Okay, since nobody wants to teach people how to play spades (or bid-whist, for that matter), is there a place where one can find the rules to these games? I've tried.
I mean, it's like wanting a job, but you need experience. Well, how the fuck are you supposed to get experience if no one wants to teach you, and if you're new to the game and play with veteran players - and you fuck up - you either get clowned, or other people get pissed at you for fucking up their game? It makes you not want to play at all!
I've seen way too many Black folks take spades and bid-whist
WAY too seriously. People getting their feelings hurt at a cookout, or fights breaking out if someone reneged. What kind of fun is that?
That's why I play easy shit like Uno. It's easy to learn, and I can play for hours and have lots of fun (as long as you know some of the "made-up house rules")...
...although truth be told, I've seen a few hurt feelings and fights over someone playing a "draw four" card...go figure... that's our people for ya...