Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop them

[ballscout1]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

You are right they have the right to date whoever they want but they shouldnt complain about a guy who they knew wasnt shit and expect him to be their for her while she has kids either....Thats like me being with the neighborhood slut, knowingly theirs a high chance of her cheating on me but when she does im complaing about her doing it.....knowing full well she wasnt about shit in the first place......makes no sense at all

You call it a right and i guess it is but it is the selfish me generation that brings a child into this situation..so the saga continues...a child grows up in bullshit and learns bullshit and they to keep the bullshit going...


I agree with the OP but in no way feel that is the total story but a large contributing factor...I am in the wild 100's an if you think me soft and a lame feel free to roll through..Wear your play clothes though cause you will guaranteed get our back dirty..

 

[lexdiamonnyc]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Oh shit, here we go with the "lame" comments. It was bound to happen sooner or later.


Check it, i've dealt with women who have viewed me as lame. My best friend happened to be a female and I would date some of her friends even. She would share with me their feelings about me post-talking/relationship.

Comments such as

"He's too nice. He does what I ask most of the time. I want a nigga that will tell me no.(I've told her no but not enough I guess"

"I don't like when he opens the door for me all the time. I can do it myself"

"Does he even like sex. He didn't try anything with me at all(this was after the second meeting/date )"

"He doesn't smoke or drink. That's boring"

"He's a good listener and I enjoy the talking, maybe we should just be friends )

etc........

The list goes on.

Am I a lame, NO but obviously she want a dude that is more "agressive or manly" WTF??



Wonder how these "girls" would act if I didn't do shit or treated them like shit.

damn son....you've been "friend zoned" a few times

 

[M.H.C.]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

damn son....you've been "friend zoned" a few times

Man, at the end of the day, it was all good. Plain chivalry got me in the "friend zone" plenty of times. I know how to avoid that the "friend zone" and still be myself now so it's all good.

 

[The Dark Mind]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

This is sad and funny. Any nigga agreeing with the OP is just ignorant. Maybe if women always go for the "thugs and badboys" you are the problem. You probably are lame ,corny and /or soft.

Wait! Wait! I was waiting for you to show up!

You're the... "I-think-I'm-An-Alpha-Male-And-You-Got-No-Game-So-I'm-Going-To-Look-Down-My-Nose-at-You" cool guy.

For a minute there I thought you weren't going to show.

Welcome! Thanks for joining us.

So let me guess... First you're going to tell me how I need to step my game up in an effort to make yourself look superior and feel good.

Step your game up.

Oooh right on cue!

Ok now comes the part where you revert back to high school, and you call anybody who isn't badboy and thuggy, a wimp or a nerd.

Go on ahead... I'll wait.

You are probably a nerd and dont know it.

Ohh just like you're back in high school. Fun? You're having fun now?

Now let me guess...

Next comes the part where you explain where badboys/gangstas/criminals are really the goodguys and that because we don't act gangsta enough (have swag) but instead choose to act like decent men, we're supposed to be treated like shit.

Women of all races go for the "Alpha male/ cool guy". These "thugs" and "badboys" you hate probably are neither most the time but just niggas who have some swag and you have none. Women dont want a man softer than them. You dont have to be a "thug" to be a strong black man and get respect. Women want a man that they respect and makes them feel safe.

I'm just happy here reading your post with you.

I was really afraid you weren't going to show.

This thread wouldn't be "official" without one of you guys showing up.

Another point, I know as many lame niggas not taking care of their kids as people you would call "thugs". I know alot of niggas in the hood doing their part and I know alot of working class suburban type niggas who dont do shit for their kids. Black men as a whole need to step up in the fatherhood department.

Uh wrong... Black MEN ALREADY step up in the fatherhood department. If they don't... they're not MEN.

The domestic violence thing is something else you put on "thugs" thats bullshit. Most niggas that beat they women are lame niggas who wont fight a man or even say shit to one. Where are the facts that these so-called "thugs" are doing it. Most domestic abusers are all hurt and emotional like some of the losers on here.

Nice try.

As usual you're full of bullshit Mr. "I-think-I'm-An-Alpha-Male-And-You-Got-No-Game-So-I'm-Going-To-Look-Down-My-Nose-at-You" cool guy.

The world is not divided into Lames and Not lames.

This is not high school. This is not where you get to come in and claim all the thugs and badboys are cool and all the "nice guys" are "lames" and get away with it. You and this line of thinking Is a major part of the problem going on in community.

Domestic violence is not pereptrated by men. Men don't beat their spouses. Sorry my friend.

No Badboys/thugs/unstable brother beat their wives.

Now as I've said in this thread before, there are exceptions to the rules... but they are just that... exceptions.


And of course we end with the official "I'm a badboy/coolguy and you're not" signoff.

