Aww DAMN! Jesse Williams & Wife Divorcing After 5 Years UPDATE: Leaving Grey's Anatomy after 12 seasons!

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appears this is his new chick...

http://www.bgol.us/forum/index.php?threads/jessica-biel-vs-minka-kelly.932089/

Jeter leftovers.
They doing a movie.. it's not confirmed he messing with her
 

KingTaharqa

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Peace,



The Strong Black Women archetype developed out of necessity, not white-washed, misplaced feminism (as many cats on here seem to believe). Sisters aren't, by-and-large, by themselves because they don't want a brother. They're by themselves because brothers get destroyed by this racist system.

Bro you being naive. The white man showed black women a check in the 70s and they stepped away from the civil rights black power movements and got on some feminist shit with white women. Black women cut out the middle man (black men) and started getting social benefits, working directly for CACs in corporate jobs, getting these student loans to these bullshit for profit schools, etc. The only condition was no man could be present. Couple that with media & movies in the 80s (Color Purple), 90's (Ricki Lake, Waiting To Exhale), and 00's that depicted black men as no good, down low, etc, and it set the stage for today's "HOE I'll have a baby by anybody cuz I dont need a man" culture where black women get mad about any criticism and feel they should have 0 accountability to their children's future or our community as a whole. The funny thing is, sisters think because whitey gives them a job that makes them better than black men (who historically have always led unemployment from the end of slavery to today), yet white women gladly let them work them jobs while they ride around all day as soccer moms. They DONT want to work and still make more money then black women and are protected by the very men black women gladly take orders from. There's no dollar amount that black men could offer to asian women, white women, hispanic women to get them to turn on their men or scream loudly for 30 years "I dont need him". Black women the only ones who say that dumb bullshit and it gives us a clue as to why they have the lowest marriage rate on the planet. No other community props up "single moms" as the sacred lambs of their community either. Single moms get more respect in the black community than actual wives. :smh:

Question for you: which group in this country has held the black family down more than black women?

You're right they've held us down cuz they dont build shit (except for women) and are easily controlled and manipulated by white supremacy. American black society is a weak matriarchy. All powerful nations (including the US) are patriarchys and rely on the men to build and protect. Trump being elected highlighted this, CACs aint bout to empower their women over them they way they do ours over us. Even white bitches overwhelmingly voted for Trump. Patriarchy protects them and makes them the beauty standard. And it works to their advantage. Our women took a check and sold out the black family. Now that white supremacy no longer needs them and is starting to whoop their ass literally and kill them in the streets they want protection now.
 

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This is what they get for getting their pride and hope up, on a mans word who they are not fucking, they are almost as bad as the black guy who said all women ain't shit for getting him fired!
Look, unless he is your father, relative or man, any guy who bigs up a woman's head, calling her a queen or goddess, is full of shit (vice versa for women who do the same thing) because at the end of the day if you lose all your shit and need help from him, he is going to take care of his wife, child, mother/sister before your ass!!
If you want to be a black queen, go out and find you a black king, simple as that, don't hang your pride or fate on empty words from a guy you know nothing about, trying to score brownie points.
 

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If be does date a white woman
That's not a thing anymore
We all decided that with Serena
He gon go with who feeds him intellectually. He's clearly isn't a superficial dude. He's a thinker. Probably got a library in his crib. I can't stand a chick that don't read or feed me in conversation. He need to take a while and just grow and live as a man. Find himself.
 

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You think a man whose will to unapologetically criticize sacred crowds of sports, and challenge the sports establishment, and do it in the face of public scrutiny is weak?

Alright, bro'.

This is entirely too subjective to be a substantive argument.

As for him being a cornball? That matters to who it matters to.

I don't a man's worth in life by whether I consider him corny or not. Barack Obama is corny to me, but I'd rather have his accomplishments in life than probably 99,9 percent of the people I don't consider corny.

he is a great business man and his challanges are self centered around

his children success whom he is tryin to live through and profit off of, I aint hating after all its capitalism and the american way..

but he still comes off as someone who hasnt matured to his full potential, he seems swagless... like a sense of manhood is missing,

its like instead of being the strong fiqure behind the scenes he wants to pose all in the photos takin a lot of the spotlight off his children and makin it more about him and his opinions... which may work while they are young but I dont see it lasting long as they mature..

its like michael jordan... he used be the king of swag, back in the day..

since he jumped in the "swirl" game, he seems so corny now with his baggy jeans with the holes in them....

most black men lose something when they jump ship.... they have a better chance of gettin close to the inner circle and making a lot of loot, but they lose something in the process...
 

