Caught my 12 year old son going to porn sites

Helico-pterFunk

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Yeah, we came a long way from them ugly bulky computers back then that didn't have no privacy because everyone could look over at someone's computer since the computers right next to each other or close behind. But doing my high school years back then, we hardly had a teacher in class that would be absent most times and leave us in there by ourselves that we could watch porn in peace making sure the classroom door was locked as well..


Shoutout to the teachers on their absenteeism during class hours, lol.

I had a PE teacher like that. I was taking sports leadership and had to be the student teacher for younger grades. The real teacher would be off in the corner or dip out for long stretches pre-retirement. Cool old dude. May he rest in peace. We had another teacher who was more of a leader (wrestling coach) and would guide student teachers in other semesters, haha. Shoutout to that dude too. He was great at leading youth. Adapted his teaching style for various skill levels really well.
 

djpolo

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Come on man you know good and well that's not the same

Yeah shit is normal, at 12/13 you start not only liking girls but wanting to see what the female body looks like and feels like

Lmaoooo....man I've never thought of something like this happening, I can't even imagine how you explain this..lol
I was real with his ass. I said, aye man, I wasn't expecting you MFs back for a while. He laughed I laughed and I think even though I didn't say anything to him. He knew this was one of those situations where he and I would never speak of this shit again. :lol:

Not only that but bra I had the setup with the wireless mouse right there. Fucked up my whole afternoon and traumatized my damn son.
 

Costanza

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Just Google Aretha Franklin boobs and you'll see plenty of those pics..lol. I don't remember the young boob pics but I remembered these

@yasky777

Got a quick, funny story for you.

Got our first home internet in the fall of 1997. I’m tracking down places like BGOL / Online-Video founded in 1996 and home to the illustrious 30-second sample clips playable in MPEG or Real Player type format(s). My kid brother is searching for indexes of Playmates past and present.

Within the first 6 months he says to me the computer has a Search History. Oh shit! What the fuck?! We both panic and tell each other we need to clear that regularly or deal with the consequences of 3 letters ... M O M.

It’s like we had seen a ghost.

We smartened up from that day forth.

Imagine seeing your teen's search history filled with terms like "Aretha Franklin boobs" and "Betty White nudes."
 

jawnswoop

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The Demon Spawn you quoted is on ignore. No where did I say get mad or punish his son. I don't have kids. I have common sense. I've always valued learning from others mistakes. I know what I and others did at my age, what we were lacking in education. Who did what because of, or in spite of, parental influence and actions. I have friends with kids, nieces and nephews that I've partially raised. I've seen good and bad parenting up close and have seen the fallout of both.

I've seen people who were wild as hell growing up being overly strict because they know what they did behind their parents backs as well as people who are too trusting with their kids who don't supervise enough.

The mothers that I see freak out, single or married, is not usually because of the porn itself, it's because of their child growing up and maturing beyond what THEY as a parent are prepared to deal with and all the fears (pregnancy, STDs, being labeled, growing up too fast, not having a child hood, failing grades dropping out) that it can lead to that children aren't thinking about because their perspective is limited. He needs to learn and focus on self control and that there is a time and place for sex but that he shouldn't be ruled by his desires.

BTW FUCK YOU for your comment about single mothers and that cockeyed midget you quoted.
Damn why you mad? I don't be saying FUCK you when you talk about men on threads and there was no need for that unless I said the same to you when I didn't

But like I said this thread was made to look like he did wrong when he didn't because obviously as you look around just about every women are half naked on tv for them to see unless a parent doesn't have a tv in their home or have them watching nothing but cartoons all day and night.

All i was saying that parents need to stop overracting about their child watching porn and learn to be level headed and explain to them about porn and reality dealing with women.

But yes, i've seen women get heated catching their son watching porn which is learned behavior from how their mothers acted doing the same thing when they were growing up watching them act out!

