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Random sports media thoughts:

- Michael Smith’s career arc was ended by his friendship with Jemele Hill. To his credit, I’m sure ESPN had given him his money and he had no financial other incentive to cut bait 100% from his homie. But, she became toxic by her own doing (and at that point had become hard to listen to) and by not cutting and bailing, he was tied to her.

- ESPN’s current lack of black representation is another sign of the void into sport media that BET should have established and cornered the market on back in the traditional media days.

- Mike “The Italian Stallion” Tirico is an MBA case study in how you often, not always, have to abandon, or never acknowledge to begin with, any hint of acknowledgement of your African roots if you desire to scale the ladder of WPP America.

- Who fucked up easy long term post NFL money worse, Warren Sapp, Michael Irvin, or Aqib Talib?
 
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cold-n-cocky said:
Random sports media thoughts:

- Michael Smith’s career arc was ended by his friendship with Jemele Hill. To his credit, I’m sure ESPN had given him his money and he had no financial other incentive to cut bait 100% from his homie. But, she became toxic by her own doing (and at that point had become hard to listen to) and by not cutting and bailing, he was tied to her.

- ESPN’s current lack of black representation is another sign of the void into sport media that BET should have established and cornered the market on back in the traditional media days.

- Mike “The Italian Stallion” Tirick is an MBA case study in how you often, not always, have to abandon, or never acknowledge to begin with, any hint of acknowledgement of your African roots if you desire to scale the ladder of WPP America.

- Who fucked up easy long term post NFL money worse, Warren Sapp, Michael Irvin, or Aqib Talib?
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Aqib Talib. His stock was just started to rise as a commentator, until that pee wee game incident.
 
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playahaitian said:
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Based off of history white people aren't allowed to speak about Black issues.

Secondly criticism and critiques from the majority aren't usually kindly accepted from the minority.

Regarding Dr. Umar. He knows his history but to me he's viewed as a character and not a person that many take seriously.

Unless you paid to see him speak.

The messenger is very important, people will listen but who the messenger is is very essential.
 
Simply Sickenin'

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Duece said:
So speaking to a female friend of mine today, she remarks that a guy she was talking to, just up and ghosted her. So I take her phone and read the conversation going back to January of this year. (For context: Me and this woman have a history but are currently just friends, the guy she's talking to lives in California and they met on Facebook, he deleted his Facebook and they've since kept in touch via text, she is currently having an affair with a married man)

In reading the conversations which tend to range from platonic (him letting her vent) to explicitly sexual with some picture trading, every time she brought up the issue of money, the conversation would get awkward, have longish pauses and then he wouldn't speak to her for weeks at time after that.

Finally, in late July, during a conversation that started platonic, that she turned sexual, she casually sent a picture of a hairstyle and said "I need $150 for my next hairstyle". He jokingly mentions that her fuck-buddy (the married guy) needs to step up and help her with the cost, she replies "LOL" and he hasn't spoken to her since.

So I bluntly told her "You tried, multiple times to hint at wanting money and he's telling you (without telling) that he's not doing that" and I further told her that she probably has turned him off and should expect no response from him, really ever again.

I told her, she should have asked the married nigga for money, a nigga 2000 miles away in Los Angeles is not about to give you $150 just because you sent him a few nude selfies, you probably made him feel like a simp and he's cooled off on you.

Was I wrong, did I handle that correctly?
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The only thing I would have done differently is that I wouldn't have told her. Some shit people have to figure out for themselves and that text history clearly speaks volumes.

That fact that she was confused about the situation would've had me giving her the side eye.
 
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Dr. Umar will call you a bunny hopper for fucking a white woman, yet he's one of Trump's biggest dickriders.
 
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Beyonce' don't give a single shit about country music, but she did find some bad ass country music ass claps and wanted to wear them on an album and/or magazine cover.

I for one, am NOT mad at her for that decision.

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Simply Sickenin' said:
The only thing I would have done differently is that I wouldn't have told her. Some shit people have to figure out for themselves and that text history clearly speaks volumes.

