Caught my 12 year old son going to porn sites

TooTrilla

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Can you imagine a 12 year old Jackson Walsh with today's technology at his fingertips? I would have been choking bitches out before my mustache grew in. :yes:


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and then become limp dick by 18. Porn is bad.
 

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I wonder what is the difference between the dynamic that brought me and others here in our teens and early 20s 20 years ago vs BGOL as an old folks club today.
the 90s was such a time for change. We were alive when peep shows were a thing. cats paying money to jerk off in a room at a porn store. We had to sneak and watch dvds. BGOL combined it all, it was new, it was black. If i was 20 i wouldnt be here arguing about trump and ados. I wouldnt even know cats are doing that lol. We are only here out of habit/loyalty. We are all getting old and soon to be off this. I dont see bgol as a thing in the near future
 

TooTrilla

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if you found some porn when you were 12 years old in our day, it was a magazine or a VHS porn. Twelve year-olds today can watch any fucking thing on their phone in their room and never get caught. You telling me that shit don't fuck the brain up? They've already reported that a lot of these dudes in their 20s gotta use Viagra because of porn.
 

jawnswoop

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if you found some porn when you were 12 years old in our day, it was a magazine or a VHS porn. Twelve year-olds today can watch any fucking thing on their phone in their room and never get caught. You telling me that shit don't fuck the brain up? They've already reported that a lot of these dudes in their 20s gotta use Viagra because of porn.
I don't believe porn is the reason for niggas needing Viagra because they say as men get older their testosterone starts to get lower.
 
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cold-n-cocky

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Porn. Music with cussin’. Taliban-like execution videos. Thot (Sexy Redd) music videos.

I tried to keep it all away from mine.

Then they began middle school and started riding the bus everyday.

At that point, it became less avoidance and more education on cause/effect/how/why. What Ive been trying to avoid them seeing and hearing, other kids’ phones provide access to.
 

ny1800

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if you found some porn when you were 12 years old in our day, it was a magazine or a VHS porn. Twelve year-olds today can watch any fucking thing on their phone in their room and never get caught. You telling me that shit don't fuck the brain up? They've already reported that a lot of these dudes in their 20s gotta use Viagra because of porn.

Dawg I saw porn before the age of 12 due to me finding my pop's stash. I have never used any pill to fuck ever. The only way I can see your point is if a kid was beatin off 4-5x a day for years nonstop. It would have to be an extreme scenario. Most boys have seen porn before 12 and did the knuckle shuffle to that porn. I know they say it can distort your brain into thinking women are just for fucking and they all should have big tits and phat asses. The majority of dudes I knew growing up had girlfriends of all shapes and some were fuckin and some were not. Porn never played a part in it nor determined anything for them. I can see an overweight, never exercise, always wackin' off dude going through what you talking about fasho but that's the minority. I don't advocate young boys watching porn but if they do and its women they watching I'm not mad at them.
 

jawnswoop

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I said 20's...thats not old
That's way too young for people to be taking that shit but I'm saying the older a person gets that's when they need that shit. But people thinking porn have people taking Viagra is crazy unless they have proof with percentages that porn is affecting their lives to stay up.
 

VAiz4hustlaz

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I couldn't say it better than that, I don't even watch porn everyday, but even when I do it's for enjoyment..If porn is causing problems in people's lives then they need to seek help. I think the brotha was doing to much calling porn an addiction because if a person really wants to stop watching porn altogether then they can and never look back. Porn can never make someone an addict unless you allow it to. Also, you can learn some things from porn since now they have educational stuff uncensored to show people how to step their sex game up or get creative in the bedroom to spice things up with your S/O.

Man, porn can be addictive the same way other things can be addictive -- it stimulates dopamine production and the pleasure centers of the brain. No different than what cocaine does. And it's much cheaper!! :D

Also, keep in mind that the OP says his son is 12 years old! So the kid is on the verge of puberty and his brain and body are about to be flooded with testosterone and other hormones anyway. Those are impactful years. There's a reason why you always recall the music and movies from your teenage years.

And you say you can "learn things" from porn. Perhaps you can. But many of those things can be negative or "out there." Look at how Zodism flooded porn. I remember vid titles that bragged "anal only" and "no vag" like that was an accomplishment. Now you got dudes kicking their legs in the air and getting their asses ate. Women getting slapped and roughed up or pissed on. And all of that is easily accessible. But then you have the kind of shit lightbright is into - the kind you can only find on the "dark web" or underground message boards. :hmm::(:puke:

Point is, shit is far beyond just looking a bad bitch masturbating or getting fucked. The "Black Tail" days been gone!
 

playahaitian

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Man, porn can be addictive the same way other things can be addictive -- it stimulates dopamine production and the pleasure centers of the brain. No different than what cocaine does. And it's much cheaper!! :D

Also, keep in mind that the OP says his son is 12 years old! So the kid is on the verge of puberty and his brain and body are about to be flooded with testosterone and other hormones anyway. Those are impactful years. There's a reason why you always recall the music and movies from your teenage years.

