#1. There's nothing wrong with being an opportunist. It only becomes a problem if you take advantage of people or treat them poorly.Most men would hopefully raise a daughter who’s not an opportunist and actually would go out with a man that she actually likes. They would hope that they would raise a daughter that actually has her own money and that if a situation like this occurs she could pay her own way. Once again if he was gonna pay her back than she would’ve lost nothing and earned respect from a man she was generally interested in. She would understand that in this world trust is a big thing and that people have gone through a lot and sometimes weary of others due to a lot of manipulators. She would comprehend the test and pass it with flying colors
#2. It's PARAMOUNT to teach/instruct your daughter how to make/have her own money. But it's equally important for her to know how to utilize it properly. And who (if anyone at all) to spend it on.
#3. If your daughter is soft enough in the head to date men who'll test her in such a foul fashion (especially on a 1st date) and she allows it, then you've failed as a parent to teach her how to judge people's character.
#4. "If he pays her back"? So, you're actually encouraging your daughter to become dependent on/support an emotionally and financially abusive narcissist. What's next? Test to see if she can take a punch and keep her mouth shut?
#5. She shouldn't have to "comprehend" nor "pass" some bullshit redpill manosphere test. Because you should have raised her to avoid corny clowns like him in the 1st place.
Peace.
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