Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop them.
You may think I'm not joking. I'm not. I'm being dead serious.
I'm tired of hearing about how women are the backbone of the community. That's a lie. Black men are the backbone of the community.
I am tired of hearing men are the problem in the black community. No actually it's the black females.
And I'm sure as hell am tired of hearing that there aren't enough black men in the home. This is of course black women's fault. If they would go out and bring MEN into the homes, this wouldn't be a problem. But they don't bring MEN into the homes, instead they go out and chase THUGS and DOGS and bring them into the home.
If they would stop dating and chasing thugs and dogs, that wouldn't be happening, As a matter of fact it is this chasing of thugs and dogs and choosing them over good black men, or the nice guys, that is the epicenter of a great many problem in the black community. What's worse, it has lead to problems that, left unchecked, could actually lead to the demise of the black community as whole.
Now let's break down the problem...
A lot of women who think it is ok to chase dogs and thugs and badboys. And what's worse feel it is ok to pass over generally good dudes. Or worse yet feel it ok to use or abuse or mistreat the positive brotha because they feel he is a simp or that he's weak.
They then feel entitled, after all this is over, to have people feel sorry for them when their badboy boyfriends mistreat them, and to expect good men to come take up the slack and give them the life that they want.
It is this mentality that is the problem.
It's not black men, but black women who are destroying the black community with this.
Black women spend all their time chasing thugs and dogs and turning their noses up to the "nice guy".
I've seen women, both hood rat and college educated, crawl through crowds of good men to get to the dog or thug at the back of the room.
Then five, ten years later...
now that they're fat and flabby,
got three or four kids, and two or three baby daddies,
and now, that they're pushing thir- perry menopause...
Now all of a sudden they want a "good man".
"Oh! Oh! Where are the good men at?" They ask.
My response... "Why? You weren't looking for a good man before."
Here's the deal you don't want a good man. You still want the thugs and bad boys, but they aren't going to put up with your shit or help raise your kids, so now you looking for a good man.
Oh really....
Hmph...
Fellas let me translate.
Where are all the good men at??
Translation: Where are all the simps at? Where are all those men we used to bypass and turn our noses up at because we thought they were weak and we wanted thugs instead??? They couldn't have possibly gone on with their lives??? Right??"
Well guess what? We have gone on. And we don't want women like you? As Tariq Nasheed said, Our stock has gone up, your stock has gone down. The idea that we were always going to be hanging around waiting for you women to stop dating thugs and get with us is absurd. (even though this is what you believed)
Most of us have gotten college degrees, got well paying jobs, and are dating beautiful women of multiple races.
We don't want women like you.
And that's fine because for a long time you didn't want men like us... but nowwww yooou doooo!
Too bad babes. Accept the fact that this is
your fault and move on.
Women will ask...
"What's wrong with dating a woman that has a child if you wanted to date her now that she has a child? You obviously wanted her so what's different. . .oh it would hurt your pride to want a female."
But my answer to women is simply this...
I'm not put here to help take care of some
other man's child.
I know women find this hard to understand, but that's not really not why we're here.
Evolution (or creation) dictates that we reproduce and raise our own kids.
As women, you don't seem to understand this. This is why you keep wanting to reproduce with the thug population, and then getting us the good men, whom you don't want to want to reproduce with to raise them.
Or in other words, you don't want want to have the nice guy's kids, you want to have the thug's kids, but you want the nice guys to raise them.
This of course produces a problem. And it's unfair.
First the problem...
I had a white friend ask me, what is going on in the black community? We noticed that there is a whole section of the black male populace that isn't reproducing, ie the the nice good men, meanwhile the thug populace is getting their seed out and reproducing. This over time will degrade the type of offspring in the black community.
Now why this is unfair...
Black women want to date thugs and have their kids but they don't want to have ours. I can't tell you how many times I've heard a black woman say" Hmmph, I've already had all the kids I'm going to have" or " I've got my tubes tied!"
Sooo... You get to pass along your genes and the thugs get to pass along their genes, but the good men are only good for spending money??? Fuck that. Has it dawned on you we want to reproduce and pass along our genes too???
But collectively as a group black women have decided to reward thuggatry and punish being a good man, by allowing the thugs to reproduce and by telling good men that we have to just be there to make sure everybody else's offspring survives.
To deny that would mean I am not acknowledging my faults which means I can't move on to being a better woman. That is what I am asking the OP to do ... take a look at himself and other Black men as well ... we all have contributed to the problems so we all together need to fix it
