Bgol knows your girl better than you... Just sayin.
I need yall opinion on this..male and female
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I hear ya, but not in this case here, thats what pastor punanny wants, him getting all emotionally riled up, so she can come running to him for advice.....
there is a time and place for everything, this is not the time for it.. him showing some sense of emotional maturity will work in his favor and not against him.
Now if she actually break down and gives in to pastor punanny, then thats a whole different ball game..
honestly i think this is the issue within....
you just decapitated mfs on this one quote....i been there
you aint lyin chuck
OP said they in their mid 20s so you know that pastor was doing the birdman handrub when he saw her
The pimps from the 60's and 70's hit the church up heavy...
you aint lying, most of them are in the business for that tax free money and coochie!! most women who attend their church, see the pastor
as some sort of surrogate husband and shit..
Op blinded by how good she looks.
She jus bat her eyes and homie melts like butter.
She jus bat her eyes and homie melts like butter.
Nah, we jus know how women operate. She is no diffrent. Plus he is young.
I just know, many times, looking from the outside is much clearer and not as cloudy as dealing with it from the inside.
Nope, don't know his woman or his situation at all. Just telling him to close his heart and open his open eyes, until he knows what is what.
You guys ain't lying. One of my friends was a deacon when I was still being forced to go church way back. I thought dude was a no pussy getting lame. He acted like a square, clean cut etc.
Come to find out he was smashing at least half of the congregation. My jaw literally dropped. Unsurprisingly he's a pastor now. Man, wolf in sheep clothing and I didn't even know it, despite going to the same school as him.
Come to find out he was smashing at least half of the congregation. My jaw literally dropped. Unsurprisingly he's a pastor now. Man, wolf in sheep clothing and I didn't even know it, despite going to the same school as him.
Bruh... my light skinned green eyed cousin from Mississippi was / is the biggest player in the family...Nigga met a bitch saturday night at the club & brought her to the family reunion dinner the following Sunday...Nigga stays fucking random hoes every time I see him for reunions & the last I heard he's a pastor.
truth and use that 20% local code too not even paying full price
Bruh....
I remember a case where a dude actually ran up in a church and shot a pastor for some shit like this..
but didnt being there make you a wiser person, who can see shit coming a mile away now!?!
there are dudes that know women, and there are dudes that KNOW women...!!
you have to know when you over your head and how to handle it...
I could never take a chick seriously that has access to professional athletes or entertainers...
she gettin the ho treatment...
but didnt being there make you a wiser person, who can see shit coming a mile away now!?!
there are dudes that know women, and there are dudes that KNOW women...!!
you have to know when you over your head and how to handle it...
I could never take a chick seriously that has access to professional athletes or entertainers...
she gettin the ho treatment...
Plus, people lose all logic when God or religion come into play. You ever see a horrible singer singing a gospel song get booed on "Showtime At The Apollo"? Even though they sound like a moose being forcibly raped, the audience will usually let them finish.
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This is NOT a sit down issue with the pastor and her and you.
That right there is what folks call unnecessary drama with a side of #TeamTooMuch.
You and your girl have hope, please do not let these guys convince you of anything else. Some of them have been hurt so bad, they paint all women with a broad brush. Others might be jealous of the fact that you have a beautiful woman on your arm that has many suitors. If they have never experienced that dynamic in a relationship, they might not be able to give you relevant advice.
You are at an advantage now. You know that your girl likes game & guidance so, give it to her. Be her leader; a calm force that she can trust. Be wiser than your years and channel your anger into a level-headed understanding force that will help her peep game & navigate life.
man the way u describe ur chick she's an alley oop pass to a manipulator...throw in a fact she looking for guidance and the best con on earth is using god to find it..pastor dude got his fave steak, lobster, cheeseburger, sweet potatoe pie, and glass of ice tea in 1 meal with this broad...pussy to easy get with all them openings she given
But, he came here to get it. My shit is all good, I'm telling him to focus, and yes, I think he's putting too much importance on this guy's fake pastor status. BTW, I agree with you on the sit down issue. I wouldn't do that.
do not do this.
you will be playing right into his hands.
If you approach him passively he will punk you
May even make YOU feel sorry for him he is a ex-fiend its what they do
If you try the church angle he will quote scripture and your done
if you try the street angle he will talk in circles
and he is a street dude he will set you up
and when he RETELLS this story and he WILL
your girl the congregation and potentially the police will hear how...
an overly aggressive jealous church hating atheist boyfriend
sneaked on his girlfriend's phone invading her privacy
FORCED her to let him text a man of the church
who bravely fought addiction
who is married with kids
because he MISUNDERSTOOD a text which the young woman herself thought was innocent.
After your charged with assault and some type of terrorist threats to the church and get expelled from school lose your girl and probably your job
crying in your car in the rain
you will reflect on the words of wisdom and advice repeatedly given to you on this board.
do not do this family...
Don't bitch up... its his job to try and fuck your bitch...
Check her! Not on some "I went through your phone shit", but on what you expect from your girl shit.... yall grown set the expectation of how she is to handle communicating with other niggas.
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truth
he obviously didn't kno his girl either until he lucked up on her text..question is what would've happen if he never did
She went thru his phone for a reason to send the Pimp her pics...smhso easy that she sent the selfie, right?
BTW, OP, I think you 2 opened some fucked up doors with the snooping. If you 2 have to go through each other shit, is there really any trust there? Fuck that crackhead pastor. You 2 should get your relationship on solid ground. If you spend all your time worried about this pastor, and ignore the fact that you 2 were snooping through each other's phone and the fact that she don't know game, what's gonna happen when the next wolf come along? Again, fuck that pastor, and focus on y'all's thang.
Op...go talk to you pops, grandpa, or that Playa uncle.
no
we really are not- based on your posts, you are in a bad place... the pastor is not your business, let it go
consider in this thread you are getting wisdom from a real pimp, a former celebrity, and a bunch of veterans of heartbreaks born of 'naive' females or manipulative predatory women...
now later, If you want to inflict dirty work \tricks on the pastor, post his info and hope that the gods internet are generous
All of this!!!! Yes!!!!
What if she was very disturbed by the fact that her pastor was asking for these things and she thought, if my pastor, who I trusted can ask me for pics while married, what is my non-believing boyfriend capable of doing?
Some people have a hard time separating religion from morality & having a code of ethics. She might be one of those.