Also, yes boys have to be discipline and have self contol but at the same time shouldn't be punished for what they see is my point.
 

playahaitian

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Every pornhub content creator gets kick backs from viewership. Just like xvideos. This is why those 2 are the most popular porn sites cause you can actually make money posting your vids. The stepmom angle is just a genre that has a large viewing demographic. So if you gonna get paid off of views of course you gonna gravitate to some of the most watch themes. Also some of those viewers pay to see content. So if you make a vid that says stepmom sucks my dick and 500 people are willing to pay $10 a piece to see that clip of course you probably would make that vid.. that’s $5000( b4 pornhub takes their percentage).. now guess what you probably will make more vids similar if everytime you make a scene you can make thousands off of it

^^^
Kaboom
 

tallblacknyc

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please do. give him that talk asap. my oldest is 13 and about a month ago, i decided we need to have about an hour alone time just me and him and one of the topics or fatherly advice i plan on giving him was to try to avoid porn as much as possible if damn near at all. a lot of brothers on here may or may not agree with me but porn is one of those things that has been of no benefit to mankind (if you really think about it critically). And i say that with authority because at one point during my teenage years, i was the consummate porn user. now i think about it and i ask myself what value did porn really add to my life? no, seriously. for guys like us though, we at least had a bit of a counter balance, right? women were still approachable, there was no social media...etc etc. there was balance. These kids these days though, there is no counter. once they start delving into porn, that's it.
I learned how to suck tits, tongue kiss, and play with pussy watching lesbian porn as a youngin. Till this day broads love my “magic hands” thanks to porn. Massaging broads thanks to porn and books. Learning diff positions thanks to porn. For decades I would make chicks watch diff porn clips on dick sucking to suck my dick in various ways. I still send links to spankbang and other sites to broads and they thank me for it. Visual karma sutra. The study guides have and always will be beneficial to mankind. Instead of just jerking off to it actually observe, study, even watch with a female to improve or bring diff ideas in the bedroom. Also porn was part of my influence to get vidcam at the age of 18. What do you know I eventually became part of the adult entertainment industry. Porn yeah it definitely was a great addition to my life
 

Camille

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Damn why you mad? I don't be saying FUCK you when you talk about men on threads and there was no need for that unless I said the same to you when I didn't

But like I said this thread was made to look like he did wrong when he didn't because obviously as you look around just about every women are half naked on tv for them to see unless a parent doesn't have a tv in their home or have them watching nothing but cartoons all day and night.

All i was saying that parents need to stop overracting about their child watching porn and learn to be level headed and explain to them about porn and reality dealing with women.

But yes, i've seen women get heated catching their son watching porn which is learned behavior from how their mothers acted doing the same thing when they were growing up watching them act out!

Also, yes boys have to be discipline and have self contol but at the same time shouldn't be punished for what they see is my point.

I'm not mad. You said single MOTHERS not parents. And you knew it was an insult which is why you qualified it by saying you weren't saying *I* was a single mother. My friend's ex was messed up about his daughter. Didn’t want her wearing nail polish because he said it would turn her into a whore. Are all men that stupid? No. Ive not run into another before or since. I dont doubt there are more like him, just not my go to assumption. Likewise, dont paint all single mothers the same.

I don't want to continue to derail the thread. Just know I saw that BS and it IS BS.
 

playahaitian

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Single mothers are the worst raising their kids getting mad at them for seeing naked women which is crazy to me. But I'm not projecting that Camille is a single mother but just talking in general.

You can't keep making these sweeping generalized statements. Cause right there you not gonna be taken seriously.

There are bad single mothers single fathers married couples.

I seen single mothers actually be the best in these situations which I guess would surprise you. They WANTED to talk to their sons about sex and dealing with women BEFORE their friends full their heads with bullsh*t or put them in a messed up situations.

Talk to some single mothers of 4 and 5 star athletes. They have serious sex talks most men wouldn't be able to handle.
 

playahaitian

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I learned how to suck tits, tongue kiss, and play with pussy watching lesbian porn as a youngin. Till this day broads love my “magic hands” thanks to porn. Massaging broads thanks to porn and books. Learning diff positions thanks to porn. For decades I would make chicks watch diff porn clips on dick sucking to suck my dick in various ways. I still send links to spankbang and other sites to broads and they thank me for it. Visual karma sutra. The study guides have and always will be beneficial to mankind. Instead of just jerking off to it actually observe, study, even watch with a female to improve or bring diff ideas in the bedroom. Also porn was part of my influence to get vidcam at the age of 18. What do you know I eventually became part of the adult entertainment industry. Porn yeah it definitely was a great addition to my life

Kaboom

I must be unique cause when I got caught my mom (RIP) was very understanding. Of course I was humiliated but it opened a lifelong door of communication about sex and women. And of course asking why am I looking only at big white boobs? And how to better hide my magazines. And if I can't find black boobs my uncle could direct me.

