One of my biggest fears though is having a kid on the spectrum. I saw what that shit did to my cousin, I don't wish that shit on nobody. Her life was hell. She looks older than her mother now and she's 23 years younger and has already had a stroke.
Her son JJ was so high on the spectrum that doctors advised her not to have another kid because JJ might kill it accidentally.
She finally got JJ potty trained at like 6 or 7, but the following year she had to put them back in diapers for a year and a half because he discovered his own shit.
After taking a shit, he would dig into the toilet, get a half full of shit and smear it on the walls, shit painting.
Imagine the hell of having to clean up after that multiple times. I remember her telling my mother that when she would catch the bus home sometimes she would just let a bus pass just so she can have 20 more minutes of peace