I think this is where the issue lies.
Can we be honest and say that at the core, the issue is that men where used to treating bigger women like jump offs and are annoyed/upset because they can't as easy anymore?
Ask yourself why a big girl like Lizzo should be booed off stage when she's actually talented and pretty?
Like, yall can't be mad because these girls are being propped up lol
Just saying I've seen men legit get angry because a big girl they have no intent on dating or even fucking is getting attention from other men
Lizzo's not my type, but I like big women. Certainly wouldn't boo or shame somebody for being a little fat.
But you got to treat them like jump offs. Even if you love them.
Otherwise you have to give up your life to wait hand and foot on someone dying of preventable illness. Give up that New York City vacation because your partner can't walk more than three blocks without getting winded. Have your partner throw a temper tantrum every time a skinnier woman so much as smiles at you. Or have them take every health goal you have as a personal insult.
I dated one fat woman who lived in a second story walk up apartment. One day she asks me to take out the trash. We've been seeing each other for a few months and she certainly done some things for me so it wasn't an unreasonable request.
I asked her for the bags and she told me they were already outside. Get back there and find out that she's been tossing trash bags off the balcony into the back yard. The bags are split open and there's garbage falling out.
I go to her like WTF. She shrugs her shoulders and says "I've never had one break before."
That's the reality of being so unhealthy you can't take a week's worth of garbage down the steps by yourself.
Y'all can accept that if you want, but I won't.