I've gotten better advice about sex and relationships from women in my life. My uncles were leaving single moms across 2 continents. And when you meeting the kids from those situations that really helps form your views on sex. So maybe I just had a different upbringing.
 

jawnswoop

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You can't keep making these sweeping generalized statements. Cause right there you not gonna be taken seriously.

There are bad single mothers single fathers married couples.

I seen single mothers actually be the best in these situations which I guess would surprise you. They WANTED to talk to their sons about sex and dealing with women BEFORE their friends full their heads with bullsh*t or put them in a messed up situations.

Talk to some single mothers of 4 and 5 star athletes. They have serious sex talks most men wouldn't be able to handle.
I'm talking about where I'm from and general can mean anything but not the whole world of women. I'm speaking on what I've seen and heard but then again, I can't tell another parent what to do on how they raise their child or discipline them especially when it comes to porn. So, therefore, I mind my business. Most people on this thread don't have a problem with it at all. Also if a lot of these brothas grew up with a father on this board then they would get some sound advice or game from them but I understand not everyone grew up with a father. Also, growing up, i can't relate because my father was the one who gave me advice about porn vs reality dealing with women which made me understand that porn was just entertainment to enjoy!
 

cocobeauty

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I only read the first page, but my daughter is going through this with my 11yr old grandson. His dad and my son says it's normal and they've talked to him, but I noticed he's in the bathroom for a long time and the other day my lotion from my office (bathroom closest to my office) came up missing and later I saw it in that bathroom. He said he had just gotten out of the shower and needed lotion and he is really neat in appearance, etc, so it's possible. But I didn't fuss because I didn't want to embarrass him, but I did say, put stuff back where it goes.

I don't remember my son going through this phase, but whew this is awkward for me.

Edit: I think I remember my son one time in the bathroom and when he came out I saw some fluid on the floor and I said if you must clean up behind yourself, but that was that one and only time.

But my grandson phone was full of porn...so that's the difference.
 

jawnswoop

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I'm not mad. You said single MOTHERS not parents. And you knew it was an insult which is why you qualified it by saying you weren't saying *I* was a single mother. My friend's ex was messed up about his daughter. Didn’t want her wearing nail polish because he said it would turn her into a whore. Are all men that stupid? No. Ive not run into another before or since. I dont doubt there are more like him, just not my go to assumption. Likewise, dont paint all single mothers the same.

I don't want to continue to derail the thread. Just know I saw that BS and it IS BS.
Typo, I've made mistakes and I type too fast not proofreading at times, sue me. But if you felt. I deserve that then cool. I just know to respect others until shit gets disrespectful then it becomes a problem. I really wasn't talking to you because he brought up your name and I responded to him. I had no idea you had him on ignore.

But I was speaking on what I've seen or heard where I'm from but like I said before, I mind my business and keep it moving.

So, things could've been a misunderstanding and I'm mature enough to know both sides aren't perfect.
 

playahaitian

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I'm talking about where I'm from and general can mean anything but not the whole world of women. I'm speaking on what I've seen and heard but then again, I can't tell another parent what to do on how they raise their child or discipline them especially when it comes to porn. So, therefore, I mind my business. Most people on this thread don't have a problem with it at all. Also if a lot of these brothas grew up with a father on this board then they would get some sound advice or game from them but I understand not everyone grew up with a father. Also, growing up, i can't relate because my father was the one who gave me advice about porn vs reality dealing with women which made me understand that porn was just entertainment to enjoy!

makes sense.

But you understand if you start off saying or implying ALL that's how most folk gonna take it.

and for me my mom was the one who caught me and schooled and not my dad. Same result but different. Just proving you can't pre judge.

So like I said sometimes people might take it like your generalizing instead of speaking only from personal experience.

I know you wouldn't be out disrespecting for no reason. You know we cool.
 

CPT Callamity

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Welp...at least he knows what he likes.
Seriously, he won't be able to not see porn nowadays as the shit is in the wild. Supplement him with a good sit down and talk to him about what sex is and make sure you cover all the bases. Only thing I would worry about is too much of it because his brain is still developing. I'd hate for youngin to be addicted at a real young age and not naturally be able to engage girls.
 

jawnswoop

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makes sense.

But you understand if you start off saying or implying ALL that's how most folk gonna take it.

and for me my mom was the one who caught me and schooled and not my dad. Same result but different. Just proving you can't pre judge.

So like I said sometimes people might take it like your generalizing instead of speaking only from personal experience.

