A White Man Wrote 'Sesame Street' Black Hair Ode For His Adopted Ethiopian Daughter

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Shut your pie hole in company of men. And redirect that sister-girl, hand on hip, neck rolling, lip-twisting energy toward taking some much needed advice.

:lol::lol::lol::lol:

"tell that winch!!!"
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The only time black folks listen and in this case black women listen and realize how stupid some of the things we do really are,is when white folks point it out to them.

Black man tell them a wear the own hair and how stupid weave is,nope they're not listening.white man tells them,then they start opening their eyes.:lol:


No we don't. If we did, they would. Some Black men prefer natural hair styles but let's not pretend it's the majority. We can be just as brainwashed and women feed into it with their own mental scrubbing.
 

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Why wouldnt I be cool with it??

Well, I asked, because in the thread where the parents were letting the little black boy dress up like a princess and do girl stuff, when the dudes in that thread said that they should stop and change the boy's behavior, you and Blunt said that they should let him be what he is, and leave him alone. In fact, you said this:

Their son is gay ... nothing special about him wanting to wear dresses as a child ... alot of them (gays) did that too growing up

If you're cool with them letting their son do that, then shouldn't this guy just let his little black adopted daughter continue with a preference to play with the white dolls and not try to change her?
 

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:lol::lol::lol::lol:

"tell that winch!!!"
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How the fuck can ANYONE dispute Black women are foremost responsible for the perming/processing of their daughter's hair??? Even 'natural' these days doesn't mean natural most of the time.

Look at this bullshit, man. :smh:



 

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Well, I asked, because in the thread where the parents were letting the little black boy dress up like a princess and do girl stuff, when the dudes in that thread said that they should stop and change the boy's behavior, you and Blunt said that they should let him be what he is, and leave him alone. In fact, you said this:



If you're cool with them letting their son do that, then shouldn't this guy just let his little black adopted daughter continue with a preference to play with the white dolls and not try to change her?



I didn't even bother with that thread. But there were people defending that shit? :smh:
 

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:lol:

How the fuck can ANYONE dispute Black women are foremost responsible for the perming/processing of their daughter's hair??? Even 'natural' these days doesn't mean natural most of the time.

Look at this bullshit, man. :smh:





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cut through the bullshit...fathers message to daughter;
know who you are...love who you are


way back in the early 70's, my white teacher brought his
Malcolm X records to school for the entire class
of black children to listen to....and dig, he had
the 1962 Malcolm records, where "all of em are devils"
 

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No we don't. If we did, they would. Some Black men prefer natural hair styles but let's not pretend it's the majority. We can be just as brainwashed and women feed into it with their own mental scrubbing.

At no point in my comments did i say that its the majority or not,but from having this discussion about weaves etc,i can tell you that most of the brothas ive had it with prefers natural hair,perm included.(their argument being so long as its natural its a good start)
i do admit there are some brothas out there who don't give a shyt about anything,so long as they getting pussy.however i can tell you that ive mentioned the idea of getting natural hair to countless females and they would make all kinds of excuses why they don't want to,or their facial expression would look like they smell dog shyt when its mentioned.

so i do somewhat agree that for every one of me,there is another one of yall who don't care so long as you're getting pussy.
 

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cut through the bullshit...fathers message to daughter;
know who you are...love who you are


way back in the early 70's, my white teacher brought his
Malcolm X records to school for the entire class
of black children to listen to....and dig, he had
the 1962 Malcolm records, where "all of em are devils"

LOL! A white teacher from New Orleans (Mrs. Bottoms) brought in NOI recordings to a class of all black kids to listen to in '75. First time I'd ever heard Elijah speak.
 

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And it is NOT talking shit for a black woman to point out that a brotha did not do this for us ... she is talking from hurt and can express that if she wishes

That's the thing that's somehow being missed: it's not the appropriate venue or story for someone to vent their hurt. Take that somewhere else. There's a time and place for everything and every discussion and those women picked poorly (probably not for the first time). Then it's no longer about a father doing something for his daughter that many other little girls can benefit from but how they feel shit on by Black men.

At no point in my comments did i say that its the majority or not,but from having this discussion about weaves etc,i can tell you that most of the brothas ive had it with prefers natural hair,perm included.(their argument being so long as its natural its a good start)
i do admit there are some brothas out there who don't give a shyt about anything,so long as they getting pussy.however i can tell you that ive mentioned the idea of getting natural hair to countless females and they would make all kinds of excuses why they don't want to,or their facial expression would look like they smell dog shyt when its mentioned.

so i do somewhat agree that for every one of me,there is another one of yall who don't care so long as you're getting pussy.

