Caught my 12 year old son going to porn sites

[pookie]

Funny story. The year is 2001 and my boy hit me up like hey there's this site called bgol. You need to see this shit. We were sophomores in highschool at the time. I lurked for a year or two before joining. Put my brother on and he lurked on my account.

Come to find out my dad was heavy into porn and we just didn't know it. The damn PC caught a virus and I remember telling my brother you never click on anything. I swore it was him that got the PC fucked up lol.

My dad wakes me up one Saturday night at 1 am and asked me to look at the computer and confirmed it was him that fucked the PC up clicking on porn links. He was trying to get it fixed before my mother caught on lmao.

My brother also woke me up one night. He was lurking on my account and walked right into a FTP post. I laughed so hard at his ass .

i remember messing up a couple computers from clicking on those pornsites. I remember those shits would take over your whole computer with popups, you'd turn the computer off hoping that would stop it and when you turned it back on soon as you clicked on your web browser the pop-ups would start again, I had one computer that just stopped working altogether thing wouldn't even turn on anymore..lol

 

[Costanza]

Dayum we some old MFs!

To any dudes reading this in your 20s or 30s take care of your bodies. Train, dont eat crap. your body gets its get back one day

I'm wondering if there are any. (I'm hanging on for dear life to my 30s.) @seniorsvillethug's 50 year old ass might be one of the ten youngest posters here among regulars.

yeh i dont think there are any 20 year olds on this board. This is a old heads board for sure. I been here almost 30 years

I wonder what is the difference between the dynamic that brought me and others here in our teens and early 20s 20 years ago vs BGOL as an old folks club today.

 

[yasky777]

Update:

1:29

It’s 1:29 est and Yasky777 Jr is in there “on the toilet”. I can’t make this shit up.

We had the long talk today we went all the way through it down to the sites and shit, he used words like they were fornicating and reproductive organs are visible. His older brother joined in as I was cleaning a turkey prepping for deep frying and was wearing gloves….They fell out laughing when I was doing the fuck illustration with a glove on to represent a condom for protection. As many of you know my oldest has Downs and be mackin on everything moving. Can’t tell him shit.

Again didn’t bust their balls just told them how to value their body and not waste time on wack bitches. We chase achievement not women, the women will follow the achievers.

The last 36 hours have been pretty dope being a Dad.

 

[Costanza]

We had the long talk today we went all the way through it down to the sites and shit, he used words like they were fornicating and reproductive organs are visible.

When I picture Yasky Jr in this scene, I see Blankman.

 

[yasky777]

When I picture Yasky Jr in this scene, I see Blankman.

Yeh he was too shy to say sex or anything vulgar. Was actually a memorable convo for all us. I told them we’d have a part 2 before Xmas break is over and have a beer.

 

[Darkness's]

I only read the first page, but my daughter is going through this with my 11yr old grandson. His dad and my son says it's normal and they've talked to him, but I noticed he's in the bathroom for a long time and the other day my lotion from my office (bathroom closest to my office) came up missing and later I saw it in that bathroom. He said he had just gotten out of the shower and needed lotion and he is really neat in appearance, etc, so it's possible. But I didn't fuss because I didn't want to embarrass him, but I did say, put stuff back where it goes.

I don't remember my son going through this phase, but whew this is awkward for me.

Edit: I think I remember my son one time in the bathroom and when he came out I saw some fluid on the floor and I said if you must clean up behind yourself, but that was that one and only time.

But my grandson phone was full of porn...so that's the difference.

Starts @34:00 minute mark.

 

[carsun1000]

My son is 12 and is currently at a basketball tournament where some girls under-15 are playing....him and his team mates are losing their minds looking at these youngins and whispering to themselves..it's a thing of beauty to see that not one single one of all 12 boys turned their heads away.
It's that time for your son and a good thing.
Welcome to curiosity, young one...

My wife locks his phone from 0800 PM to 0800 the next morning, so there's that.

 

[yasky777]

My son is 12 and is currently at a basketball tournament where some girls under-15 are playing....him and his team mates are losing their minds looking at these youngins and whispering to themselves..it's a thing of beauty to see that not one single one of all 12 boys turned their heads away.
It's that time for your son and a good thing.
Welcome to curiosity, young one...

My wife locks his phone from 0800 PM to 0800 the next morning, so there's that.

That’s a beautiful thing, do yall use parental Blocks of any sort on his phone?

 

[carsun1000]

That’s a beautiful thing, do yall use parental Blocks of any sort on his phone?

She uses her Google account to lock it. If he's playing games with friends past 0800 PM on weekends, he'll need to ask her for a code.