Yall niggas need some pussy and some counseling.

Very good.

Yes that was a completely predictable post from the official "I-think-I'm-An-Alpha-Male-And-You-Got-No-Game-So-I'm-Going-To-Look-Down-My-Nose-at-You" cool guy.

Thank you.

Thank you for your predictability.

Thank you for illustrating my point.

 

[bionicbrown]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

I know a FINE ass bitch right now with a master's degree who's working at a college that's dating a thug

 

[DeSiRe]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

the gangs all here...continue the party

 

[The Dark Mind]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

This is sad and funny. Any nigga agreeing with the OP is just ignorant. Maybe if women always go for the "thugs and badboys" you are the problem. You probably are lame ,corny and /or soft. Step your game up. You are probably a nerd and dont know it. Women of all races go for the "Alpha male/ cool guy". These "thugs" and "badboys" you hate probably are neither most the time but just niggas who have some swag and you have none. Women dont want a man softer than them. You dont have to be a "thug" to be a strong black man and get respect. Women want a man that they respect and makes them feel safe.

Another point, I know as many lame niggas not taking care of their kids as people you would call "thugs". I know alot of niggas in the hood doing their part and I know alot of working class suburban type niggas who dont do shit for their kids. Black men as a whole need to step up in the fatherhood department.

The domestic violence thing is something else you put on "thugs" thats bullshit. Most niggas that beat they women are lame niggas who wont fight a man or even say shit to one. Where are the facts that these so-called "thugs" are doing it. Most domestic abusers are all hurt and emotional like some of the losers on here.
Yall niggas need some pussy and some counseling.

MORE DEFLECTION YOU CAN'T GET NO PUSSY RHETORIC

Yeah he's a sad character. He doesn't realize he's the main part of our problem on the male side of this discussion.

He's also so predicable. But I'm glad he showed up. It's like getting a seal of approval or something!

 

[GucciGucci]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Oh shit, here we go with the "lame" comments. It was bound to happen sooner or later.


Check it, i've dealt with women who have viewed me as lame. My best friend happened to be a female and I would date some of her friends even. She would share with me their feelings about me post-talking/relationship.

Comments such as

"He's too nice. He does what I ask most of the time. I want a nigga that will tell me no.(I've told her no but not enough I guess"

"I don't like when he opens the door for me all the time. I can do it myself"

"Does he even like sex. He didn't try anything with me at all(this was after the second meeting/date )"

"He doesn't smoke or drink. That's boring"

"He's a good listener and I enjoy the talking, maybe we should just be friends )

etc........

The list goes on.

Am I a lame, NO. Do I treat them like I saw my mother being treated, YES. But obviously she want a dude that is more "agressive or manly" WTF??



Wonder how these "girls" would act if I didn't do shit for them or treated them like shit.

Face it homey you ARE lame. The women confirmed it. Shit Im nice and respectful to the women I fuck with. Doesnt mess with my pussy flow. But I drink and smoke and would be trying to fuck the broad first night so I guess my niceness balances out. The key is to be nice but not too nice to get ran over and lose respect. Women love how I can treat them good and make them feel like a woman but at the same time they know I can handle myself and protect her if need be. They like a man to treat them nice but beat the pussy up like you fresh out. They think niggas too nice wont protect them or beat the pussy right. My new chick was fuckin with a lame ass dude now she tells me she love how I beat the pussy and talk shit to her. She said when I hold her she feels safe and like a woman. Homeboy wasnt giving her that. Women think they wont get that with a corny lame dude.

 

[DAYNE]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

the gangs all here...continue the party

MORE DEFLECTION = GUILTY AS CHARGED BITCH

 

[SKATTA]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Dude made some valid points.

however this is not most black women its just too many who fit into these category.

diva complexes
poor decision making choosing fathers.
not very ladylike/acting and dressing like dudes.

i can go on.

 

[The Dark Mind]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

I know a FINE ass bitch right now with a master's degree who's working at a college that's dating a thug

Exactly! I know several college females who are doing the same thing. And I know for a fact that good and decent brothas be stepping to them. But they don't prefer them. They prefer du-rag thug-john.

See that's the problem. It wouldn't be so bad if it was just the hoodrats, but when the college educated and the professional women start chasing the the 50 Cents and the Nellys, and choosing them over other educated brothers, then it's a problem out of control.

 

[GucciGucci]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Yeah he's a sad character. He doesn't realize he's the main part of our problem on the male side of this discussion.

He's also so predicable. But I'm glad he showed up. It's like getting a seal of approval or something!