Ya'll? Okay.
That's kind of my point. If Black men en masse rejected permed/relaxed hair on Black women, a lot more of them would reject it too just because that's what would get men to notice them.
 

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cut through the bullshit...fathers message to daughter;
know who you are...love who you are


way back in the early 70's, my white teacher brought his
Malcolm X records to school for the entire class
of black children to listen to....and dig, he had
the 1962 Malcolm records, where "all of em are devils"

LOL! A white teacher from New Orleans (Mrs. Bottoms) brought in NOI recordings to a class of all black kids to listen to in '75. First time I'd ever heard Elijah speak.

Yeah, I've had cool teachers but never one :D cool.
 

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How the hell did me pointing out the fact that its common for gay boys to dress as girls = me being ok with that little boy wearing a dress?????? :confused:

I pointed out in that thread TWICE that had it been a sista raising her son like that all hell would break loose but everyone was ok with that crackka bitch and her coon husband dressing their son up like a little girl ... I say they were ok with it cuz the names they would have been throwing at sistas :smh: that thread was hella soft compared to ANYTHING a black woman would have had to face
What the fuck would make you think I'm ok with a little boy wearing a gat damn dress :smh::hmm: I am NOT ok with that bullshit

As misogynistic as this board can be, often, you should really let this argument go. To constantly go in about how "if this had been a Black women..." dilutes it to the point of meaninglessness. Seeing how this is a majority Black porn board, it's bound to attract mostly Black men who deal/have dealt with mostly Black women hence they won't be as emotionally invested when discussing White women.
It's just borderline nonsensical to be mad when the really insane niggas on here aren't equally insane all the time.
 

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The only time black folks listen and in this case black women listen and realize how stupid some of the things we do really are,is when white folks point it out to them.

Black man tell them a wear the own hair and how stupid weave is,nope they're not listening.
white man tells them,then they start opening their eyes.:lol:

damn... you took the words from me pimpin... I had this argument with this sister about 3 months ago about going natural and she was on that hell naw I dont want that nappy mess... I looked at her like b!tch you are lost... and a few days ago she posted this on her facebook page upping it and I kindly went and left a comment about our conversation and she abruptly removed it from her wall lol...
 

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That's the thing that's somehow being missed: it's not the appropriate venue or story for someone to vent their hurt. Take that somewhere else. There's a time and place for everything and every discussion and those women picked poorly (probably not for the first time). Then it's no longer about a father doing something for his daughter that many other little girls can benefit from but how they feel shit on by Black men.



Ya'll? Okay.
That's kind of my point. If Black men en masse rejected permed/relaxed hair on Black women, a lot more of them would reject it too just because that's what would get men to notice them.

Like i said,am not saying thats its the majority of black men who reject it or not.(i don't have numbers)
what am saying when black men do,like myself and quite few others i know do,we usually get comments like its my hair no one can tell me what to do,if you don't like it you don't have to date me etc.
should most black men be speaking on it YES,are there countless black men who speak on it and get ignored/not taken seriously,you bet.

If there were more women in this thread,you would definitely see the resistance.
i dont completely disagree with what youre saying,however its funny to me that once a white man says something along the lines of what a some of us black men are saying,then a lot of sistas take notice.
Theres definitely something psychological to this.
 
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I have said this like 3 times already but people keep looking past it to cuss me out instead

AGAIN I was explaining where the hurt came from so maybe we could get some understanding but I should have known better lmmfbaooooo ya'll dont want to understand you just want to bash while complaining about being bashed ... so carry on:)

You're right in one regard, I don't care to know or resolve shit when it's not a relevent topic. It doesn't matter where this hurt comes from, it's being displayed at an inappropriate venue. With this the topic is children, not adults. We can talk about adult topics at another time.
 

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That's how it is. If a brotha or a sista came to some producer with this idea...they probably would dismiss it as some black problem or would attempt to minimize the issue.

But hey a white man has spoken so lets all listen..