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I was going to clown you. But Allah hath restrained me. Because you actually have a damn good point.
You must be a student of the Messenger who is the Honorable Elijah Muhammad.
Obviously you must know that the white man is the devil.
Lmao! I'm atheist as fuck!
The most successful people have ugly ass yearbook pictures. Let that marinate. The others was prom king or queen, but had no real direction in life other than to remain popular. perfect example is needs. Look at the billionaires around the world. Zuckerberg, Jobs, on and on. They focus. Develop. They have vision.
 

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fam...

this is MUCH more common than you think.

you aint lyin at all.....

same goes for sisters too, that actress that married that caucazoid singer, who

got sued by marvin gayes estate.. there was something sexy about her

boney ass before she got married.. now she seemed to have lost something and seems so bland...
 

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He gon go with who feeds him intellectually. He's clearly isn't a superficial dude. He's a thinker. Probably got a library in his crib. I can't stand a chick that don't read or feed me in conversation. He need to take a while and just grow and live as a man. Find himself.
I'm not going to speculate why he's leaving his wife there could be a myriad of factors of which we won't ever be privy to.
I am just saying whoever he ends up with nobody can say shit.
 

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dating a white woman....? thought he was all militant....:dunno:


Williams is the youngest member of the board of directors at The Advancement Project, a civil rights think tank and advocacy group. He is also the executive producer of Question Bridge: Black Males, a multifaceted media project, art exhibition, student and teacher curriculum and website,[21] focused on the black male identity and the diversity within the demographic. He has written articles for CNN[22] and The Huffington Post,[23] and has been a guest on Wolf Blitzer's The Situation Room.

In June 2016, Williams won the humanitarian award at the 2016 BET Awards, delivering a speech highlighting racial injustice and police brutality.[24] As a result of his speech, there are dueling petitions: one to have Williams fired from Grey's Anatomy and one to keep him on the series.[25]
 

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but black women have been at the forefront of black lives matter movement from day 1 tho...

ur letting ur own isues w/ black women cloud ur judgement.

WTF is black lives matter? :lol: Some shit to scare white folks to the polls last November? That shit was started by some gays and Soros and has a gay intersectionalist agenda. Im talking bout BLACK empowerment.

I dont have issues with black women. I have a mother, a sister, a fiancee. Yall always pull that lame card. Do these sisters bitching bout Jesse have issues with black men? Does Serena hate her dad? This fat ugly white women lesbian feminism has been handed down 3 generations to black women and the men they raise to devalue black men. And its worked like a charm. I come from a patriarchal family, we dont ride with that. Men lead.
 

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Is Something Brewing Between a Newly-Single Jesse Williams and Minka Kelly?
Jesse Williams has been separated from his wife for over a year, and sources say that he’s been spending a whole lot of quality time with Minka Kelly

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Last week, Williams filed to end his five-year marriage with Aryn Drake-Lee, his significant other of 13 years.

TMZ reports:

As for Minka, they’re shooting a video game/movie in Paris and have been seen both on and off set for the last few months, but no one’s saying if it’s anything more than a friendship.

A lot of Jesse’s fans are upset he’s moving on, but a source connected with the couple tells TMZ … as far as Jesse’s concerned, the relationship has “played itself out.” We’re told Aryn, on the other hand, does not want the divorce.


http://www.celebuzz.com/2017-04-25/jesse-williams-minka-kelly-together-during-divorce/


[wife don't even want the divorce, that's foul... They gonna eat him up on social media]
 

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he is a great business man and his challanges are self centered around

his children success whom he is tryin to live through and profit off of, I aint hating after all its capitalism and the american way..

but he still comes off as someone who hasnt matured to his full potential, he seems swagless... like a sense of manhood is missing,

its like instead of being the strong fiqure behind the scenes he wants to pose all in the photos takin a lot of the spotlight off his children and makin it more about him and his opinions... which may work while they are young but I dont see it lasting long as they mature..

its like michael jordan... he used be the king of swag, back in the day..

since he jumped in the "swirl" game, he seems so corny now with his baggy jeans with the holes in them....

most black men lose something when they jump ship.... they have a better chance of gettin close to the inner circle and making a lot of loot, but they lose something in the process...

lol.