And you say you can "learn things" from porn. Perhaps you can. But many of those things can be negative or "out there." Look at how Zodism flooded porn. I remember vid titles that bragged "anal only" and "no vag" like that was an accomplishment. Now you got dudes kicking their legs in the air and getting their asses ate. Women getting slapped and roughed up or pissed on. And all of that is easily accessible. But then you have the kind of shit lightbright is into - the kind you can only find on the "dark web" or underground message boards. :hmm::(:puke:

Point is, shit is far beyond just looking a bad bitch masturbating or getting fucked. The "Black Tail" days been gone!

Damn. You not wrong.
 

SamSneed

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Man, porn can be addictive the same way other things can be addictive -- it stimulates dopamine production and the pleasure centers of the brain. No different than what cocaine does. And it's much cheaper!! :D

Also, keep in mind that the OP says his son is 12 years old! So the kid is on the verge of puberty and his brain and body are about to be flooded with testosterone and other hormones anyway. Those are impactful years. There's a reason why you always recall the music and movies from your teenage years.

And you say you can "learn things" from porn. Perhaps you can. But many of those things can be negative or "out there." Look at how Zodism flooded porn. I remember vid titles that bragged "anal only" and "no vag" like that was an accomplishment. Now you got dudes kicking their legs in the air and getting their asses ate. Women getting slapped and roughed up or pissed on. And all of that is easily accessible. But then you have the kind of shit lightbright is into - the kind you can only find on the "dark web" or underground message boards. :hmm::(:puke:

Point is, shit is far beyond just looking a bad bitch masturbating or getting fucked. The "Black Tail" days been gone!
Grace is good
 

Darkness's

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Man, porn can be addictive the same way other things can be addictive -- it stimulates dopamine production and the pleasure centers of the brain. No different than what cocaine does. And it's much cheaper!! :D

Also, keep in mind that the OP says his son is 12 years old! So the kid is on the verge of puberty and his brain and body are about to be flooded with testosterone and other hormones anyway. Those are impactful years. There's a reason why you always recall the music and movies from your teenage years.

And you say you can "learn things" from porn. Perhaps you can. But many of those things can be negative or "out there." Look at how Zodism flooded porn. I remember vid titles that bragged "anal only" and "no vag" like that was an accomplishment. Now you got dudes kicking their legs in the air and getting their asses ate. Women getting slapped and roughed up or pissed on. And all of that is easily accessible. BIt then you have the kind of shit that lightbright is into - the kind you can only find on the "dark web" or underground message boards. :hmm::(:puke:

Point is, shit is far beyond just looking a bad bitch masturbating or getting fucked. The "Black Tail" days been gone!
Lol
 

Duece

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Finding porn, being curious about sex, women are normal

But when we were growing up there was no internet or a very basic form of it; it wasn't always on as it is today and there was no social media.

Excessive porn, combined with society seemingly regressing when it comes to social skills is a bad mix.

You're going to have to add this to the "Birds and Bees" talk. Also what Vaiz4hustlaz said is very true, a lot of people push back on it but it's been documented by sex therapists that porn is no different than any other hard drug and will have you seeking a harder fix, which in terms of porn will be darker, rougher, more tasteless porn and porn that blurs the lines of what is straight, gay or even legal.
 

Duece

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A few things that come to mind that bother me when it comes to young people discovering porn.

On Twitter, Kazumi Squirts, who is the prototype for the typical modern-day, over-the-top pornstar stated "piss is the new anal" as she uploaded a video of a man reliving himself into her mouth. There are still BGOL members who are shocked that Olivia Winters did a piss mop scene, now damn near every pornstar has drank pee on camera, very few have not done something piss related.

Another Twitter user remarked how rough sex, slapping, choking and BDSM was a small community of people who knew the rules and respected limits, but now it's somewhat mainstream.

Finally, the website Erome comes to mind, while loaded with great amateur hetero content, it's also loaded with tons of tranny shit. It's quite common on Erome to see members with equal amounts of hetero and tranny shit on their accounts or being reposted and it's worrisome.
 

VAiz4hustlaz

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A few things that come to mind that bother me when it comes to young people discovering porn.

On Twitter, Kazumi Squirts, who is the prototype for the typical modern-day, over-the-top pornstar stated "piss is the new anal" as she uploaded a video of a man reliving himself into her mouth. There are still BGOL members who are shocked that Olivia Winters did a piss mop scene, now damn near every pornstar has drank pee on camera, very few have not done something piss related.

Another Twitter user remarked how rough sex, slapping, choking and BDSM was a small community of people who knew the rules and respected limits, but now it's somewhat mainstream.

Finally, the website Erome comes to mind, while loaded with great amateur hetero content, it's also loaded with tons of tranny shit. It's quite common on Erome to see members with equal amounts of hetero and tranny shit on their accounts or being reposted and it's worrisome.

That's what happened to lightbright's Redgifs accounts..............he had loaded so much of that "other" shit that his account was deleted and banned. :puke:
 

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I could've sworn somebody here said there was a study that wat hing porn before a workout can increase testosterone and now I can't find the post. Maybe i read the post and my mind registered it wrong. This is some mandela effect shit.
 

