Aww DAMN! Jesse Williams & Wife Divorcing After 5 Years UPDATE: Leaving Grey's Anatomy after 12 seasons!

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I would bet a sizable amount of money that there is either a Becky lurking somewhere, or there will be one on his arm in the the not so distant future.

Hate to say it, but he don't even look like the type of nigga who date black women.
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He has the same quality about him that made me assume Tim Duncan, Tiger Woods, and other athletes had white wives.

Its just an energy that some people give off. Not to mention, brothas who are into white women tend to LOOK and TALK like they do.

He would definitely be one of those guys.
 

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Say man... What exactly do you mean "talk" like theyre into white women??? Are you insinuating that any brother that speaks correct english, and uses proper diction is into white women???:hmm:

Any brother that does? No.

I noticed some very interesting things over the years, tho.

Kyrie Irving, Alfonso Robeiro, Tiger Woods, Tim Duncan ... you hear the way they speak? They all just happen to fuck with skinny white bitches, or very light-skinned women.


Perfect diction, correct English ...

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I have noticed this trend over the years, bro'. I'm not saying its true in ALL CASES, but if the brother speaks NASALLY, perfect English or not. . . Becky is lurking somewhere. . . . or a dude.
 
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Stop beating around the bush, you're pretty much trying to say cornball brothers be with white bitches which ain't true at all. Most of the street niggas I came up with in the bay from the city to the town to vallejo etc. all got white baby bitches and baby mamas straight outa Utah, Oregon, Washington etc.



Any brother that does? No.

I noticed some very interesting things over the years, tho.

Kyrie Irving, Alfonso Robeiro, Tiger Woods, Tim Duncan ... you hear the way they speak? They all just happen to fuck with skinny white bitches, or very light-skinned women.


Perfect diction, correct English ...

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I have noticed this trend over the years, bro'. I'm not saying its true in ALL CASES, but if the brother speaks NASALLY, perfect English or not. . . Becky is lurking somewhere. . . . or a dude.
 

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Damn. Not a good look

Any brother that does? No.

I noticed some very interesting things over the years, tho.

Kyrie Irving, Alfonso Robeiro, Tiger Woods, Tim Duncan ... you hear the way they speak? They all just happen to fuck with skinny white bitches, or very light-skinned women.


Perfect diction, correct English ...

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I have noticed this trend over the years, bro'. I'm not saying its true in ALL CASES, but if the brother speaks NASALLY, perfect English or not. . . Becky is lurking somewhere. . . . or a dude.
 

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Stop beating around the bush, you're pretty much trying to say cornball brothers be with white bitches which ain't true at all. Most of the street niggas I came up with in the bay from the city to the town to vallejo etc. all got white baby bitches and baby mamas straight outa Utah, Oregon, Washington etc.

That is NOT what I said.

Read what I said closely.

Of all black men who date white women, there is a tendency for certain TYPES of black men to date a certain TYPE of white woman.
 

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Famous black men of a certain type? The 2 black celeb cats Minka been linked to before were Jeter and Donald Faison so are they both of this type as well? What about Eddie Murphy current piece Paige Butcher, she was linked to Dame Dash, Russell Simmons and Justin Tuck. All them fall under this type? I can go on

That is NOT what I said.

Read what I said closely.

Of all black men who date white women, there is a tendency for certain TYPES of black men to date a certain TYPE of white woman.
 

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Famous black men of a certain type? The 2 black celeb cats Minka been linked to before were Jeter and Donald Faison so are they both of this type as well? What about Eddie Murphy current piece Paige Butcher, she was linked to Dame Dash, Russell Simmons and Justin Tuck. All them fall under this type? I can go on

You're making an argument I'm not making, which makes your argument pointless.

I'm arguing about a certain type of black man, and his tendency to date a certain type of woman. What these other type of black men do does not weaken my argument. I noticed a pattern YEARS ago with these types of brothas, KNOWING that other types of black men dated white women, too.

This isn't even rocket science. I've heard many people say over the years, 'I bet he date white girls', and they're generally spot on. How were they able to deduce that based on nothing more than the way the guy looks and carries himself? They noticed the same pattern.
 

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You're making an argument I'm not making, which makes your argument pointless.

I'm arguing about a certain type of black man, and his tendency to date a certain type of woman. What these other type of black men do does not weaken my argument. I noticed a pattern YEARS ago with these types of brothas, KNOWING that other types of black men dated white women, too.