Want me to keep it a buck? You lose the pressure black people put on your to be 'cool'. Lets not pretend like black folks don't feel we have a monopoly on swag. You have to carry yourself in a certain way to not be socially ostracized as a black person. There is more flexibility for individuality outside of the black community. I'm just keeping it real with you.

Think about this: Whether you're talking about the brokest, sister/brother fucking redneck, or the snobbiest, old money white person ...

...you are white. Your whiteness is not questioned. Your WORTH may be questioned, but not your whitness. In OUR community, that is NOT the case. We always try to play stupid when people say this, but we equate blackness with struggle and the culture that was borne out of said struggle. The further removed someone is from that in terms of mannerisms, manner of speaking, etc, etc. ... the less black they're considered to be. Its pointless to even deny it, because we've all seen and heard the shit our entire lives. Our upper class don't in ANY WAY define blackness, and that is unique to almost every race/ethnic group, because most people embrace their upper class no matter what. If you're going to be embraced by the lower class in our community, you had to come out of it and still exhibit signs that you came from it.

So, yes ...

...dudes who ain't dyed in the cloth 'cool', they feel free to stop being so black, 'cause the environments they're in don't care about that.

I ain't saying I'm exempt from that thinking, because I was damn sure raised on that type of thinking.
 
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Bro you being naive. The white man showed black women a check in the 70s and they stepped away from the civil rights black power movements and got on some feminist shit with white women. Black women cut out the middle man (black men) and started getting social benefits, working directly for CACs in corporate jobs, getting these student loans to these bullshit for profit schools, etc. The only condition was no man could be present. Couple that with media & movies in the 80s (Color Purple), 90's (Ricki Lake, Waiting To Exhale), and 00's that depicted black men as no good, down low, etc, and it set the stage for today's "HOE I'll have a baby by anybody cuz I dont need a man" culture where black women get mad about any criticism and feel they should have 0 accountability to their children's future or our community as a whole. The funny thing is, sisters think because whitey gives them a job that makes them better than black men (who historically have always led unemployment from the end of slavery to today), yet white women gladly let them work them jobs while they ride around all day as soccer moms. They DONT want to work and still make more money then black women and are protected by the very men black women gladly take orders from. There's no dollar amount that black men could offer to asian women, white women, hispanic women to get them to turn on their men or scream loudly for 30 years "I dont need him". Black women the only ones who say that dumb bullshit and it gives us a clue as to why they have the lowest marriage rate on the planet. No other community props up "single moms" as the sacred lambs of their community either. Single moms get more respect in the black community than actual wives. :smh:

If this is what you and other cats truly believe, I can see why there's so much anti-black woman sentiment on this board. NOBODY cut black women a fucking check, bruh. We (our fathers, uncles, brothers) were systematically removed from the equation via a perfect storm of drug addiction, criminalization and over sexualization. White America was wholly responsible for our removal from our communities, not black women. Once most of our present and future black revolutionaries were gone, black women were left to pick up the pieces and care for OUR families. Black women filled both parental roles and had to become independent. This independent spirit that you and other cats lament is a result of our disappearance, it didn't cause it. The fact that you actually blame black women for this (or that you assume black women as a collective decided to side with white feminists instead of us) is both ridiculous and dangerous. It pits us against one another and plays directly into the hands of the very people who have tried to destroy us for centuries.

You're right they've held us down cuz they dont build shit (except for women) and are easily controlled and manipulated by white supremacy. American black society is a weak matriarchy. All powerful nations (including the US) are patriarchys and rely on the men to build and protect. Trump being elected highlighted this, CACs aint bout to empower their women over them they way they do ours over us. Even white bitches overwhelmingly voted for Trump. Patriarchy protects them and makes them the beauty standard. And it works to their advantage. Our women took a check and sold out the black family. Now that white supremacy no longer needs them and is starting to whoop their ass literally and kill them in the streets they want protection now.

Again, this de facto matriarchy was created by a racist state that eliminated our ability to build communities and enact real revolution. I'm still trying to figure out what check you're talking about.
 

