Real Sex Question: What is the average time to wait for sex and how long is too long?

[godofwine]

I have a friend who is built likean older Danni Lynne. She is stacked like this still at 57.

Now, I stop fucking with her because she was a dick tease. She believes that sex is connected to her heart and she's not trying to get hurt again and wah wah wah. She has been willfully celibate for 5 years. She just said she tries not to think about it, but she's built like Dabbi Lynne. So she gets approached.

I tried to tell her over and over that getting a nut isn't connected to your heart, or it shouldn't be. Or, you should be able to turn that shit on and off and get you some and quiet the pussy rumblings.

She calls me today and says she's been dating this guy for 3 months. They used to go to high school together and she still hasn't let him hit after 3 months.

Last night, she gave him a massage When they met up after work, he asked to return the favor and He eventually got her to let one of her gigantic breasts free.

She can have nipple orgasms, so eventually he got the other one free and she came four times. Then she said, "I don't know if I'm ready for this, yet" and made him go home.

She said when he called this morning he said, "I'm done. I can't do this anymore. Keep your lips, keep your tongue and your pussy."

She called me and was like, "Am I tripping? I just don't want to get hurt again."

I told her, "you goddamn right you tripping. You came four times to his zero, sent him home horny as fuck after you busted four nuts. I read the lyrics of sexual healing to her and told her she was torturing the poor dude. This ain't 1953. What are you waiting for? You are on some Cooley High type shit, holding out like your mama watching, and for what?

Now, we as men WANT to hit the first night if we can, but we won't press it if it ain't there. But I'm not waiting 3 months.

Her and I used to fuck, and when we reconnected, even though we used to fuck she was a dick tease like a motherfucker, letting me kiss her, suck on them big ass titties and sending me home hard and horny.

This is what she finally understood. I told her I imagine going to work for 2 weeks without getting paid, that's how it feels for a guy to fuck with a woman for a number of weeks or months and not get no pussy, no payoff.

I said that and she finally understood. Fucking women


This is what she looks like except just a little bit older, but still built like a brick house

 

[Helico-pterFunk]

3 months and he gave her nipple orgasms.

Damn.

He wasted 1/4 year on some mere breasisis.

 

[tallblacknyc]

ive always been about consistent pussy ( friends with benefits, fuck buddies, etc) so I would always have a few chicks that i could go to , to get off.. leaving my ability to get pleasure from one chick has never been my thing.. now that I’m 43 I’m really big on that mentality cause god didn’t give me a dick between my leg to just piss and I’ll be damn if I’m jacking my shit like some school age geek when theres at least 3.9 billion females on this world. So if a broad think I’m gonna wait to just fuck her she can kick rocks. Know that I will be fucking other broads b4 you give me buns and more likely will be fucking other chicks once you give up thst box.. ole boy crazy this is summertime nothing but hormones and moist pussy out here aka mating season going 3 months without getting anything fuckkkkkkk that.. I hope dude had some outside trim during his wait

 

[godofwine]

ive always been about consistent pussy ( friends with benefits, fuck buddies, etc) so I would always have a few chicks that i could go to , to get off.. leaving my ability to get pleasure from one chick has never been my thing.. now that I’m 43 I’m really big on that mentality cause god didn’t give me a dick between my leg to just piss and I’ll be damn if I’m jacking my shit like some school age geek when theres at least 3.9 billion females on this world. So if a broad think I’m gonna wait to just fuck her she can kick rocks. Know that I will be fucking other broads b4 you give me buns and more likely will be fucking other chicks once you give up thst box.. ole boy crazy this is summertime nothing but hormones and moist pussy out here aka mating season going 3 months without getting anything fuckkkkkkk that.. I hope dude had some outside trim during his wait

3 months and he gave her nipple orgasms.

Damn.

He wasted 1/4 year on some mere breasisis.

It took forever for me to talk to this chick and get her to even halfway understand.

Those lies that our parents teach us, we don't even realize that they are lies. Mothers and aunts tell their children and nieces that pussy is precious and you shouldn't just give it away yada yada yada.

In actuality, sex is sex and sometimes it's just that. Sometimes I get it just so I can feel better. Sometimes it relieves stress.

But if you remember that movie the brothers, where one guy had a woman who wouldn't give him head because she believed her mother when her mother told her that good girls don't do that.

