Fair/Foul: Gary Owen (and his WIFE!!!) disses Michael Blackson RESPONDS DAMN!!!
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Weaponizing children against a parent is wrong. That’s between the adults
Of course.
Cheating and disrupting damaging and potentially traumatizing your family's lives is wrong too.
Damn right
Are children not allowed to have an opinion?
This is a good interview, I’m about half way through. Dude had an interesting life. His family is fucked up and typical white trash apparently. As for his kids not wanting to see him it’s hard to call it.I personally can’t imagine not wanting to speak with my dad for divorcing my mom or cheating. In fact I found out my dad did cheated on my mom as an adult. Still love the man, don’t feel no ill will toward him. I don’t doubt he provided for them and was in their lives, but being on the road their mother was probably much more of an influence than he was. He was cheating on his ex-wife and they probably feel some kind of way about that, but I can’t see the his ex-wife not having an influence on the way they’re ghosting him. Anyway, if they haven’t said something about it online it’s just speculation on our part until we hear the kids’ side.
Damn, this is my biggest fear, man. You can’t win for being a provider and your right women as soon as they emotions take over it’s a wrap. Similar situation with my ex-wife. Never beat the woman, or verbally abused her. She basically came to the conclusion she wasn’t happy in the marriage. Threw me all the way off for a few years after the divorce. Only thing I could focus on was making sure the kids had a good co-parenting situation(and they do). I know dudes in here are saying Gary must’ve been a deadbeat, but sometimes it’s not the case at all. Kids will gravitate to a certain parent sometimes. I hope I’m that parent if anything, but I try hard to be fair and support what going between both houses.
I feel like this is where we, as a culture, get families wrong.
Nothing that happens between two parents, after a child is born, is JUST between them. You fuck her over, and then divorce, YOU dont ever have to see her again. I do because she's always going to be my mother. If one parent fucks up in a way that it adversely effects the kid's family, they should be well aware of it.
We got ya back bruh. Thanks for sharing. See cuzzo @playahaitian this is the type shit I'm talkin bout.
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Damn, Bgols woman hatred runs so deep we got cats in here defending a white culture vulture lmao can't make this shit up!
That's how it is when it comes to black women
It seems some of y'all missed the part where things were amicable until she found out he went behind her back and got a lawyer because he was trying to make sure she got served in Ohio vs him getting served in California. Plus, if I understood him correctly, he didn't come home for 2 months because he was waiting for the process server to serve his wife. He talks about it at the beginning of the interview at 2:32.
As a kid or a spouse I would have been pissed about all that too.
As a kid or a spouse I would have been pissed about all that too.
We got ya back bruh. Thanks for sharing. See cuzzo @playahaitian this is the type shit I'm talkin bout.
I hear you Cuzzo.
That's why I always show you mad respect because no matter what you coming with some facts.
I was just saying there is another side so I try not to go too hard because it ain't fair.
Especially if I don't know or trust the person telling the story. And in Owen's case he admitted himself he f**ked up.
He actually messing up the game for the REAL GOOD FATHERS and there are MANY.
All I was saying
That’s just smart on his part. At the point the divorce is a go as a man you already on the back foot in the system. CA has some fucked up divorce laws. I would’ve been on the same shit. Everything is amicable until it’s not.
Understand that part, but don't act confused when the kids are done with you. He made his choices and they made theirs.
Not defending the guy. But just as you say we won't know the whole story from Gary we won't know the whole story about what she did or did not tell those kids. Again, when a woman tells the story it's woah is me......please pray for me for what I've been through. Because she didn't cheat doesn't mean she was the angel or rock of the relationship. Shaunie should try keeping her fuckin mouth shut when asked about it. Shaq admitted to what he did. Why the fuck is it okay for these women to throw dirt on the wrong doings of a man at every turn yet when we talk about what happened we gotta shut the fuck up? That's all I'm sayin cuzzo.
The only one doing this now is Gary Owen.
dude is white he probably shows more love to his dog than his kids. This the same guy that used his wife to say the n word when trying to insult another black man. Bgol feels sorry for cacs that try to insult black men through 3rd parties now
I'd be interested to see how many of the dudes in this thread would catch their wife sucking another man's dick then turn around and say that is it HIS responsibility, not hers, to make sure their kids are not angry with her and don't think any less of her.
mg here my dear album is a cold album. gary is not into his role as a father like that, otherwise he find a legal way to see his kids
There is no legal way to force adult children to see their parents.
the mother can not stop gary from seeing his children, he should have hire a lawyer to get a judge to see to it that he is able to see his kids. i don't believe he is into interacting with his kids like that. how does he justify not seeing your kids for that long
Pointis if I did I would bad mouth her to my children. I'd keep my emotions in check enough never to do that
You say that because you love him. Maybe they don’t have that kind of bond with him. I think generational curses are real. I think sometimes you are able to overcome them but the majority of the time, you’re not enough to move the evolutionary window.
His children aren’t babies. Aren’t they adults?
The kids are adults. He has no rights as a parent anymore.
He could stop paying for their college and be well within his rights. I heard one of them told him not to pay for their college.
This is a bad situation for any family and I feel for him and the kids because they don't quite get it. Relationships fail all the time for a myriad of different reasons, but whether he and their mother are together or not he will always be their father
I'm going to cheat, I'm going to break up the family, then I'm going to make sure I give as little as possible for child support and to the family unit...
I don't know why my kids don't fuck with me...
Sounds like a coward that doesn't want to be cursed out. I don't buy that whole "I secretly watched my son at his job" story. He could have easily walked up to his son and said, "Son, I'm sorry. Let's talk. I want you in my life."
I've never heard him say he apologized to his kids.
If he wanted to see his son SOOOO bad, he would have gone up to him and spoke to him man to man instead of hiding.
The ex-wife wasn't there so the BGOL Blame Her crew can't use that excuse.
Sounds like an absent, non invested father that doesn't want to own up to what he did that't on a sympathy tour on social media instead of doing the hard work of working this out with his seed.
His kids are adults. They are free to see or not see him as they please. They were around 18 or very close to it when he decided he wanted a divorce.
HE fucked up, plain and simple.
Listen, his kids not fucking him is odd unless he did something fucked up to them. Divorces happen all the time. They weren’t toddlers or in grade school when this happened. If all this is just over him divorcing their mom, it seems what they’re doing is extreme. We don’t know what the circumstances are but as an adult would say fuck a parent if one divorced the other? Either he is a truly piece a shit or they're being influenced by their mom. It’s just not normal. That’s like my kids now saying fuck their mom because she ask me for a divorce. I’d have to be in their ear or their mom would have to be a bad mother.