TooTrilla

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A few things that come to mind that bother me when it comes to young people discovering porn.

On Twitter, Kazumi Squirts, who is the prototype for the typical modern-day, over-the-top pornstar stated "piss is the new anal" as she uploaded a video of a man reliving himself into her mouth. There are still BGOL members who are shocked that Olivia Winters did a piss mop scene, now damn near every pornstar has drank pee on camera, very few have not done something piss related.

Another Twitter user remarked how rough sex, slapping, choking and BDSM was a small community of people who knew the rules and respected limits, but now it's somewhat mainstream.

Finally, the website Erome comes to mind, while loaded with great amateur hetero content, it's also loaded with tons of tranny shit. It's quite common on Erome to see members with equal amounts of hetero and tranny shit on their accounts or being reposted and it's worrisome.
Dont forget all this new simulated incest stuff they got going now too. Stepmom, stepdad, stepbrother, stepsister is crazy. Ive seen a few where in the videos they are actually pretending to be blood related. And some titles just read shit like "fucked my auntie or grandma" :smh:
 

Duece

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Dont forget all this new simulated incest stuff they got going now too. Stepmom, stepdad, stepbrother, stepsister is crazy. Ive seen a few where in the videos they are actually pretending to be blood related. And some titles just read shit like "fucked my auntie or grandma" :smh:

I've heard a few pornstars openly speaking about not liking or wanting to do incest or step-mom porn. They are saying that being called "mom" or "mommy" during sex is distracting and a turn-off for them and skits are tough to get through because the dialogue is so cringe.

Ryan Keely mentioned that she met a younger female pornstar whom she thought was very attractive and she told her that she would love to work with her but she said "I just hope I don't have to do it as your mom".

That's not an "across-the-board" opinion though because some women lean into it (such as Emma Strawberry referring to herself as "mom") or other older female pornstars doing it because it keeps the work steady.

Although Xev Bellringer ended up deleting her mom/incest themed porn after she had a child (which I heard was a boy), so there's that.
 

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I've heard a few pornstars openly speaking about not liking or wanting to do incest or step-mom porn. They are saying that being called "mom" or "mommy" during sex is distracting and a turn-off for them and skits are tough to get through because the dialogue is so cringe.

Ryan Keely mentioned that she met a younger female pornstar whom she thought was very attractive and she told her that she would love to work with her but she said "I just hope I don't have to do it as your mom".

That's not an "across-the-board" opinion though because some women lean into it (such as Emma Strawberry referring to herself as "mom") or other older female pornstars doing it because it keeps the work steady.

Although Xev Bellringer ended up deleting her mom/incest themed porn after she had a child (which I heard was a boy), so there's that.

Bout to tubegalore some of these names for science
 

yasky777

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Follow up, havnt caught him again atleast he’s hiding the shit better.

Seriously we talk more about it and it’s cool to watch the growth.
 

jawnswoop

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Follow up, havnt caught him again atleast he’s hiding the shit better.

Seriously we talk more about it and it’s cool to watch the growth.
Basically he's still watching porn but has to hide it because of fear of your reaction catching him again.

I couldn't tell you how many times I got caught watching porn back then as a youngin but it never stopped me from wanting to watch "TIL THIS DAY".
 

fu2

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I'm legit baffled I missed this thread. Lol.


Back in the days if one of your boys had a nudie magazine it was like a big deal
Now these kids can see the craziest of shit lol

I still have this vivid memory of some kid bringing a magazine to the playground when I was in the 7th grade. You would have thought a pack of hyenas were attack a wounded antelope. All you saw was a frenzy with the occasional piece of torn page flying in the air.

Finding porn, being curious about sex, women are normal

But when we were growing up there was no internet or a very basic form of it; it wasn't always on as it is today and there was no social media.

Excessive porn, combined with society seemingly regressing when it comes to social skills is a bad mix.

You're going to have to add this to the "Birds and Bees" talk. Also what Vaiz4hustlaz said is very true, a lot of people push back on it but it's been documented by sex therapists that porn is no different than any other hard drug and will have you seeking a harder fix, which in terms of porn will be darker, rougher, more tasteless porn and porn that blurs the lines of what is straight, gay or even legal.

This is the biggest issue here. The access to porn now form them is beyond crazy. And it's lumped in with all types of wild shit you can see the second you open your phone if you desire to. And the general regression in common sense with how we treat each other has not helped at all.

Dont forget all this new simulated incest stuff they got going now too. Stepmom, stepdad, stepbrother, stepsister is crazy. Ive seen a few where in the videos they are actually pretending to be blood related. And some titles just read shit like "fucked my auntie or grandma" :smh:

Tell me about it. Even it's not your thing, the tiles alone can weird you the fuck out.




If anything these youngsters don't know how difficult it was to find quality stuff. That goes for a lot of shit not just porn. And when you did find something good it was like Gollum with the ring.

And yes, I've been caught as a youngster and as an adult. The Charlotte Stokley era. Smh. I will not elaborate any further.
 
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