Sex is the big lie. You look at someone you can't tell what the fuck they're into kinky or not. They tell you one thing, but they're into something even more freakier than you could imagine.

Sex is sexual healing as Marvin Gaye said. "There is something I can do, I just get on the telephone and call you a baby. And honey I know you'll be there to relieve me..."

It took more than 2 hours of talking to her to get her to understand this fact. I told her of a woman who I film for her only fans, who gets fucked by dick after dick and comes a hell of a lot of times. It took that before she realized that sex and love don't always have to be connected.

She told me she was going to finally have sex with him in the Bahamas and August, 3 months from now.

"Stop thinking that sex has to be special. Sometimes it's just fucking sex"

It's crazy that we believe the lies that our parents tell us about sex. The girls believe they shouldn't want it, and the guys think that that's all there is to life. Both are wrong

 

[jawnswoop]

I'm not waiting no damn 3 months because when you wait that long and if y'all decide to get married, she'll have you waiting again and making excuses. I mean dude did all of that but still got no pussy is crazy to me.

I would've broke the ice by whipping it out to see if she would suck this dick and if not, I'm out and her number is blocked. Out of sight and out of mind.

Nobody got time for these kind of games, but dudes gotta let women know being bold that they want to fuck her and don't give her time to wait or think about it because you can let her know you got plenty of options out there of women willing to give up the pussy and give us that super head.

 

[Helico-pterFunk]

Exactly.

It’s all about personal choice.

Some people can fuck anything that walks.

Others put much more thought into it.

And a select few overthink it and talk / think themselves out of getting laid.

 

[tallblacknyc]

It took forever for me to talk to this chick and get her to even halfway understand.

Those lies that our parents teach us, we don't even realize that they are lies. Mothers and aunts tell their children and nieces that pussy is precious and you shouldn't just give it away yada yada yada.

In actuality, sex is sex and sometimes it's just that. Sometimes I get it just so I can feel better. Sometimes it relieves stress.

But if you remember that movie the brothers, where one guy had a woman who wouldn't give him head because she believed her mother when her mother told her that good girls don't do that.

Sex is the big lie. You look at someone you can't tell what the fuck they're into kinky or not. They tell you one thing, but they're into something even more freakier than you could imagine.

Sex is sexual healing as Marvin Gaye said. "There is something I can do, I just get on the telephone and call you a baby. And honey I know you'll be there to relieve me..."

It took more than 2 hours of talking to her to get her to understand this fact. I told her of a woman who I film for her only fans, who gets fucked by dick after dick and comes a hell of a lot of times. It took that before she realized that sex and love don't always have to be connected.

She told me she was going to finally have sex with him in the Bahamas and August, 3 months from now.

"Stop thinking that sex has to be special. Sometimes it's just fucking sex"

It's crazy that we believe the lies that our parents tell us about sex. The girls believe they shouldn't want it, and the guys think that that's all there is to life. Both are wrong

Nah all our parents didn’t teach the same thing.. all the males on my mom side pretty much had multiple females , in fact it’s my uncles that showed me a true ladies man can have multiple females in the same room , they all know he fucking each and everyone of them, and none of them broads is acting up or complaining, in fact he more likely flirting with them and saying freaky shit in front of all of them and they all laughing and getting along. Zero chaos.. this is the life I knew I wanted cause naturally I never just liked one chick.. it’s always been in my blood since mad young. The females in my family knew how the males were and knew eventually it would be inheritEd for generations to come. Mom pretty much told me to know that these chicks would be lucky to be in my presence, so with that confidence and info never had that pussy is the prize shit.. in fact once again the males in the family use to push slinging dick and knowing how to please pussy will always have mad chicks wanting you. It was never no trick talk or spending money it was like these broads love getting that middle tickle right and u’ll never have a problem getting chicks. If you stay around my uncles, cousins, older bro long enough ud hear chicks bragging about them piping them right, etc or chicks looking at you like oh you such a such family we know about ya

 

[jawnswoop]

Exactly.

It’s all about personal choice.

Some people can fuck anything that walks.

Others put much more thought into it.

And a select few overthink it and talk / think themselves out of getting laid.

