Why you laughing at me? lol
That was funny, but partly true!
Why you laughing at me? lol
Yeah, that's a pretty big ask.
Bgol knows your girl better than you... Just sayin.
Uncle Chuck this what bothers me...
If everything op saying IS true?
Does he think he is helping things bullying her?
You think she LIKES the fact that men keep pushing her around?
Her boyfriend who hates the church finds out her old pastor is a recovering addict who cleaned up his life and leads a church got married got kids and may have slipped up...
so now he not only calls her stupid but also lacking common sense and naive (and passively blaming her because she is ALWAYS extra friendly like all them Pisces are)
and denounces her FAITH!
and on the other side a church elder she trusted with not only her life but her DAUGHTER'S may have made a pass at her...
she feels violated and then feels naive guilty and manipulated blames herself
and is STILL questioning if perhaps she either lead him on OR completely blew the situation out of proportion.
she has BOTH of these men pulling her in opposite directions
both wanting her love and devotion and probably BERATING her at the same damn time.
both saying she is confused naive basically calling her a child.
Damn Black woman can't catch a break.
I pm youEveryone also know that deacons and pastors are the biggest creep scumbags of the black chuuch. Those kats are Thug Life. Giving tight pelvis to pelvis body hugs to your lady then shake your hand like you're his son afterwards. Be winking at your bitch during service from the alter.
DO NOT LISTEN TO BGOL NIGGAS WHEN IT COMES TO YOU AND YOURS
pastor prolly on Bgol right now....
U gotta ask her about it one time and one time only
If it continues then u gotta kick the bucket
If u don't, shit can get ugly and flip on you.
if u live life u will come in contact with many people and u will find out many people have traits that are common after awhile u can read certain behaviors to come thru with correct conclusions..
shit can get ugly and flip on you.
Uncle Chuck this what bothers me...
If everything op saying IS true?
Does he think he is helping things bullying her?
You think she LIKES the fact that men keep pushing her around?
Her boyfriend who hates the church finds out her old pastor is a recovering addict who cleaned up his life and leads a church got married got kids and may have slipped up...
so now he not only calls her stupid but also lacking common sense and naive (and passively blaming her because she is ALWAYS extra friendly like all them Pisces are)
and denounces her FAITH!
and on the other side a church elder she trusted with not only her life but her DAUGHTER'S may have made a pass at her...
she feels violated and then feels naive guilty and manipulated blames herself
and is STILL questioning if perhaps she either lead him on OR completely blew the situation out of proportion.
she has BOTH of these men pulling her in opposite directions
both wanting her love and devotion and probably BERATING her at the same damn time.
both saying she is confused naive basically calling her a child.
Damn Black woman can't catch a break.
u said that shit like cokey pastor gonna come thru to that nig dog step on some cutty from dead president shit
cokey pastor: hey young blood how u doin
op: fuck u do comin round these parts
cokey: listen young blood i juss came by to give ur girl some spiritual guidance
op: fuck u mean spiritual guidance we atheist around these parts here nig
cokey: hey listen young blood im not ur enemy juss look at me as the family friend..im juss trying to help out..now u kno anytime u need a lil prayer in ur life i'll swing by and give ur girl my blessings..no problems
op: blessings fuck u mean blessings
cokey: listen i'm not gonna lie to u i care about ur girl..when u wasn't around we use to read a lot of bible verses together..but u hear now and i'm gone
op: fuck out here u coke sniffing bitch
cokey: what
op gets pistol whipped falls down a flight of stairs, hotpockets and gatorade scattered all over the place..cokey put oldschool 38 to op face
cokey: listen nig i want my motherfucking selfies..how u think she learned them butt poses..was she doin them splits b4 she met me huh, was she able to put them legs back all the way to her face huh...u getting all them good poses and u didn't even think me..u lucky this isn't bizz juss personal..tell ur shorty i want my fucking selfies than i'm gone...see u later grocery man
op gets pistol whipped falls down a flight of stairs, hotpockets and gatorade scattered all over the place..cokey put oldschool 38 to op face
cokey: listen nig i want my motherfucking selfies..how u think she learned them butt poses..was she doin them splits b4 she met me huh, was she able to put them legs back all the way to her face huh...u getting all them good poses and u didn't even think me..u lucky this isn't bizz juss personal..tell ur shorty i want my fucking selfies than i'm gone...see u later grocery man
I do have one more question: Your girl is an innocent lamb. She don't know when someone is spitting game, unwise to the ways of the world, and she thinks that it's her fault when someone comes on to her. And that means that they usually don't know when game is being run on them, and that's fine. I've known males and females like that. That being said, don't you think it odd that someone with these attributes would have the gumption or wherewithal to just start checking her man's phone?