I know you wouldn't be out disrespecting for no reason. You know we cool.
Understood, looks like I gotta break stuff down better to get my point across.
 

tallblacknyc

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Kaboom

I must be unique cause when I got caught my mom (RIP) was very understanding. Of course I was humiliated but it opened a lifelong door of communication about sex and women. And of course asking why am I looking only at big white boobs? And how to better hide my magazines. And if I can't find black boobs my uncle could direct me.

I've gotten better advice about sex and relationships from women in my life. My uncles were leaving single moms across 2 continents. And when you meeting the kids from those situations that really helps form your views on sex. So maybe I just had a different upbringing.
The males in my family are ladies men always has been always will be we get it from my grandfather. My moms knows the male lineage in her family from her father, to her bros, to her nephews, to my older bros, to eventually me. She always predicted I was gonna be crazier than my older bros when it came to the ladies. As she said I been female friendly as a kid and females just naturally gravitated to me. She just made sure I was informed about stds and carried rubbers. She knew my uncles was gonna give me male motivation about our gene line as well as my older bros. She said she knew I was watching porn at a young age but was like oh well at least he’s not gay. She knew just how I was I was gonna break it down in an educational way and utilize it for future use. When I eventually got cameras she knew what it was for and started laughing like yep you are your family name. Than when I took it to the next level with getting into adult entertainment she laughed and was like yep I would be the one to do so and told everybody I told ya he was gonna be 1 of the craziest one out of the male lineage
 

playahaitian

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Welp...at least he knows what he likes.
Seriously, he won't be able to not see porn nowadays as the shit is in the wild. Supplement him with a good sit down and talk to him about what sex is and make sure you cover all the bases. Only thing I would worry about is too much of it because his brain is still developing. I'd hate for youngin to be addicted at a real young age and not naturally be able to engage girls.

^^^^
 

Duece

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Welp...at least he knows what he likes.
Seriously, he won't be able to not see porn nowadays as the shit is in the wild. Supplement him with a good sit down and talk to him about what sex is and make sure you cover all the bases. Only thing I would worry about is too much of it because his brain is still developing. I'd hate for youngin to be addicted at a real young age and not naturally be able to engage girls.


Agreed.

Atleast he likes girls, so he's coming along normally but you might have to have an extra talk with him because the kid is spending all day in the room with the door locked and develops a lackadaisical personality and is not engaging actual young ladies you might have a problem on your hands.
 

playahaitian

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The males in my family are ladies men always has been always will be we get it from my grandfather. My moms knows the male lineage in her family from her father, to her bros, to her nephews, to my older bros, to eventually me. She always predicted I was gonna be crazier than my older bros when it came to the ladies. As she said I been female friendly as a kid and females just naturally gravitated to me. She just made sure I was informed about stds and carried rubbers. She knew my uncles was gonna give me male motivation about our gene line as well as my older bros. She said she knew I was watching porn at a young age but was like oh well at least he’s not gay. She knew just how I was I was gonna break it down in an educational way and utilize it for future use. When I eventually got cameras she knew what it was for and started laughing like yep you are your family name. Than when I took it to the next level with getting into adult entertainment she laughed and was like yep I would be the one to do so and told everybody I told ya he was gonna be 1 of the craziest one out of the male lineage

It's funny cause we kinda similar.

The men in my family ALL had kids outside ALL. Independent business narcotics pimps hustlers spreading seed.

I mean I hated going to funerals because surprise cousins would always pop up fights weddings too.

But Playa was a way to tease me cause they desperately wanted me to the be the good one FINALLY. I was the church kid volunteering altar boy but women were always flocking to me and at the time I was oblivious. My uncles girlfriends touching my privates at parties etc. So look at lil Playa he don't know what to do with that

My mom was like the devil circling you but you fight it. And so it was always the WOMEN who would school me more. And I kinda became the angel with the machete.

Tall? You my variant!!???

 
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tallblacknyc

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It's funny cause we kinda similar.

The men in my family ALL had kids outside ALL. Independent business narcotics pimps hustlers spreading seed.

I mean I hated going to funerals because surprise cousins would always pop up fights weddings too.

But Playa was a way to tease me cause they desperately wanted me to the be the good one FINALLY. I was the church kid volunteering altar boy but women were always flocking to me and at the time I was oblivious. My uncles girlfriends touching my privates at parties etc. So look at lil Playa he don't know what to do with that

My mom was like the devil circling you but you fight it. And so it was always the WOMEN who would school me more. And I kinda became the angel with the machete.