Women try to deflect saying "we're going too fast", "you're too freaky", "let's wait until marriage", "I'm celibate" and other bullshit excuse they come up with to make a man wait. Some dudes will wait while others would move on.

 

[Helico-pterFunk]

Women try to deflect saying "we're going too fast", "you're too freaky", "let's wait until marriage", "I'm celibate" and other bullshit excuse they come up with to make a man wait. Some dudes will wait while others would move on.

Agreed. It’s like what @tallblacknyc said earlier ... there are billions of fish in the sea.

Don’t waste your time on mind games and mixed signals with someone.

If it’s just spinnin’ your wheels, move on down the road to any other receptive parties. Be they casual hook-up, GF, or potential future wife.

Life is too short.

 

[jawnswoop]

Agreed. It’s like what @tallblacknyc said earlier ... there are billions of fish in the sea.

Don’t waste your time on mind games and mixed signals with someone.

If it’s just spinnin’ your wheels, move on down the road to any other receptive parties. Be they casual hook-up, GF, or potential future wife.

Life is too short.

Yup, and I don't got no time for women mind games. You don't want to fuck, cool. Bye bye Felicia.

Moving on to the next.

Plenty of pussy in the sea to get and I'll be damn waiting a long ass time for some pussy. I'm still gonna fuck until whenever she's ready to fuck after that 3 months long hiatus is up because by that time I was already fucking other women.

 

[godofwine]

Yup, and I don't got no time for women mind games. You don't want to fuck, cool. Bye bye Felicia.

Moving on to the next.

Plenty of pussy in the sea to get and I'll be damn waiting a long ass time for some pussy. I'm still gonna fuck until whenever she's ready to fuck after that 3 months long hiatus is up because by that time I was already fucking other women.

She just called me saying that she met up with old boy trying to apologize and he was DONE done.

"Keep your hands, your lips ,and your pussy to yourself."

I told her, sex ain't special. It's something that she should have damned well known before the age of 57, but then when you think about it - how?

Our parents don't tell us the real deal about sex. And unless you have some good friends, you don't really learn it that way either, because everybody just expects you to know.

You know you're not supposed to just fuck anybody, but many women just end up holding it just to hold it, and for what?

About 10 years ago I met this chick who was 67 and she was trying to toss the pussy at me. She looked Damned good for her age, I mean she look like Sheryl Lee Ralph, no lie.

She said, "I lived my whole life for God and mythical Jesus and I didn't have any fun. I'm old and I'm horny and I've been curbing my hunger for sex my whole life trying to be 'good' and for what?"

Now, I didn't get a chance to hit that because she let her daughter come stay with her and her daughter left the kids with her all the time.

Women need to realize that sex ain't special and trying to have a special moment and hold on to sex for weeks and months is just pointless. It don't take that long to discern whether the guy is trash. They going to carry all that good pussy into the afterlife fucking around the way they are

 

[tallblacknyc]

She just called me saying that she met up with old boy trying to apologize and he was DONE done.

"Keep your hands, your lips ,and your pussy to yourself."

I told her, sex ain't special. It's something that she should have damned well known before the age of 57, but then when you think about it - how?

Our parents don't tell us the real deal about sex. And unless you have some good friends, you don't really learn it that way either, because everybody just expects you to know.

You know you're not supposed to just fuck anybody, but many women just end up holding it just to hold it, and for what?

About 10 years ago I met this chick who was 67 and she was trying to toss the pussy at me. She looked Damned good for her age, I mean she look like Sheryl Lee Ralph, no lie.

She said, "I lived my whole life for God and mythical Jesus and I didn't have any fun. I'm old and I'm horny and I've been curbing my hunger for sex my whole life trying to be 'good' and for what?"

Now, I didn't get a chance to hit that because she let her daughter come stay with her and her daughter left the kids with her all the time.

Women need to realize that sex ain't special and trying to have a special moment and hold on to sex for weeks and months is just pointless. It don't take that long to discern whether the guy is trash. They going to carry all that good pussy into the afterlife fucking around the way they are

As far as that last paragraph if you are an individual they actually like a lot of those rules go out the door and the wait period is shorter.. you don’t have to worry for the most part if you fit that criteria.. on the rare occasion they have some real rules that they follow you as a man have to see if she worth it to tolerate that shit.. but in the end if you get consistent pussy and have various females to go to , you wouldn’t sweat it

 

[Helico-pterFunk]

About 10 years ago I met this chick who was 67 and she was trying to toss the pussy at me. She looked Damned good for her age, I mean she look like Sheryl Lee Ralph, no lie.

