Steve Jobs, Oprah, and a host of others. Beauty can dull a person's drive since shit is always handed to them. I'll take a plain chick over these basic ass dimes posted on here.She is EXTRA plain. Damn near subpar. I'd divorce too
People tend to Marry who they connect and match with. Marry a person JUST because they are Black or White etc. Never works. NEVER. So just because you marry a Black woman doesn't mean things are going to workout and be some peaceful build. 70% of People get divorced no matter their racial make up. Breaking up a family is never a good thing and it happens even with two Black parents. If you can find a person who you can build with who gives a shit what made up race they are. Nobody wants to come home to a headache. We want a peaceful home no matter what race that person is.Peace,
Of course we like attractive people, but we should also be able to see it for what it is. For every sister who drools over a good looking white cat, scores of brothers chase after easy, usually overweight and marginally attractive white bitches. It's not even in the same category man. You know this.
Those are the focused, driven, highly intellectual ones. No different than a dude who gets no play end up inventing some shit like Facebook or, better example, Steve Jobs, Oprah, and a host of others. Beauty can dull a person's drive since shit is always handed to them. I'll take a plain chick over these basic ass dimes posted on here.
???#facepalm