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Peace,

im talking about the ppl who hit the streets protesting police killings. the ppl who set the stage for any movement we've seen on police brutality.

i dont know nor care about "sisters bitching about jesse". i dont involve myself in shit like that. u can gossip w/ the hens fam. its too bad the dudes marriage isnt working. other than that, it aint any of my biz.

my point is, black women haven't stepped away from anything. real ones have been down since day 1 and help raise daughters who are still down today. if u dont have that around u maybe u need to change ur situation... or maybe let ur mom sister & fiancee step out of the kitchen from time to time. they have ideas too. who knows, they may have something dope to bring to the table that u never really considered.

:smh: at the irony of this VERY BASIC MESSAGE having to be explained on "Black Girl Online."
 

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Peace,



If this is what you and other cats truly believe, I can see why there's so much anti-black woman sentiment on this board. NOBODY cut black women a fucking check, bruh. We (our fathers, uncles, brothers) were systematically removed from the equation via a perfect storm of drug addiction, criminalization and over sexualization. White America was wholly responsible for our removal from our communities, not black women. Once most of our present and future black revolutionaries were gone, black women were left to pick up the pieces and care for OUR families. Black women filled both parental roles and had to become independent. This independent spirit that you and other cats lament is a result of our disappearance, it didn't cause it. The fact that you actually blame black women for this (or that you assume black women as a collective decided to side with white feminists instead of us) is both ridiculous and dangerous. It pits us against one another and plays directly into the hands of the very people who have tried to destroy us for centuries.

Bro, if black women were living all alone by themselves I would buy this. But how the fuck are these women having babies? Most black women who are single mothers got more than 1 baby daddy statiscally. So alot of them are SHARING men. Bro, black men are out here, everywhere. There's more brothers graduating from school, owning businesses, controlling resources today than EVER before in history. That's a fact. And yet this notion that there just isnt enough "good men" is passed off. Thats bullshit bro. These women are CHOOSING to live independent lifestyles. They want to run their own households and that is the natural instinct for them. Listening to their men is NOT, and most truthful women will tell you that. They have to coax themselves into following a black man. But if I put them in front of a white cop, a white judge, a white teacher in college, or white boss at their job, their position is starkly different. So its not that they hate patriarchy they hate BLACK MALE patriarchy. Whenever a CAC wants to bring down a brother who is popular amongst other black men, who does he get to do the dirty work?



Again, this de facto matriarchy was created by a racist state that eliminated our ability to build communities and enact real revolution. I'm still trying to figure out what check you're talking about.

The check is coming from these jobs that they work were they make less than every other woman. The check is coming in the form of student loans to these bullshit for profit schools. The check is coming from various family and social benefits that did not exist in Jim Crow or pre-Civil Rights America. Thats why your great grandmama wasnt hollaring "I dont need a man", your great grandma wasnt flaunting getting knocked up before she's married either, that shit was frowned on. She couldnt work for CACs unless she was cleaning they house, wasnt no mid management job waiting for her to fund her "independent" lifestyle.
 

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im talking about the ppl who hit the streets protesting police killings. the ppl who set the stage for any movement we've seen on police brutality.

What legislation has black lives matter gotten enacted that has prevented police brutality? How many cops they gotten locked up over police brutality? Has police brutality stopped since they've been "protesting"?

i dont know nor care about "sisters bitching about jesse". i dont involve myself in shit like that. u can gossip w/ the hens fam. its too bad the dudes marriage isnt working. other than that, it aint any of my biz.

my point is, black women haven't stepped away from anything. real ones have been down since day 1 and help raise daughters who are still down today. if u dont have that around u maybe u need to change ur situation... or maybe let ur mom sister & fiancee step out of the kitchen from time to time. they have ideas too. who knows, they may have something dope to bring to the table that u never really considered.

And real black men been here from day 1 holding down their families and building shit, yet yall passing off this bullshit narrative they all locked up or dont exist. The same narrative white supremacy has for us. Black men are accountable to their community and should be held to a standard. The same applies to black women. They are not above reproach and should be called out on the bullshit. Just because one doesnt SIMP for black women or tell them everything they do is OK doesnt mean they hate them or have issues with them. The sisters I have around me agree with my sentiment and see the fuckery for what it is. They believe in patriarchy too.
 