From his previous thread they haven't been together more than 6 months but friends a while. Shit man she had a stalker and now this.......famo better than me because I couldn't keep putting up with shit like that.why op won't answer how long they been together for??? in fact do ya live together???
damn now u made this into how the coke turns...the coke opera.. will the naive late bloomer thick body chick choose her hornball coke sniffing pastor or will she choose her quiet but crazy boyfriend
He hates the church, as do I, I make no apologies about that. When I was ready to settle down, I knew a holy roller wasn't on the list. My wife of 25 years, although she's spiritual, she also thinks the church is bullshit, so we good. I find it to be the acme of foolishness to get serious about a religious broad, if you're not into it. That's a tug-of-war you ain't gonna win. If she's TRULY into the church like he says, here's how this plays out: Either he's going have to change his feelings on church, which doesn't seem likely, or he's gonna have to face the hell of:
1. "How come your man don't come to church with you?"
2. "Why are you with a man that don't believe in the Word?"
3. "You can't fully commit to God, because the man you love is pulling you in the other direction."
4. Then one day, she hits him with the "I need a man that's equally yoked!" song & dance.
I hope they get sorted, but, eh...
DO NOT LISTEN TO BGOL NIGGAS WHEN IT COMES TO YOU AND YOURS
pastor prolly on Bgol right now....
U gotta ask her about it one time and one time only
If it continues then u gotta kick the bucket
If u don't, shit can get ugly and flip on you.
Word...
You really can't trust these chicks man. Ol girl might have a throw away phone in her "workout bag" where she keeps those racy selfies.
How do I know this?
Because I just had a "committed" bitch come through at 11am last Tuesday morning for the Business...and guess where she told the nigga she was going that morning.
To "WORKOUT"
But on some real shit Dhustla hit it on the head wit that response. She's allowing dude to continue on without shutting him down. Maybe she feels intimidated because he's a pastor and has some sort of clout where yall live...But fuck all that
So...my girl looked through my phone on some sneak shit one day and i caught her slippin a few days later. I checked her phone and saw the pastor from her old church begging for her to send him a selfie. The pastor is married with kids. Hes also known for being a drug addict, and he works with the youth. My girl didnt respond to the requests. She kept avoiding it but continued to text him. The texts were spaced out for days and days, but the nigga is still pressing her to send him a selfie. Im about to do something drastic and my heart rate is elevated even typing this. What do i do?
Because most if us has had a "her". We know what's up. Young boy don't know how to handle her.
Uncle Chuck this what bothers me...
If everything op saying IS true?
Does he think he is helping things bullying her?
You think she LIKES the fact that men keep pushing her around?
Her boyfriend who hates the church finds out her old pastor is a recovering addict who cleaned up his life and leads a church got married got kids and may have slipped up...
so now he not only calls her stupid but also lacking common sense and naive (and passively blaming her because she is ALWAYS extra friendly like all them Pisces are)
and denounces her FAITH!
and on the other side a church elder she trusted with not only her life but her DAUGHTER'S may have made a pass at her...
she feels violated and then feels naive guilty and manipulated blames herself
and is STILL questioning if perhaps she either lead him on OR completely blew the situation out of proportion.
she has BOTH of these men pulling her in opposite directions
both wanting her love and devotion and probably BERATING her at the same damn time.
both saying she is confused naive basically calling her a child.
Damn Black woman can't catch a break.
Not sure if serious...*fryeye*