She said, "I lived my whole life for God and mythical Jesus and I didn't have any fun. I'm old and I'm horny and I've been curbing my hunger for sex my whole life trying to be 'good' and for what?"

Now, I didn't get a chance to hit that because she let her daughter come stay with her and her daughter left the kids with her all the time.

Damn man.


The one that got away!


Shame on the daughter & grandkids running pass interference on the potential poundation of Sheryl Lee Ralph Version 2.0 - BGOL Edition.

 

[A to Dah K]

It took forever for me to talk to this chick and get her to even halfway understand.

Those lies that our parents teach us, we don't even realize that they are lies. Mothers and aunts tell their children and nieces that pussy is precious and you shouldn't just give it away yada yada yada.

In actuality, sex is sex and sometimes it's just that. Sometimes I get it just so I can feel better. Sometimes it relieves stress.

But if you remember that movie the brothers, where one guy had a woman who wouldn't give him head because she believed her mother when her mother told her that good girls don't do that.

Sex is the big lie. You look at someone you can't tell what the fuck they're into kinky or not. They tell you one thing, but they're into something even more freakier than you could imagine.

Sex is sexual healing as Marvin Gaye said. "There is something I can do, I just get on the telephone and call you a baby. And honey I know you'll be there to relieve me..."

It took more than 2 hours of talking to her to get her to understand this fact. I told her of a woman who I film for her only fans, who gets fucked by dick after dick and comes a hell of a lot of times. It took that before she realized that sex and love don't always have to be connected.

She told me she was going to finally have sex with him in the Bahamas and August, 3 months from now.

"Stop thinking that sex has to be special. Sometimes it's just fucking sex"

It's crazy that we believe the lies that our parents tell us about sex. The girls believe they shouldn't want it, and the guys think that that's all there is to life. Both are wrong

To the females point, once i smash i am leas likely to put in the same effort i was before i smashed.

Their pussy usually is their main catch. Don't get me wrong sometimes you meet a dope chixk and connect on a diff level,but most of them offer nothing more than some box.

 

[Lou_Kayge]

It took forever for me to talk to this chick and get her to even halfway understand.

Those lies that our parents teach us, we don't even realize that they are lies. Mothers and aunts tell their children and nieces that pussy is precious and you shouldn't just give it away yada yada yada.

In actuality, sex is sex and sometimes it's just that. Sometimes I get it just so I can feel better. Sometimes it relieves stress.

But if you remember that movie the brothers, where one guy had a woman who wouldn't give him head because she believed her mother when her mother told her that good girls don't do that.

Sex is the big lie. You look at someone you can't tell what the fuck they're into kinky or not. They tell you one thing, but they're into something even more freakier than you could imagine.

Sex is sexual healing as Marvin Gaye said. "There is something I can do, I just get on the telephone and call you a baby. And honey I know you'll be there to relieve me..."

It took more than 2 hours of talking to her to get her to understand this fact. I told her of a woman who I film for her only fans, who gets fucked by dick after dick and comes a hell of a lot of times. It took that before she realized that sex and love don't always have to be connected.

She told me she was going to finally have sex with him in the Bahamas and August, 3 months from now.

"Stop thinking that sex has to be special. Sometimes it's just fucking sex"

It's crazy that we believe the lies that our parents tell us about sex. The girls believe they shouldn't want it, and the guys think that that's all there is to life. Both are wrong

This is probably more of a black thing. People want to make big sociological treatises about why some black guys fuck white bitches and other races. Often times, it's easier to get attractive (key word) women of other races to give up the pussy faster.

 

[A to Dah K]

She just called me saying that she met up with old boy trying to apologize and he was DONE done.

"Keep your hands, your lips ,and your pussy to yourself."

I told her, sex ain't special. It's something that she should have damned well known before the age of 57, but then when you think about it - how?

Our parents don't tell us the real deal about sex. And unless you have some good friends, you don't really learn it that way either, because everybody just expects you to know.

You know you're not supposed to just fuck anybody, but many women just end up holding it just to hold it, and for what?