That fact that she was confused about the situation would've had me giving her the side eye.
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She shouldn't be asking for money - periodt.

She hasn't asked the married man, because she knows what the answer will be. What man with options would give her money like that? Also, why would a man who lives across the country from her give her any money? He's not getting any real tangible return for that investment. Besides, once the bitch asks for (and receives) money, she will continue to ask for money. And, of course, you'll never see that money again - especially if she says the classic line "I'll pay you back," knowing damn well she won't.

Women asking for money from me when we aren't in a solid relationship really pisses me the fuck off, and it really makes me very uncomfortable. I've told them no, then they get pissed off, call me stingy, and want to end what little relationship we had. I'm like, bitch, it's not my fault that you aren't fiscally responsible to the point that you have to ask men for money - especially if you're not really willing to give a real relationship in return. No man will do this unless he has no other options for women, or they're so rich that they don't give a fuck about money (and they still shouldn't give away money like that). I guess I'll keep being a stingy motherfucker then, while she looks for her next mark.

She better start reading books about money by Warren Buffett...if she can read.

Sorry for the rant, but I can't stand a bitch who tries to shake men down and shame them because they don't want to be a bitch's personal bank. Fuck 'em.
 
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smoovejazz said:
She shouldn't be asking for money - periodt.

She hasn't asked the married man, because she knows what the answer will be. What man with options would give her money like that? Also, why would a man who lives across the country from her give her any money? He's not getting any real tangible return for that investment. Besides, once the bitch asks for (and receives) money, she will continue to ask for money. And, of course, you'll never see that money again - especially if she says the classic line "I'll pay you back," knowing damn well she won't.

Women asking for money from me when we aren't in a solid relationship really pisses me the fuck off, and it really makes me very uncomfortable. I've told them no, then they get pissed off, call me stingy, and want to end what little relationship we had. I'm like, bitch, it's not my fault that you aren't fiscally responsible to the point that you have to ask men for money - especially if you're not really willing to give a real relationship in return. No man will do this unless he has no other options for women, or they're so rich that they don't give a fuck about money (and they still shouldn't give away money like that). I guess I'll keep being a stingy motherfucker then, while she looks for her next mark.

She better start reading books about money by Warren Buffett...if she can read.

Sorry for the rant, but I can't stand a bitch who tries to shake men down and shame them because they don't want to be a bitch's personal bank. Fuck 'em.
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100% true on all fronts.

We talked about it again and I mentioned that $150 is a lot of money, even bringing up the fact that $150 is more than the cost of 1 year's access to Bang Bros and more than most hoes' OnlyFans. That's a lot of money for a nigga who can't actually touch you unless he takes a costly flight or 30-hour drive.

And I also bluntly told her that the reason she hasn't asked the married dude for money is that she knows it's going to snap him out of the fantasy of having a side chick and bring him into the reality that he's dealing with two women and she had no response.

She's in her early 50s, a light-skinned girl who came of age in the 1980s, when light skinned girls were super gassed up but she wasn't smart enough to get off of the bullshit and marry up instead she got pregnant and it's been a string of boyfriends, babydaddies (2) and fuck buddies since 1992.

I hate to use this antiquated phrase but "She's a waste of light skin" all the other women (light and dark) in her graduating class mostly did well for themselves. Her own daughter has said "I love my mama but I can't be that bitch" and is working on her master's. Classmates, friends, her own daughter just excel ahead of her.
 
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Yesterday Bullet was found to have a video on his redgifs page of him engaging in homosexual activity, which confirms what many of us were assuming that Bullet is not a straight man, furthermore, I'm assuming that his wife knows he engages in homosexual activity and maybe be turned on by that fact.

So that leads me to this unpopular opinion: Black women have a secret sexual fetish for Black gay men.