Props anyway to dude. We need more crackers like him...:lol::cool:
 

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Like i said,am not saying thats its the majority of black men who reject it or not.(i don't have numbers)
what am saying when black men do,like myself and quite few others i know do,we usually get comments like its my hair no one can tell me what to do,if you don't like it you don't have to date me etc.
should most black men be speaking on it YES,are there countless black men who speak on it and get ignored/not taken seriously,you bet.

If there were more women in this thread,you would definitely see the resistance.
i dont completely disagree with what youre saying,however its funny to me that once a white man says something along the lines of what a some of us black men are saying,then a lot of sistas take notice.

This isn't a case of a White man saying something and sisters are noticing and making changes. It's a good story and surprising considering the source. It's not like tomorrow, Black women are going to stop relaxing their hair in any numbers because they heard a song from "Sesame Street".
 

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Its not relevant to you ... but clearly its relevant to those black women who spoke on it ... but as usual black men dismiss and bash instead of hearing and understanding

And to those in here talking shit about sistas only listen when white men tell us, how brothas always say it and we dont listen :rolleyes::lol: Ya'll chasin white bitches with long flowy straight hair all the time then get confused about why sistas want to perm :smh: ... but again just go ahead and dismiss and bash instead of hear and understand cuz that is what you do best

Our "leaders" lmmfbaoooo what a joke


And those women are/were wrong for dragging their shit into a conversation where it's not relevent. It's not just irrelevent, it's inappropriate and inexcusable. The best advice for them is "grow up". Adults shouldn't throw temper tantrums. If you and I are talking about one thing and a third party comes in talking about how his ex was a horrible bitch that fucked all his friends and spent all his money and now he can't trust women again, I'd tell him the same thing because he's being inappropriate and is engaging in a form of attention whoring. His feelings might be valid but he's expressing them in the wrong venue at the wrong time. So they deserved to be bashed, mocked and ridiculed.
 

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I'll keep talkin then since I'm in the company of boys and not men
Very snappy comeback, there. Really. I can't imagine what I could possibly say to top that. :rolleyes:
And it is NOT talking shit for a black woman to point out that a brotha did not do this for us ... she is talking from hurt and can express that if she wishes
Fuck her hurt, dumbass. The song is a means of countering something SHE is doing! It doesn't matter if a green man wrote it. SHE is trying to deflect from the subject matter of the song by focusing on the color of the writer as opposed to te content of the sing, you retadred hoodrat.
And you are a fag using this as a means to bash black women
Look, jiggaboo, need I remind you that YOU bitter bitches were first to divert attention from the content of the song to the color of the songwriter. Guilty conscience of just being defensive? I suspect the latter.
And an illiterate fag at that cuz I already said TWICE that black in men are not important in this issue in my eyes this is about the little sistas
Look you bull dike cunt, make up your minuscule mind, already. You're both saying this is about the little girls, not the black men, all the while saying Black women have a right to express their pain about Black men --- on a topic that has nothing to do with them, but instead the little girls. You really don't know your asshole from your elbow, do you bitch? :hmm:
I was only trying to EXPLAIN to your bitch ass WHY those sistas feel the way they do so you can UNDERSTAND and HOPEFULLY we can for once RESOLVE something but of course NOT ... no such thing as resolutions in the black community
You were not just explaining, penis-envying hoodrat heifer, you were excusing -- and justifying.
 

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And those women are/were wrong for dragging their shit into a conversation where it's not relevent. It's not just irrelevent, it's inappropriate and inexcusable. The best advice for them is "grow up". Adults shouldn't throw temper tantrums. If you and I are talking about one thing and a third party comes in talking about how his ex was a horrible bitch that fucked all his friends and spent all his money and now he can't trust women again, I'd tell him the same thing because he's being inappropriate and is engaging in a form of attention whoring. His feelings might be valid but he's expressing them in the wrong venue at the wrong time. So they deserved to be bashed, mocked and ridiculed.
They're trying to deflect attention from the content of the song to the color of the songwriter because the content of the song steps on the crusty toes.
 

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If a black woman says something like this they are clearly harboring a level of bitterness that cant be helped.

How so??? They'd be absolutely right to wonder why a black man didn't come up with that, while still appreciating the sentiment.
 

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How so??? They'd be absolutely right to wonder why a black man didn't come up with that, while still appreciating the sentiment.

Not if, in the same breath, they don't wonder why a Black women didn't write it.
 

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Excuses, excuses, excuses. :rolleyes:

 

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Not if, in the same breath, they don't wonder why a Black women didn't write it.
They should probably also mention that it was Black women who were most responsible for the little girls hating their hair in the first place.