This isn't even rocket science. I've heard many people say over the years, 'I bet he date white girls', and they're generally spot on. How were they able to deduce that based on nothing more than the way the guy looks and carries himself? They noticed the same pattern.
I know what you mean..But also you know black women.Not all people! Tend to fuck with a certain type of brother and no it doesn't have to do with being a thug.. like some cats bitch about

Black women will pick Denzel over will Smith all day..None are goons...

While many Latina ,Asain and white would choose Will Smith
 

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Damn. Not a good look
Ever notice that when you are too smart or don't speak street talk, many sisters think you are a cornball (especially when they are young)..
And black women tend to love men with money while looking past the brother who is working towards getting the money.
The problem with this is many black men find their mates while in college while they are broke and struggling to get ahead and because they are working towards their future they do not have the funds to splurge on the hot cars, kicks, watches and gear a broke attractive college chick can get from the men thats courting her..
Bottom line many of these brothers are labeled as loser and scrubs, that is until they make that bank then they are all of a sudden a successful black man... Problem is white chicks are often taught to seek rich men before they get rich that way their intentions of being cared for would fly under the radar.
A good example of this is a friend of mine who was a star basketball player in college, attending a big University, and one day their school had a party in which he decided to break away from his studies to attend.. When he arrived there all he wanted was a break from the books having a little fun for the night... According to him the sisters there gave him the mean grill look, he even overheard one say "he thinks we are supposed to go over there and kiss his ass just because he plays ball".... Well right after that a white chicks and her friends (some male) came up to him say oh my god I know who you are, you are so cool, come to our table and have some drinks with us..
Next thing he knew it they were all fiends and he was dating one of the girls, one is now his current wife of 15 years..

But then again out of all the people on that team only three of them dated white chicks and none dated white chicks exclusively...

Also I know for a fact that many black men feel they have to hide their brains or dumb down their shit, in order to be accepted in the black community, many of them choose to shut up, renaming silent and gravitating away from people who cannot relate with them.. I've live both sides of the fence and understand how this dichotomy works and how words like pussy, coon, sell out, punk, bitch ass can be used to bring down blacks who do not talk, walk or even walk the way some want to them to.. I think many of these people sometimes seek refuge in people who think like them and many of these people happen to be white.
I think this may answer to the majority of white sounding blacks who seem to date white, where's by the problem isn't so much they like white people but rather they do not connect to what they consider the black community to be.
Its sort of like not believing in god but living in a religious family, normally your not going to tell your loved ones your true beliefs, instead you will be quiet, put up with the bullshit and spend your quality of time with people who believe in the same philosophy as yourself.
As I've gotten older and wiser I started realizing the role that name calling and dissing others different than us plays in the feeling of being ostracized by many, and how this alienation sometimes pushes them towards the arms of white women and away from identifying with black culture. What makes things worse is that many of these black men are intelligent, talented and potentially have a lot to offer the black community.

My advice for black women who want to date successful black men is, don't get caught up in trying to be hip or run with the crowd, make yourself interesting be more than a person who likes to shop and look good, be intelligent (not educated and trained but intelligent. being logical and a free thinker), don't expect religion to give you any brownie points to many intelligent men religion is what you give to stupid people to stay good similar to how Santa is to kids to also stay in line, and most important don't have any kids this is important because when a man becomes successful (especially a black man) the table is sort of turned where there are more women going hard after that man and like women in that same situation he often would gravitate towards the one who has the most to offer, best looks and the one with the less baggage.. And as I pointed out before often white women would have a leg up, due to the fact that most big Universities where successful men derive from are filled with white women seeking

S0 yes there are many different reason why successful black men date non black women, all of them ranging from them actually being sell out self haters to those who fell like they are being hated on, but for the most case the numbers are greatly exaggerated and most of them who do rarely date white women exclusively, most of them love all types of pussy only getting serious with the pussy that treats him the best, and when it happens to be a white women or a non black woman, these are the one that gets all the notice..
 

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Stop beating around the bush, you're pretty much trying to say cornball brothers be with white bitches which ain't true at all. Most of the street niggas I came up with in the bay from the city to the town to vallejo etc. all got white baby bitches and baby mamas straight outa Utah, Oregon, Washington etc.
Its different when it comes to younger white women especially white trash women... The white women he is referring to are the older or educated ones who often target men based of their potential earnings..
 

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and that is my BROTHER Jesse I ride hard for that brother, I remember when they came for his neck a few times even on bgol and I head the vibranium claws out...

Jesse KILLING me today...I tried to defend the brother...after ALL he has done how ya'll setting him on fire over a RUMOR!!???

It isnt even confirmed?!?!

And even if it IS???

