I'd first like to express that I always respect intellectual conversation from my BGOL brethren. This has been that 4 me.
I acknowledge what you are saying and your point of view. I will have to agree to disagree on this one. My personal bias towards the struggle of fathers and moreso specifically black fathers is too strong.
It's damned if you do, damned if you don't then. Yeah, He should have gave an 11 year old millions of dollars to buy toys and candy with. And then fast forward to now it'd be, my daddy didn't set it aside. And if he set the funds aside, it'd be my dad let us grow up poor and my childhood was ruined.
It's always daddies fault I see.
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