 

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Ya'll? Okay.
That's kind of my point. If Black men en masse rejected permed/relaxed hair on Black women, a lot more of them would reject it too just because that's what would get men to notice them.

Get real. Black women REJECT the self-destructive and self-hating behavior of black men all the time (violence, domestic abuse, addiction, extreme promiscuity) and it doesn't do shit to change them. Men don't care what black women think about their behavior and habits, so black women certainly have no reason to care about the "beauty tips" that black men wanna give them. :rolleyes:
 
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This thread started off good but was swollowed up by ignorance.

If black women pass the treated hair syndrome to their daughters than we should be asking black women why are they doing it?.I know its been asked a million times before and you will never get a correct, direct answer from just one female,some have their own reasons.But the truth as I see it,lies with us as black males and this is why.Because nine times out of ten females do things to attract males,not always in a sexual manner either but to feel up to par.

Beyonce or Lauryn Hill?,as they are today.Most would choose Beyonce over Ms.Hill and that trickles down to the psychological thinking of black women in our society and it does get passed on to our daughters.

The hair thing is just another knot in the string thats all tangled up,there are much more deeper issue's that are behind this all but thats another thread.
 

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In THIS thread it was YOUR coon ass who diverted attention away from the song, Ming Fag

If your ugly small dick cock sucking self didn't bring it up IN HERE the thread could have stayed on a positive note ... but YOU decided to bash black women and then I tried to bring some understanding to it but in your usual cock sucking style you decided to run off at the mouth to take away from the fact that you brought the negativity into here
Look, you hump-back herpes ridden handkerchief-headed zip coon bitter bitch, YOU crying/whining whores tried to pull a fast one and it didn't work. Accept it. The 'negativity' was made a part of the post the second you buffaloes herded your fat asses into the comment section of the story, trying to change the subject. I called you on your bullshit. You're busted -- in more ways than one. All the running your mouth and wringing your neck oin the world won't change the fact that it YOU dumb bitches teaching these little girls to hate their hair. Were it not for you hoes, this white dude would not have had to write this song, in the first place. Yeah, yeah, Whitey plays their part, but there is no greater culprit than YOU blind bitter bitches.
Yeah and the media telling us that we are ugly while our "brothas" chase what the media says is beautiful didn't come into play at all :rolleyes:

Black people lose always cuz our leaders are idiots who cant see shit outside themselves ... you want to point the finger everywhere and never look within to see your part in it or to even see how you could help fix it you just bitch and complain like a Klan fag ... this is why you are a joke to so many other races of men too

I try to open your dumb eyes for you but the cum is too strong and you have it sealed shut
Stop whining, crying & lying, Lonesome39. We don't believe you... You need more people, bitch.
 

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Niggas and bitches always cackling. :lol:
 

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Yeah and the media telling us that we are ugly while our "brothas" chase what the media says is beautiful didn't come into play at all :rolleyes:

Black people lose always cuz our leaders are idiots who cant see shit outside themselves ... you want to point the finger everywhere and never look within to see your part in it or to even see how you could help fix it you just bitch and complain like a Klan fag ... this is why you are a joke to so many other races of men too

I try to open your dumb eyes for you but the cum is too strong and you have it sealed shut

Who are these "leaders" you keep speaking of?

Get real. Black women REJECT the self-destructive and self-hating behavior of black men all the time (violence, domsetic abuse, addiction, extreme promiscuity) and it doesn't do shit to change them. Men don't care what black women think about their behavior and habits, so black women certainly have no reason to care about the "beauty tips" that black men wanna give them. :rolleyes:

What? Your whole post goes against human nature and doesn't even make sense as a sentence. How can Black women reject the"extreme promiscuity" of Black men? Who are we fucking? It's all White women, huh? Since the majority of Black men are attracted to and pursue Black women (and vice versa clearly) then anything that impedes that pursuit would be cast aside.

I'm tripping. I didn't respond to sirwoodz when I thought he said something crazy, why am I responding to Blunt?
What were you saying, LS29?
 

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Too bad Chris rock didn't accomplish this with "Good Hair". He was too busy trying to be funny.
 

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Too bad Chris rock didn't accomplish this with "Good Hair". He was too busy trying to be funny.

What did this guy accomplish that Chris rock didn't..:confused:
 
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