2)When you employ IDGAF in your life you go further (Not being ugly or an ass about it, but just having less cares about trivial and irrelevant in the big picture situations)
5) Black community is in bad shape. Not the physical or even money but the mentality. I have Black people DAILY at my shop that think because they have purchased from me for a year or 6 months or 3 years that I owe them for my success. Even though I do have rewards, gifts etc. Talking to them about why they don't expect the same free shit from Best Buy, Walmart etc is pointless because they hate that they think Im doing well or atleast better then them.
#2 and #5 are linked. Your black customers hate the idea of their money making you rich because you are black. To the average black person, someone black becoming rich off them (independent of cacs) is the worst shit in the world. Meanwhile, white daddy has told your customers he dont give a fuck about them repeatedly and they lucky they can patronize him, so they flock and beg him to take their money. Its aspirational, while buying from another black person is not. Even on bgol, blacks who do business independent of whites are almost always considered scam artists, con man, egomaniacs tryna take advantage, etc. But blacks who are rich working under whites are Gods and what "success" is.