 

[SamSneed]

Nope. BGOL will teach him to hate women. He needs to have a chance a healthy relationships in life and BGOL is full of too many men saying women are worthless and only to be used. There are some who will say they aren't talking about ALL women, just "thots", but even if true (depending on the member, it's not) there is no way he would be able to discern the nuances. There is a way to teach to protect yourself w/o demonizing all women and he won't learn that here.

What of grace

We don’t hate the temple holders

Without them there is no grace

Bless his name

Bless his name sister

 

[pookie]

My son is 12 and is currently at a basketball tournament where some girls under-15 are playing....him and his team mates are losing their minds looking at these youngins and whispering to themselves..it's a thing of beauty to see that not one single one of all 12 boys turned their heads away.
It's that time for your son and a good thing.
Welcome to curiosity, young one...

My wife locks his phone from 0800 PM to 0800 the next morning, so there's that.

Lol@ wife locks his phone, does he still have the phone with him, he's probably be all over TikTok looking for vids on how to unlock your phone without your parents knowing.. lol

 

[carsun1000]

Lol@ wife locks his phone, does he still have the phone with him, he's probably be all over TikTok looking for vids on how to unlock your phone without your parents knowing.. lol

That's thing I'm afraid of now but generally, he's a good kid and doesn't usually venture into the unknown. He's more into shoes than girls for now.

 

[rph2005]

I learned how to suck tits, tongue kiss, and play with pussy watching lesbian porn as a youngin. Till this day broads love my “magic hands” thanks to porn. Massaging broads thanks to porn and books. Learning diff positions thanks to porn. For decades I would make chicks watch diff porn clips on dick sucking to suck my dick in various ways. I still send links to spankbang and other sites to broads and they thank me for it. Visual karma sutra. The study guides have and always will be beneficial to mankind. Instead of just jerking off to it actually observe, study, even watch with a female to improve or bring diff ideas in the bedroom. Also porn was part of my influence to get vidcam at the age of 18. What do you know I eventually became part of the adult entertainment industry. Porn yeah it definitely was a great addition to my life

you are a success story of what porn can do for a youngn. but you are an exception to the rule bro. the majority of boys who take their cues on how to fuck based on what they see in porn end up messing up their sex game as adults. it is no coincidence that addiction to porn kinda started right around when young boys started getting exposed to it in the early 80s into the 90s. and that addiction is what is keeping sex therapists busy. it's also keeping counselors and doctors busy treating young men with ED. you go online now and you see young men in their early 20s taking viagra, royal honey, chew (or whatever they call it) etc etc. and they are developing tolerance. imagine what they will do in their 40s, 50s, etc. i am sure you have heard of the term the "death grip". young men have watched porn so much and fapped so much that when they get the real thing finally, they can't perform.
i hear young women are watching at a heavy rate now. i am sure that is slowly taking a toll on them too and we will soon start to see its effects in a few years. at the end of the day, in my humble opinion, porn, just like any other "unhealthy" behavior, like smoking, drinking, etc...wasn't meant to be fully indulged in because of the more detrimental effects it has on the human body as a whole later on in the future

 

[Camille]

What of grace

We don’t hate the temple holders

Without them there is no grace

Bless his name

Bless his name sister

Thanks Sneed. I forgot about you heathens. I've seen the OP's zod posts in the past so he may disagree, but IMO he damn sure doesn't need to be introduced to the church of zod. I can see it now: he ends up in Sunday School asked to give a scripture on the spot and all he can think to quote is Pastor Sneed and the book of zevelations. SMH.

J/K but protect him from the zodhovah witnesses at ALL COSTS.

 

[DJ]

I wonder what is the difference between the dynamic that brought me and others here in our teens and early 20s 20 years ago vs BGOL as an old folks club today.

we all knew it was black girl online.

You thought it was boys goo on lips.

Faggit

 

[rph2005]

so did porn harm you?
and to over a counter point
there isn't much real porn on the main board
most of it is commentary,current events,politics,goss

 

[DJ]

Thanks Sneed. I forgot about you heathens. I've seen the OP's zod posts in the past so he may disagree, but IMO he damn sure doesn't need to be introduced to the church of zod. I can see it now: he ends up in Sunday School asked to give a scripture on the spot and all he can think to quote is Pastor Sneed and the book of zevelations. SMH.

J/K but protect him from the zodhovah witnesses at ALL COSTS.

Why do refer to us, the blessed and sacred purveyors of the word as heathens ?
We would be at fault if we did not continue to spread the word and teach women like yourself to walk in the light.
The church is open sister, your anal cavity shall be opened to Zods love, do not continue to forsake him.