About 10 years ago I met this chick who was 67 and she was trying to toss the pussy at me. She looked Damned good for her age, I mean she look like Sheryl Lee Ralph, no lie.

She said, "I lived my whole life for God and mythical Jesus and I didn't have any fun. I'm old and I'm horny and I've been curbing my hunger for sex my whole life trying to be 'good' and for what?"

Now, I didn't get a chance to hit that because she let her daughter come stay with her and her daughter left the kids with her all the time.

Women need to realize that sex ain't special and trying to have a special moment and hold on to sex for weeks and months is just pointless. It don't take that long to discern whether the guy is trash. They going to carry all that good pussy into the afterlife fucking around the way they are

Sex isn't special until feelings are involved.if you not really feeling a chick you don't care what she out here doing,but once you into that broad, you still feel that way?wifey out here fucking around, you don't care?

 

[jawnswoop]

This is probably more of a black thing. People want to make big sociological treatises about why some black guys fuck white bitches and other races. Often times, it's easier to get attractive (key word) women of other races to give up the pussy faster.

I hate the fact you made this a race thing when it isnt. There's plenty of black women who would give up the pussy faster if they like you and women know within the first 5 seconds meeting you if they want to fuck or not.

Now if she doesn't find you attractive,she's gonna make you wait and have you tricking to have sex with her because she doesn't have lust for you.

Men have to stop letting women play mind games with them, let her know upfront and straightforwardly that you want to fuck and the ball is in her park to choose yes or no. Never give her time to think nor set a timetable on some bullshit months for sex from her.

All this time dude was waiting to fuck her in 3 months he could've been fucking plenty of other women who wouldn't have had him waiting.

 

[jawnswoop]

Sex isn't special until feelings are involved.if you not really feeling a chick you don't care what she out here doing,but once you into that broad, you still feel that way?wifey out here fucking around, you don't care?

Let her know there's no strings attached when having sex, it's up to her to accept that.

I just want pussy, nothing more and nothing else from you.

 

[blackbull1970]

Generally, 2 or 3 weeks is long enough to wait.

She has other issues going on that she has not revealed yet.

At her age, she knows by now that Men have a stronger sex drive and want it more than women.

If this was some 20 something, dump her quickly.

But at her age, if you really care for her (besides sex), do some CSI work and try to get her to open up on what really is going on.

 

[godofwine]

Sex isn't special until feelings are involved.if you not really feeling a chick you don't care what she out here doing,but once you into that broad, you still feel that way?wifey out here fucking around, you don't care?

But she is out here trying to feel something before she beds down with any guy and that's the fucking problem.

Now she got this guy she made wait three fucking months and he's done done. Now she got her feelings hurt and she's horny as fuck, now she got no dude cuz she ran him off trying to wait and make it special.


But I'm going to try to smash later this week

 

[jawnswoop]

But she is out here trying to feel something before she beds down with any guy and that's the fucking problem.

Now she got this guy she made wait three fucking months and he's done done. Now she got her feelings hurt and she's horny as fuck, now she got no dude cuz she ran him off trying to wait and make it special.


But I'm going to try to smash later this week

Next time tell her, when it's time, and you know you want to fuck, take off all your clothes, bend over, and mouth open wide.

Stop playing fucking games. We're all grown.

Let's enjoy this fuck session.

If it was me, I would be bold with her, saying all kinds of nasty shit using my mouthpiece to turn her on so that when it's time she can't wait for me to fuck her.

 

[PsiBorg]

It depends on the situation. If we're just talking and I'm not spending any dough, I can wait a while... no harm no foul. But if she desires dinners and all of the trappings that goes with that type of relationship; then the time table shortens rather quickly.

If I'm coming out of the pocket, she's coming out of them panties. No games are going to be played.

 

[A to Dah K]

But she is out here trying to feel something before she beds down with any guy and that's the fucking problem.

Now she got this guy she made wait three fucking months and he's done done. Now she got her feelings hurt and she's horny as fuck, now she got no dude cuz she ran him off trying to wait and make it special.


But I'm going to try to smash later this week

It can get complicated man lol.
Shes prob been hurt real bad before. She needs to find someone who is going to be patient with her, maybe a church goer or someone on the same sexual fast she is on

 

[jawnswoop]

It depends on the situation. If we're just talking and I'm not spending any dough, I can wait a while... no harm no foul. But if she desires dinners and all of the trappings that goes with that type of relationship; then the time table shortens rather quickly.

