Social media is a cold world!!!

godofwine

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I don't know who she is, the only thing I know is it's cold in that room. You're welcome y'all. The link works

 

godofwine

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Boom. 2nd video. Men and women have different responsibilities in the household. A woman complaining that she got to cook and clean, when the man has to fix, repair, cut the grass, clean the gutters, get repairs done on her car. We are not equal, we are equally important

The first one seems like a skit, but it's the reason why I don't date women with kids. You get close to the kid, y'all break up and now she still wants you to take care of her kid OR you can't see the kid you've known and taken care of for years

 

godofwine

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It was powerful 50 years ago and it's powerful today. The the prejudice of one generation has no right to weigh down on the younger.

We are nothing like our parents our parents would work a shitty job and never stand up to their bosses. We might work a shitty job, but we're going to be vocal, sometimes to our detriment even, but we're not going to take as much shit as our parents did.

 

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It was powerful 50 years ago and it's powerful today. The the prejudice of one generation has no right to weigh down on the younger.

We are nothing like our parents our parents would work a shitty job and never stand up to their bosses. We might work a shitty job, but we're going to be vocal, sometimes to our detriment even, but we're not going to take as much shit as our parents did.


I laugh because I could see this with me and my kids. Except I'm in the generation Sydney portrays and the story comes back full circle. Then you understand your parent's motivation & thinking. The younger generation never appreciate nor comprehend fully the previous generation until they are in the same position. I try my best not to place my baggage & worldview on my kids, often it can't be helped b/c it happens unconsciously & spontaneously. I just try to given them space to develop into themselves without my judgement. It's tough. My father used to say "the sins of the father (parents) fall upon the children".

Also, I dislike when the younger generation say what they would have done in the past or de-value or not recognize the courage, fortitude, endurance & accomplishments of the previous generations. Equally I recognize that the older generation should not shit on the younger. Becareful of what you say to your kids. Your words & actions have powerful impact on them and may come back to haunt you and hurt them.
 
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godofwine

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I laugh because I could see this with me and my kids. Except I'm in the generation Sydney portrays and the story comes back full circle. Then you understand your parent's motivation & thinking. The younger generation never appreciate nor comprehend fully the previous generation until they are in the same position. I try my best not to place my baggage & worldview on my kids, often it can't be help b/c it happens unconsciously & spontaneously. I just try to given them space to develop into themselves without my judgement. It's tough. My father used to say "the sins of the father (parents) fall upon the children".

Also, I dislike when the younger generation say what they would have done in the past or de-value or not recognize the courage, fortitude, endurance & accomplishments of the previous generations. Equally I recognize that the older generation should not shit on the younger. Becareful of what you say to your kids. Your words & actions have powerful impact on them and may come back to haunt you and hurt them.
That second paragraph hits different. Especially when you look at slavery, there are a lot of black people who say what they would have done.

We've all been uncomfortable, but ain't none of us seen hell, even those of us who've seen prison have not seen hell. Our ancestors who went through slavery saw hell and in that hell they were white people.

And one day was just as much hell as the day before or the week before or the month before. Those who were born in it, and died in it and had kids who were born in it and died in it never having the joy of knowing what uncomfortable was.

When you get to that age that you realize the shoes your parents stood in you kind of feel like Red on Shawshank Redemption that want to talk to that young stupid kid you used to be and get them to listen just a little bit more.
 
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