Naw, just a black man that have nor had any problems attracting and maintaining relationships with black women. Frankly, I'm baffled by those black men who can't.
...get ready for the bullshit comments man...you're bashing black women, you're gay, you really want a white woman, white people do it to, where's the solution...etc ...the real issue is that black women and black men need to throw all theirs egos out of the window....so we can get to the root of the problem...both parties are not trying to listen and because of that the cycle will never end.....o Yea... I co-sign 100000%
Alot of black women may be this or that but some of you cats need counseling... straight up. The constant whining and complaining is not the move. If you walk around with these feelings it only ensures that no self respecting women is gonna fuck with you anyway. Your negative feelings towards black women will keep the real ones away from you. Just like the chick that walks around with a "niggas aint shit" mentality probably doesnt have a snowballs chance in hell of fuckin with me. Those negative emotions fuckup your whole mental state. Comes across in your actions... Let it go.
Alot of black women may be this or that but some of you cats need counseling... straight up. The constant whining and complaining is not the move. If you walk around with these feelings it only ensures that no self respecting women is gonna fuck with you anyway. Your negative feelings towards black women will keep the real ones away from you. Just like the chick that walks around with a "niggas aint shit" mentality probably doesnt have a snowballs chance in hell of fuckin with me. Those negative emotions fuckup your whole mental state. Comes across in your actions... Let it go.
Ya'll lose me every time with that. Every time. It's so obvious.
Wrote all that, just to ask one question and your looking in the wrong place for the answer.
The root of the problem is white people.
Fixed.
why do you assume that the black men that are complaining don't have success with black women?
Black men have to start having this discussion.
Well, black men are doing a pretty good job of stopping black women, ... by murdering (and assaulting) them at a much higher rate than any other male group does its women.
(Nevermind abandoning them with childen at a higher rate than any other group.)
Look in the mirror.
Why else would they [the black men complaining] complain?? To someone who has had and have success with black women "black women destroying the black community" is absurb and a non-issue.
I never knew there were this many bitch-niggaz on this board and I've been here for Yeeeeaaaarrrrss well before my "join date"
The O.P. says that Black Women are single handedly destroying our community BUT Black Men are the backbone of the community....:....fool, did you read what you just wrote??
How can WE claim to be the backbone of the community but allow our women to destroy it...shit is an oxymoron.
why do you assume that the black men that are complaining don't have success with black women?
The discussion you need to have is with yourself.
Nice try. But not gonna work.
If people can come on to a deadblasted PORN BOARD and ask RELIGIOUS questions.
I feel more than right coming to a board with mostly bruthas like myself and discussing what's going on in my community.
Black men have to start having this discussion. We can't keep accepting blame for shit we aren't doing. We surely can't solve the problem that way.
Oh, that's because you are complaining about what black women are attracted to. If they were attracted to you, you wouldn't complain about it.
I'm not complaining. They are attracted to me.
Black men that act a fool; thuggin', doggin', etc. aren't exactly entirely innocent either. Solution? I ignore how these simple minded niggas and bitches interact, and worry about what i'm doing. Any woman hypnotized by that immature, thug shit, is not someone i'm trying to wife. I have no sympathy for people that end up in piss-poor relationships. Keep it moving.
Well, black men are doing a pretty good job of stopping black women, ... by murdering (and assaulting) them at a much higher rate than any other male group does its women.
(Nevermind abandoning them with childen at a higher rate than any other group.)
Look in the mirror.
No, he's getting shot. And his mother should be shot for raising the lil bitch. And the father should be shot for not being there to help raise him right. And the OP should be shot for bringing this undying, never ever going to be resolved in our community topic up.A lil nigga from the hood born in a single mother house hold comes and robs yo ass, you be complaining then.
I bet that whole fuckin room smelled like...
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black women are causing global warming.
No, he's getting shot. And his mother should be shot for raising the lil bitch. And the father should be shot for not being there to help raise him right. And the OP should be shot for bringing this undying, never ever going to be resolved in our community topic up.
Uh...
I disagree, but your experiences must have been jacked. You're obviously hurt. It'll be OK.
But let me give you some insight. And take it from someone who was seen as the "Bad Boy" that had no problem getting black women.
You know why black women go for the thugs and bad-boys? Two things: They're challenging and there's some security. Simps, to a black woman, is a man that is as predictable as simple math. And they have no edge to themselves. They're simps, or simple, or predictable.
Oh, and they have no swagger. That quiet overt confidence that says that you aren't the person to be fucked with. In other words, it goes to the basic question: If you're in a club and Mike Tyson grabs your girls ass and calls her a ho, what would you do? Or, what does your girl think you would do? If you try to weasel out of fighting Mike Tyson, or you pretend that you aren't with her, then she thinks you are a simp. But if she thinks you would step up and protect her, then that's what the kind of guy that she would want.
Go back and read the thread. I can act like I don't care if my wife goes and hangs out; but if she calls me about some craziness, she knows that it would be handled. If the black woman doesn't have that kind of security, she moves on.
Co-sign and that goes for all women.
I would love to agree with the hurt OP but that horse has been ridden by damn near every fucking logical person on this board into the ground including myself...
So much so that I will not bother to post in anymore "black women are fucking up" threads.
I no longer care to care to give insight or opinion. Nothing more can be said on it... Black already collectively know their shit aint right. They just don't care to change it.
Fuck em.
*two cents*
Oh, shit.I bet that whole fuckin room smelled like...
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BULLSHIT!! ...BULLSHIT!!! ...BULLSHIIEEEETTT!!!
See??? It's females like this that make me post the thread!!!
BLACK MEN aren't doing any that shit. Black MALES are!!!
Look at the relationships those women were in. They weren't in those relationships with stable black MEN. No in the majority of those cases, they were in relationships with black MALES ie THUGS and BADBOYS!!