If I'm coming out of the pocket, she's coming out of them panties. No games are going to be played.

I wish that was true, her coming out of panties when you come out of pocket.

I don't want to deal with a women when it comes to money. Women love to trick dudes to take her out only to have him going home without the buns.

 

[World B Free]

1 to 3 dates, if it not moving in the desired direction after three dates then move on. Fukin' her is only a sign that she likes you, nothing more and nothing less.

 

[PsiBorg]

I wish that was true, her coming out of panties when you come out of pocket.

I don't want to deal with a women when it comes to money. Women love to trick dudes to take her out only to have him going home without the buns.

That's why "you" have to shorten the time table, because they won't if they're getting what they want from you.

 

[jawnswoop]

That's why "you" have to shorten the time table, because they won't if they're getting what they want from you.

It's a fair exchange, body for body, you shouldn't have to spend money at all.

I'm not gonna waste my time either.

I usually don't even have to take her on dates, just want the sex and that's it.

Now if I'm feeling generous and want to go somewhere, I would invite her if she wants to come.

 

[neptunes007]

1 week. Anything more is a waste.

 

[Flawless]

No more than a week. That's enough time to feel each other out if we are vibing.

 

[jawnswoop]

1 week. Anything more is a waste.

I wouldn't want to give her that much time, women know within seconds if they want to fuck or not.

 

[jackson35]

I have a friend who is built likean older Danni Lynne. She is stacked like this still at 57.

Now, I stop fucking with her because she was a dick tease. She believes that sex is connected to her heart and she's not trying to get hurt again and wah wah wah. She has been willfully celibate for 5 years. She just said she tries not to think about it, but she's built like Dabbi Lynne. So she gets approached.

I tried to tell her over and over that getting a nut isn't connected to your heart, or it shouldn't be. Or, you should be able to turn that shit on and off and get you some and quiet the pussy rumblings.

She calls me today and says she's been dating this guy for 3 months. They used to go to high school together and she still hasn't let him hit after 3 months.

Last night, she gave him a massage When they met up after work, he asked to return the favor and He eventually got her to let one of her gigantic breasts free.

She can have nipple orgasms, so eventually he got the other one free and she came four times. Then she said, "I don't know if I'm ready for this, yet" and made him go home.

She said when he called this morning he said, "I'm done. I can't do this anymore. Keep your lips, keep your tongue and your pussy."

She called me and was like, "Am I tripping? I just don't want to get hurt again."

I told her, "you goddamn right you tripping. You came four times to his zero, sent him home horny as fuck after you busted four nuts. I read the lyrics of sexual healing to her and told her she was torturing the poor dude. This ain't 1953. What are you waiting for? You are on some Cooley High type shit, holding out like your mama watching, and for what?

Now, we as men WANT to hit the first night if we can, but we won't press it if it ain't there. But I'm not waiting 3 months.

Her and I used to fuck, and when we reconnected, even though we used to fuck she was a dick tease like a motherfucker, letting me kiss her, suck on them big ass titties and sending me home hard and horny.

This is what she finally understood. I told her I imagine going to work for 2 weeks without getting paid, that's how it feels for a guy to fuck with a woman for a number of weeks or months and not get no pussy, no payoff.

I said that and she finally understood. Fucking women


This is what she looks like except just a little bit older, but still built like a brick house

fam step your game up, everything rides on how u present yourself, if she is not feelin your presentation, then run to plan b and see what she got to offer. she already told u she not feelin u like to go back to basic. there is something better knocking on your door, go answer it.

 

[playahaitian]

3 months and he gave her nipple orgasms.

Damn.

He wasted 1/4 year on some mere breasisis.

Apparently those are not MERE breasts.

She over 50 dudes out here still lusting after her. Those are some couture breasts made from God's patient fingers.

 

[Helico-pterFunk]

Apparently those are not MERE breasts.

She was blessed with the best breasts?

 

[playahaitian]

She was blessed with the best breasts?

Blessed breasts.

 

[playahaitian]

3 months and he gave her nipple orgasms.

Damn.

He wasted 1/4 year on some mere breasisis.

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