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Peace,



See, I think it would have been a huge problem, man. This program premiered when Obama was in office and the imagery of a black president having an affair would not have flown. I get that those stupid "swirl" sellouts dig the show, but I think casting a black president would have hit too close to home.

They wanted it to be a black president but she specifically said she didn't want it to be a black president because of that exact issue. Because Obama was in office and this show didn't need to add to the heat that it was going to give it.
Which was a very smart move on her part (Kerry Washington) because the show took off and it would not have stopped the divorce rumors and questions that they like to throw out there based on fake shit
It would have been "Is Scandal mirroring the real life of Obama and Michelle?' then they would've picked ANY random assistant and made HER olivia pope.
 

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Is Something Brewing Between a Newly-Single Jesse Williams and Minka Kelly?
Jesse Williams has been separated from his wife for over a year, and sources say that he’s been spending a whole lot of quality time with Minka Kelly

0425-jesse-williams-minka-kelly-aryn-drake-lee-tmz-getty-4.jpg

minka-kelly-jesse-williams-new-couple-alert-42517-1493134668.jpg


Last week, Williams filed to end his five-year marriage with Aryn Drake-Lee, his significant other of 13 years.

TMZ reports:

As for Minka, they’re shooting a video game/movie in Paris and have been seen both on and off set for the last few months, but no one’s saying if it’s anything more than a friendship.

A lot of Jesse’s fans are upset he’s moving on, but a source connected with the couple tells TMZ … as far as Jesse’s concerned, the relationship has “played itself out.” We’re told Aryn, on the other hand, does not want the divorce.


http://www.celebuzz.com/2017-04-25/jesse-williams-minka-kelly-together-during-divorce/


[wife don't even want the divorce, that's foul... They gonna eat him up on social media]

See how that works?

They been separated for over a year
and in the quest to dig dirt they toss out a name

It's no different than when those cac bastard's release their annual "Will and Jada are breaking up" report to try and wish the shit into existence.

Every year they say this time it's over and try to build a story and get the clicks not caring that these are real people

and every year they gotta respond and say its not true
 

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lol.

Want me to keep it a buck? You lose the pressure black people put on your to be 'cool'. Lets not pretend like black folks don't feel we have a monopoly on swag. You have to carry yourself in a certain way to not be socially ostracized as a black person. There is more flexibility for individuality outside of the black community. I'm just keeping it real with you.

Think about this: Whether you're talking about the brokest, sister/brother fucking redneck, or the snobbiest, old money white person ...

...you are white. Your whiteness is not questioned. Your WORTH may be questioned, but not your whitness. In OUR community, that is NOT the case. We always try to play stupid when people say this, but we equate blackness with struggle and the culture that was borne out of said struggle. The further removed someone is from that in terms of mannerisms, manner of speaking, etc, etc. ... the less black they're considered to be. Its pointless to even deny it, because we've all seen and heard the shit our entire lives. Our upper class don't in ANY WAY define blackness, and that is unique to almost every race/ethnic group, because most people embrace their upper class no matter what. If you're going to be embraced by the lower class in our community, you had to come out of it and still exhibit signs that you came from it.

So, yes ...

...dudes who ain't dyed in the cloth 'cool', they feel free to stop being so black, 'cause the environments they're in don't care about that.

I ain't saying I'm exempt from thinking, because I was damn sure raised on that type of thinking.
I agree with this... Its like being raised black in America is tantamount to living an existence where it more important to appear to have money than it is to actually be successful in life. Where's-by if you look like you don't have shit, you ain't shit.
This is where swag, style being cool comes in, to me its really nothing but a piece of baggage that saps away our happiness and sense of freedom..
Matter fact I believe many blacks are attracted to other races and people from other countries due to the fact that with them they find that they no longer have to play the bullshit cool game, and still be respected..

When I go out to Trinidad and Tobago (especially in the deep country) I notice that folks appear to be much happier, even with less money... One reason why is that they are free to be themselves and do no live in the constant fear of being judged, like we are over here. Over there, they usually do things to make them happy and less to impress other people, the dichotomy between our thinking and theirs is as great as the levels of happiness between us.