Either questioning or insulting a Black man's sexuality is a common pastime for Black women, the cast of Real Housewives of Atlanta did it so much that gay male viewers began complaining about it and calling it homophobia. Black women also like to cite STD and HIV rates as proof of Black men's secret homosexuality, when realistically that's probably a case of our community having a general lack of knowledge, fewer resources in areas of sexual health, and/or general medical racism. Also, let's not forget about the general dislike of condoms which is a problem for all races of people, To be 100% honest, the last person I slept with who insisted on condom usage was in 2004. I've had more women ask me not to cum inside of them than ask for a condom.

When talking to actual gay men away from women, whose attention they love just as much as straight men, they've said the number of down low or closeted Black men is actually not as big as Black women make it out to be, they also said that most DL niggas will just hit up other DL niggas and never get caught. So these fantastical stories of Black women finding out their husbands/boyfriends are secret fags are nothing but internet fan-fiction, no different than the white dudes with the mom/step-mom fantasies on white forums.

To the point of the sexual fetish, it's an open secret that Black gay men routinely have sex, if not ongoing sexual relationships with women, very few gay Black men have their gold star, even some of the most feminine and flaming Black gay men have had sex with a woman at some point their lives and when I've asked gay men, nearly all of them have stated that they are not opposed to sex with a woman, simply it does NOT gross them out. Here on BGOL, quite a few members have stated that these Black women ARE having sexual relationships with their "gay friends".

While I still believe some Black women are roundly turned off by that shit, there are a sizable amount of Black women who secretly fetishize that shit, because it comes too much.
 
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Duece said:
Yesterday Bullet was found to have a video on his redgifs page of him engaging in homosexual activity, which confirms what many of us were assuming that Bullet is not a straight man, furthermore, I'm assuming that his wife knows he engages in homosexual activity and maybe be turned on by that fact.

So that leads me to this unpopular opinion: Black women have a secret sexual fetish for Black gay men.

Either questioning or insulting a Black man's sexuality is a common pastime for Black women, the cast of Real Housewives of Atlanta did it so much that gay male viewers began complaining about it and calling it homophobia. Black women also like to cite STD and HIV rates as proof of Black men's secret homosexuality, when realistically that's probably a case of our community having a general lack of knowledge, fewer resources in areas of sexual health, and/or general medical racism. Also, let's not forget about the general dislike of condoms which is a problem for all races of people, To be 100% honest, the last person I slept with who insisted on condom usage was in 2004. I've had more women ask me not to cum inside of them than ask for a condom.

When talking to actual gay men away from women, whose attention they love just as much as straight men, they've said the number of down low or closeted Black men is actually not as big as Black women make it out to be, they also said that most DL niggas will just hit up other DL niggas and never get caught. So these fantastical stories of Black women finding out their husbands/boyfriends are secret fags are nothing but internet fan-fiction, no different than the white dudes with the mom/step-mom fantasies on white forums.

To the point of the sexual fetish, it's an open secret that Black gay men routinely have sex, if not ongoing sexual relationships with women, very few gay Black men have their gold star, even some of the most feminine and flaming Black gay men have had sex with a woman at some point their lives and when I've asked gay men, nearly all of them have stated that they are not opposed to sex with a woman, simply it does NOT gross them out. Here on BGOL, quite a few members have stated that these Black women ARE having sexual relationships with their "gay friends".

While I still believe some Black women are roundly turned off by that shit, there are a sizable amount of Black women who secretly fetishize that shit, because it comes too much.
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OMG

I wasn't ready.

I don't think anything you wrote was off base.

The Bullet thing is uh um yeah I uh wow.
 
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Bullet said:
I'm not going to take over this thread with your ignorance. You went out of your way to post an unrelated subject on a long standing thread to spread your homophobia, that's sad
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I'm the furthest thing from homophobic and that unpopular opinion was something I had been thinking about for a while,

Your video just prompted me to post and apart from using the term faggot, my post was hardly homophobic.
 
mcguyver

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Duece said:
And it certainly was him, the baldhead, goatee was all him.

Bullet doesn't embarrass easily and certainly has the traits of a cuck, sub and exhibitionist.
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Without a doubt that was Definitely him. Like I said before, he uses his "wife" to get dudes and notice all his threads are themed around males.
 

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