 

[rph2005]

so did porn harm you?
and to over a counter point
there isn't much real porn on the main board
most of it is commentary,current events,politics,gossip,etc.

yes and no.

 

[Camille]

Why do refer to us, the blessed and sacred purveyors of the word as heathens ?
We would be at fault if we did not continue to spread the word and teach women like yourself to walk in the light.
The church is open sister, your anal cavity shall be opened to Zods love, do not continue to forsake him.

Beware those who travel the dark halls of Zod, lest thou become likewise unclean, for they are unworthy and stinketh in all their ways.

Zod is a shitty god.

Stay in the Light.

 

[DJ]

Beware those who travel the dark halls of Zod, lest thou become likewise unclean, for they are unworthy and stinketh in all their ways.

Zod is a shitty god.

Stay in the Light.

Blasphemy miss !!!

 

[Camille]

Blasphemy miss !!!

You can't blaspheme a false god.

 

[donwuan]

I noticed he's in the bathroom for a long time and the other day my lotion from my office (bathroom closest to my office) came up missing and later I saw it in that bathroom. He said he had just gotten out of the shower and needed lotion and he is really neat in appearance, etc, so it's possible. But I didn't fuss because I didn't want to embarrass him, but I did say, put stuff back where it goes.

I don't remember my son going through this phase, but whew this is awkward for me.

Edit: I think I remember my son one time in the bathroom and when he came out I saw some fluid on the floor and I said if you must clean up behind yourself, but that was that one and only time.

But my grandson phone was full of porn...so that's the difference.

The lotion shit is just a myth and jokes. We all tried it once thinking the shit works but it don't. Lil Man was moisturizing. You just never caught your son because he was discreet with it. And girls do the same shit they just smoother with it. They don't need as many visuals and use erotic books and imagination.

 

[TENT]

OP. You need to buy your kid some condoms. You about to be a grandad.
Where there is smoke there is fire.

 

[SamSneed]

Why do refer to us, the blessed and sacred purveyors of the word as heathens ?
We would be at fault if we did not continue to spread the word and teach women like yourself to walk in the light.
The church is open sister, your anal cavity shall be opened to Zods love, do not continue to forsake him.

She be talkin

But grace be hawkin

 

[lightbright]

There's an app for this situation.

Accountability & Empowerment: America’s Greatest Political Leader, Speaker Mike Johnson, Promotes App To Lead You To Victory Over Porn

For all who are ready to leave Satan and Jergens behind, here is the link: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/covenant-eyes-quit-porn-now/id335318146 If you do not have someone in your life who you trust to be an accountability partner, let it be known so one of your BGOL brethren may step up. You...

www.bgol.us

That was the first thing that I thought of...

 

[shaddyvillethug]

You are such a dumbass instigator. If you tried to kill your father so you could have your mother to yourself, that would be an Oedipus situation even at your advanced age. Of course your father abandoned you and your sexual preference is not women, so this would never apply to you. But it is not pedo shit.

I’m Daniel Planview from There will be blood.

U are H.W.

A bastard in a basket

Lower than a orphan

 

[shaddyvillethug]

The Demon Spawn you quoted is on ignore. No where did I say get mad or punish his son. I don't have kids. I have common sense. I've always valued learning from others mistakes. I know what I and others did at my age, what we were lacking in education. Who did what because of, or in spite of, parental influence and actions. I have friends with kids, nieces and nephews that I've partially raised. I've seen good and bad parenting up close and have seen the fallout of both.

I've seen people who were wild as hell growing up being overly strict because they know what they did behind their parents backs as well as people who are too trusting with their kids who don't supervise enough.

The mothers that I see freak out, single or married, is not usually because of the porn itself, it's because of their child growing up and maturing beyond what THEY as a parent are prepared to deal with and all the fears (pregnancy, STDs, being labeled, growing up too fast, not having a child hood, failing grades dropping out) that it can lead to that children aren't thinking about because their perspective is limited. He needs to learn and focus on self control and that there is a time and place for sex but that he shouldn't be ruled by his desires.

BTW FUCK YOU for your comment about single mothers and that cockeyed midget you quoted.

Lmaooooooo @ cockeyed

U stay throwing shots

 

[shaddyvillethug]

Yawl let the fags and pedos and bed wenches and the old raggedy bitches take over this thread.

How in the FUCK

 

[shaddyvillethug]

Yawl let the fags and pedos and bed wenches and the old raggedy bitches take over this thread.