We don;t know SH*T about their relationship.

But...I WILL say this...if true?

The OPTICS?

Jesse KNOWS it does not LOOK right.

at work today

it was like even white women were disappointed in him.
same ^^^^
 

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Well its unfortunate that they're divorcing. I personally love seeing black people raising families together.

And if Jesse is dating Minka then that would be his choice. But at the same time he's responsible for the "outcome" of his choice. He chose to speak up about the mistreatment that black people face in this country. The fact that he had a black wife and kids really showed by his "actions" that he loved, appreciated, and accepted his blackness. He ended up looking good to a lot of black people who shared the same views. To many he comes off as "pro-black".

But now that this has happened I believe many black people feel betrayed...not just because he's divorcing his wife....but because he's already dating a white woman.
And yeah...he's half white....so what...he's technically being with his own kind right? Well...as long as the system of racism/white supremacy exist Jesse Williams will always be classified as "non-white". But that doesn't matter.....Jesse Williams is a grown man and none of us...whether we support his decision or not....are paying his bills. He can do whatever he pleases.

But just as he can do what he pleases...each and every one of us can do as we please. If you still want to support him then support him. If you don't...then don't. It is what it is. There are plenty of black men and women who are building strong families and communities out here. Jesse Williams doesn't represent all black people so what he eats don't make me or any of you shit.

To those who are still upset and will never support him again just use this as motivation to continue to love, appreciate, and accept your black identity. Don't look to Jesse Williams, Colin Kapernick, Tariq Nasheed, or any other black person as your leader. Be a leader of yourself. Lead yourself to do whats best for you and your family.
 

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Haven't read through the whole thread but I wouldn't be shocked if he is dating a white girl. It's always these loud "I'm black and proud" types who end up being the fakes.
 

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Not to sound pessimistic to those who think he is coming back to the Black side of things, but I doubt it.

Once they get a taste of that Vanilla pudding they get turned out behind that shit. Realities are harsh.

Another thing I notice is that Black feminists are awfully quiet on social media about this one. I wonder why? :hmm:

Anywho, the woke community gotta hold this L for placing him up in a messiah position at one point.
 
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Not to sound pessimistic to those who think he is coming back to the Black side of things, but I doubt it.

Once they get a taste of that Vanilla pudding they get turned out behind that shit. Realities are harsh.

Another thing I notice is that Black feminists are awfully quiet on social media about this one. I wonder why? :hmm:

Anywho, the woke community gotta hold this L for placing him up in a messiah position at one point.
:lol: Vanilla Pudding
 

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I agree with this... Its like being raised black in America is tantamount to living an existence where it more important to appear to have money than it is to actually be successful in life. Where's-by if you look like you don't have shit, you ain't shit.
This is where swag, style being cool comes in, to me its really nothing but a piece of baggage that saps away our happiness and sense of freedom..
Matter fact I believe many blacks are attracted to other races and people from other countries due to the fact that with them they find that they no longer have to play the bullshit cool game, and still be respected..

When I go out to Trinidad and Tobago (especially in the deep country) I notice that folks appear to be much happier, even with less money... One reason why is that they are free to be themselves and do no live in the constant fear of being judged, like we are over here. Over there, they usually do things to make them happy and less to impress other people, the dichotomy between our thinking and theirs is as great as the levels of happiness between us.

As the result we wind up feeling empty, poor self esteem (knowing deep inside that we are living a lie will do that to you), while all they care about is enjoying life and having fun..
This is why I especially say to Black people especially our women we really need to spend less time trying to gain acceptance of people who they are not fucking (by looking, buying and acting a certain way) and spend more time doing real things that can make them happy...
Get a hobby, learn a craft, sure shopping and getting your hair may be quick fixes to making them feel good but in the long run they are very empty and shallow and once the initial buzz wear off, their self esteem winds up taking a beating till the next fix. In other words do things that make you feel good and less buying thing or living a life to impress others..

At the end of the day, not everyone is going to be rich, not everyone is going to live in luxury, not everyone is going to look like that dime, so instead of trying to trick people in to believing this is how you are living, we need to say fuck them and spend more time doing things that you actually like..
Think about it, life is way too short for stupid bullshit games that will only get you down, so why not live life instead of seeking empty shortcuts to boost your self esteem!!!
One hundred Percent agree with this! People will be on their deathbed talking about, "I wish I enjoyed my time here on this Earth more..."
 

Entrepronegro

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if he is dating Minka Kelly now then he has upgraded cause Minka is sexy as hell and she look way better than his ex wife.
 
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