As the result we wind up feeling empty, poor self esteem (knowing deep inside that we are living a lie will do that to you), while all they care about is enjoying life and having fun..
This is why I especially say to Black people especially our women we really need to spend less time trying to gain acceptance of people who they are not fucking (by looking, buying and acting a certain way) and spend more time doing real things that can make them happy...
Get a hobby, learn a craft, sure shopping and getting your hair may be quick fixes to making them feel good but in the long run they are very empty and shallow and once the initial buzz wear off, their self esteem winds up taking a beating till the next fix. In other words do things that make you feel good and less buying thing or living a life to impress others..

At the end of the day, not everyone is going to be rich, not everyone is going to live in luxury, not everyone is going to look like that dime, so instead of trying to trick people in to believing this is how you are living, we need to say fuck them and spend more time doing things that you actually like..
Think about it, life is way too short for stupid bullshit games that will only get you down, so why not live life instead of seeking empty shortcuts to boost your self esteem!!!
 

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It aint too many on this planet fucking with Minka Kelly. On another note though Idk all that you saying about Korean women, from the korean folks I know always said they moms was getting their ass beat by pops and it was just regular korean shit. Seems like Korean men be like the Japanese on some making their bitches submissive types

Good lawd she a dime.
 

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This movies was released in 1974.



Aid to Families with Dependent Children

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aid_to_Families_with_Dependent_Children

History

The program was created under the name Aid to Dependent Children (ADC) by the Social Security Act of 1935 as part of the New Deal. ADC dispensed scant relief to poor single mothers.
The federal government authorized case workers, supervisors, and administrators with discretion to determine who received aid and how much. ADC was primarily created for white single mothers who were expected not to work. Black mothers who had always been in the labor force were not considered eligible to receive benefits.[3]The words "families with" were added to the name in 1962, partly due to concern that the program's rules discouraged marriage.[4][page needed]

The Civil Rights Movement and the efforts of the National Welfare Rights Organization (NWRO) in the 1960s expanded the scope of welfare entitlements to include black women. The welfare rolls racial demographics changed drastically. The majority of welfare recipients still remained white and most black women recipients continued to work.[3]

Starting in 1962, the Department of Health and Human Services allowed state-specific exemptions as long as the change was "in the spirit of AFDC" in order to allow some experimentation. By 1996 spending was $24 billion per year. When adjusted for inflation, the highest spending was in 1976, which exceeded 1996 spending by about 8%.[5]
 

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went to an engagement party last month...that topic started a damn riot!!

I actually know a dude who changed HIS name to her last name.
lol 1 of my jewish teachers in highschool did that..i clowned him consistantly for that..i use to call him mrs..use to say he go makes sandwiches after sex..he got a pink apron that he makes dinner in.. all kinda insulted shit
 

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Bro', Lavar Ball married a white woman and raised three kids with one. Does that brotha come off as weak to you?

Hell, I can speak for myself. A woman can't make you what you're not. Now, if you're one of those people who change depending on their environment, maybe.

My problem with dating sistas was, I always got combative, strong-willed ones who wanted their way in ways that I wasn't going for.

Almost all of my uncles and cousins are fucking henpecked. I absolutely refuse to be that guy, or live in conditions where I have to endure that shit from day to day. I got it enough from my mother. That woman is a total control freak, with unreasonable expectations. I dealt with when I HAD to.

I'm not with that bullshit that, just because I'm black, that that mean I should be cool with struggling on any level.

I've worked for years, like a damn maniac to build a comfortable life myself. I'm not going to struggle in business to come home to even more struggle. That just doesn't compute to me.

I don't even know why thats an option.

There is also a matter of, when I get too much shit from anybody, I start seeing red, and fucked up shit starts happening.

I'm built for peaceful living environments. I have my New Age music playing all the time. You come into my place, that bitch tranquil and comfortable as a motherfucker.
feeling guilty huh?
 

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It aint too many on this planet fucking with Minka Kelly. On another note though Idk all that you saying about Korean women, from the korean folks I know always said they moms was getting their ass beat by pops and it was just regular korean shit. Seems like Korean men be like the Japanese on some making their bitches submissive types
All types of women can get beat. But the ones I know will cut you with a razor.
 

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feeling guilty huh?


Why wouldn't I feel guilty?

When you consider yourself pro-black, but wake up one day and realize, after 30 years of only dealing with black women, you're almost exclusively attracted to white women, its going to throw you off-center.
 
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