How in the FUCK

 

[shaddyvillethug]

When I was five I was already fuckin'
And playin' X-Rated cassettes
With Teddy Ruxpin

Was this before or after “suck it Marshall”

 

[jawnswoop]

you are a success story of what porn can do for a youngn. but you are an exception to the rule bro. the majority of boys who take their cues on how to fuck based on what they see in porn end up messing up their sex game as adults. it is no coincidence that addiction to porn kinda started right around when young boys started getting exposed to it in the early 80s into the 90s. and that addiction is what is keeping sex therapists busy. it's also keeping counselors and doctors busy treating young men with ED. you go online now and you see young men in their early 20s taking viagra, royal honey, chew (or whatever they call it) etc etc. and they are developing tolerance. imagine what they will do in their 40s, 50s, etc. i am sure you have heard of the term the "death grip". young men have watched porn so much and fapped so much that when they get the real thing finally, they can't perform.
i hear young women are watching at a heavy rate now. i am sure that is slowly taking a toll on them too and we will soon start to see its effects in a few years. at the end of the day, in my humble opinion, porn, just like any other "unhealthy" behavior, like smoking, drinking, etc...wasn't meant to be fully indulged in because of the more detrimental effects it has on the human body as a whole later on in the future

But you're saying all of this on a porn board though.

 

[VAiz4hustlaz]

Dumbest shit I heard all day. Please don't breed and have a litter of silly ass little coons.

Why you mad? Let’s not forget that you got mad when I posted pics of a big-tittied Latina in a thread that’s about her! That confirmed to everyone that you don’t like pussy anyway.

 

[tallblacknyc]

you are a success story of what porn can do for a youngn. but you are an exception to the rule bro. the majority of boys who take their cues on how to fuck based on what they see in porn end up messing up their sex game as adults. it is no coincidence that addiction to porn kinda started right around when young boys started getting exposed to it in the early 80s into the 90s. and that addiction is what is keeping sex therapists busy. it's also keeping counselors and doctors busy treating young men with ED. you go online now and you see young men in their early 20s taking viagra, royal honey, chew (or whatever they call it) etc etc. and they are developing tolerance. imagine what they will do in their 40s, 50s, etc. i am sure you have heard of the term the "death grip". young men have watched porn so much and fapped so much that when they get the real thing finally, they can't perform.
i hear young women are watching at a heavy rate now. i am sure that is slowly taking a toll on them too and we will soon start to see its effects in a few years. at the end of the day, in my humble opinion, porn, just like any other "unhealthy" behavior, like smoking, drinking, etc...wasn't meant to be fully indulged in because of the more detrimental effects it has on the human body as a whole later on in the future

You said addiction. Which means the extreme. Many people watch porn and are not addicts. Lot of people have watched porn and enhanced their sex game from males to females. Like I said study guides. Nothing about using it as book of lessons said masturbating multiple times a day, not conversing with the opposite sex, using dick pills or anything like that. It’s all about utilizing information. You can give people instructions for many things in the world and there will be people that can comprehend it and use it, others won’t understand it, others will use it wrong or do bad things with it. Porn addicts sound like the 3rd category

 

[SamSneed]

You said addiction. Which means the extreme. Many people watch porn and are not addicts. Lot of people have watched porn and enhanced their sex game from males to females. Like I said study guides. Nothing about using it as book of lessons said masturbating multiple times a day, not conversing with the opposite sex, using dick pills or anything like that. It’s all about utilizing information. You can give people instructions for many things in the world and there will be people that can comprehend it and use it, others won’t understand it, others will use it wrong or do bad things with it. Porn addicts sound like the 3rd category

HR gave one dude walkin papers, 2wks before Xmas lol

Always on his phone lookin at bitches, fb and insta, I told him he needed to chill, that hr ain’t playin since one nigga got all touchy feely with the new hr director at a bbq lol

Fool didn’t want to listen and tried to backstab me, I said bet, hit that nigga with A statement, peace nigga

You let bitches you can’t even fuck, fuck up your money

 

[jawnswoop]

You said addiction. Which means the extreme. Many people watch porn and are not addicts. Lot of people have watched porn and enhanced their sex game from males to females. Like I said study guides. Nothing about using it as book of lessons said masturbating multiple times a day, not conversing with the opposite sex, using dick pills or anything like that. It’s all about utilizing information. You can give people instructions for many things in the world and there will be people that can comprehend it and use it, others won’t understand it, others will use it wrong or do bad things with it. Porn addicts sound like the 3rd category

I couldn't say it better than that, I don't even watch porn everyday, but even when I do it's for enjoyment..If porn is causing problems in people's lives then they need to seek help. I think the brotha was doing to much calling porn an addiction because if a person really wants to stop watching porn altogether then they can and never look back. Porn can never make someone an addict unless you allow it to. Also, you can learn some things from porn since now they have educational stuff uncensored to show people how to step their sex game up or get creative in the bedroom to spice things up with your S/O.