Tall? You my variant!!???


lol I was considered the quiet nice kid once also. Than diff situations popped up where I got caught with older chicks sucking tits, getting jerked off, playing with pussy, getting head.. diff family members started finding out I was as quiet as people thought. Let’s just say at a very young age I got caught getting my dick sucked with older chicks by diff family members an innocent totally lost. Nickname slut hoe by my female cousins and it was a wrap. My older female cousins was like you were suppose to be the quiet one and you ended up being worst you slut hoe. What made it worse was me messing and flirting with some of my female cousins female friends. My older male cousin use to laugh like ya thought that nig was innocent that nig use to get his dick sucked on a regular by his female friend. He was like everytime black would spend a week at his house my cousin female friend would slide through everyday and they would go at it multiple times a day. His job was to stand guard by the door so my aunt wouldn’t catch us( she eventually did).. chick was 4 yrs older than me.. my first trini chick
 

dbluesun

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I learned how to suck tits, tongue kiss, and play with pussy watching lesbian porn as a youngin. Till this day broads love my “magic hands” thanks to porn. Massaging broads thanks to porn and books. Learning diff positions thanks to porn. For decades I would make chicks watch diff porn clips on dick sucking to suck my dick in various ways. I still send links to spankbang and other sites to broads and they thank me for it. Visual karma sutra. The study guides have and always will be beneficial to mankind. Instead of just jerking off to it actually observe, study, even watch with a female to improve or bring diff ideas in the bedroom. Also porn was part of my influence to get vidcam at the age of 18. What do you know I eventually became part of the adult entertainment industry. Porn yeah it definitely was a great addition to my life
another aspect of my original point
i had zero sex ed coming
and i don't mean the shit taught in school
i remember my 1st wet dream @13
i was a grown man b4 i realized i hadn't pee'd on myself
i remember clothes burning
for what seemed like decades even b4 the wet dream

i remember my 1st real time @15 during my 1st summer session of Upward Bound
it was rabbit fucking with a rubber and i didn't feel a thing
i remember my first bj with a married chick @18
boy i could have used bgol to help navigate early adulthood
 

pookie

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This is a good discussion. Because porn is WAY different now than when I was coming up.... I was 13 stealing black tail magazines out the gas station lol...

But now...jeeze

Yeah man, my parents used to get X-rated movies from the but they weren't showing pussy, I think they were barely showing tits. My older brother brought home a garbage bag full of XXX-rated movies from his summer job and we thought we hit the jackpot but even those weren't like porn is today. I think the easy access to porn nowadays is why these women have no shame about being hoes and worshipping women like Sexxy Redd
 

Costanza

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I only read the first page, but my daughter is going through this with my 11yr old grandson. His dad and my son says it's normal and they've talked to him, but I noticed he's in the bathroom for a long time and the other day my lotion from my office (bathroom closest to my office) came up missing and later I saw it in that bathroom. He said he had just gotten out of the shower and needed lotion and he is really neat in appearance, etc, so it's possible. But I didn't fuss because I didn't want to embarrass him, but I did say, put stuff back where it goes.

I don't remember my son going through this phase, but whew this is awkward for me.

Edit: I think I remember my son one time in the bathroom and when he came out I saw some fluid on the floor and I said if you must clean up behind yourself, but that was that one and only time.

But my grandson phone was full of porn...so that's the difference.

This made me think of the recent Janelle James controversy...

 

donwuan

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A budding addict! What would you do if you caught your son smoking crack?

Whatever the answer to that is what the answer to this should be!

Dumbest shit I heard all day. Please don't breed and have a litter of silly ass little coons.
 

LegendOfLedo

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Funny story. The year is 2001 and my boy hit me up like hey there's this site called bgol. You need to see this shit. We were sophomores in highschool at the time. I lurked for a year or two before joining. Put my brother on and he lurked on my account.

Come to find out my dad was heavy into porn and we just didn't know it. The damn PC caught a virus and I remember telling my brother you never click on anything. I swore it was him that got the PC fucked up lol.

My dad wakes me up one Saturday night at 1 am and asked me to look at the computer and confirmed it was him that fucked the PC up clicking on porn links. He was trying to get it fixed before my mother caught on lmao.

My brother also woke me up one night. He was lurking on my account and walked right into a FTP post. I laughed so hard at his ass .
 
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