What is sad is a bunch of niggas crying blaming women and "thugs" for their lack of pussy and finding good women. I dont get a bitch and I just think she is not feeling me. Yall niggas go home and cry and blame thugs and everybody else. I'm sorry you cant relate to getting pussy and knowing some good solid Black women. I love Black women and dont share in the hate alot of he angry lonely men on here harbor. I cant help women like niggas like me and it knocks you ugly losers out of getting the pussy, I guess I am part of the problem.

 

[DAYNE]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

What is sad is a bunch of niggas crying blaming women and "thugs" for their lack of pussy and finding good women. I dont get a bitch and I just think she is not feeling me. Yall niggas go home and cry and blame thugs and everybody else. I'm sorry you cant relate to getting pussy and knowing some good solid Black women. I love Black women and dont share in the hate alot of he angry lonely men on here harbor. I cant help women like niggas like me and it knocks you ugly losers out of getting the pussy, I guess I am part of the problem.

YOU DON'T GIVE 2 FUCKS ABOUT YOUR OWN COMMUNITY, YOU DUMB MAMMAS BOY SON OF A BITCH

I EXPECT THIS FROM FUCK NAMED GUCCI MAN

 

[charlie dark]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Well, black men are doing a pretty good job of stopping black women, ... by murdering (and assaulting) them at a much higher rate than any other male group does its women.

(Nevermind abandoning them with childen at a higher rate than any other group.)

Look in the mirror.

I think that was the point the OP was making.
I read it that he thinks the women are choosing the murderer/thug/bum/child abandoning like brothers over the respectable good men!!!

 

[CPT Callamity]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Has very little to do with the original topic...There has been economic hardship,racism and every negative thing in this country since its inception.

The behavior being spoken about is a relatively new event.The lack of responsibility and poor choices being made now cannot be blamed on hardships that are in no ay comparable to the times of our grandparents and in my case parents times.

The behavior of parents and our communities in the way children are raised is not political in nature but social.

And to try and make it political is a smoke screen on the choices being made.

We wear 200 sneakers and make bad choices.In the past we shared clothes and if we had one pair of jeans they were clean.We were made to respect our hoods and elders..

I grew up with real gangsters and real thugs and they to showed respect on our blocks.Dirt wasn't done in our neighborhoods,it was done elsewhere..Like the old saying goes you don't shit where you eat"..

So the original problem from the OP is that the black woman is making the choices we are talking about so the solution is easy.make beter choices..

I would be remiss is I didn't say that only the negative is being talked about as usual.There are a lot of black men who do what they should and alot of black women who make good choices and those families thrive.

Preach.

 

[KOOKOOMONKEY]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

i'm rollin wit the poster on this one, reason women are the epicenter of a mans worth. all the so called thugs and doggs do not want someone like themself with their mom, sister, nor their daughter. before i was married i did my dirt and grew up. i have three daughters and one thang i know is, i'm not having someone how i use to be hang rond my crib try' to sniff out one of my girls. now as hypocritical as that my sound, it took a lot of soul searching to come to that conclusion and besides i'll be damn having a lil poot butt disrespect myself are my wife in that way...

 

[DeSiRe]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

MORE DEFLECTION = GUILTY AS CHARGED BITCH

and a hit dog will holler

ol white linen and jesus sandals wearing venti frappachino drinking floating candles in the bathroom cake ass nigga

 

[co9lin]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

co-sign...women in general wanted to be independent and do things on your own. Now you see the light on the other end of the tunnel is not so bright. We as black men as a whole do have to do a better job, but what is depicted as the whole black man is the thug..And were not all thugs. Family starts with the woman she is the nurturer the man the disciplanry. ..I find it funny how a woman can say 3 years into the childs life- I dont need no man, I'm independent, but every year after that they looking for a "good" man someone to "help" with the bills the house cause you cant fix shit for your "independent" self. But what you looking for is a man to help raise a bad ass kid that IS NOT HIS, but for this we get called insensitive and not doing our obligations as men in our communities. Since when was it any mans job regardless of race or creed to RAISE another mans seed. What part of the fucking game is that!!!!

 

[The Dark Mind]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

What is sad is a bunch of niggas crying blaming women and "thugs" for their lack of pussy and finding good women. I dont get a bitch and I just think she is not feeling me. Yall niggas go home and cry and blame thugs and everybody else. I'm sorry you cant relate to getting pussy and knowing some good solid Black women. I love Black women and dont share in the hate alot of he angry lonely men on here harbor. I cant help women like niggas like me and it knocks you ugly losers out of getting the pussy, I guess I am part of the problem.

Yes. "I-think-I'm-An-Alpha-Male-And-You-Got-No-Game-So-I'm-Going-To-Look-Down-My-Nose-at-You" cool guy.



Yes. You are in fact part of the problem.

It's the reason I was waiting for you to show up so I could use you as an illustration.

The world is not divided into lames and not lames.

You perpetuate problem by helping black women perpetuate the myth that it is ok to treat good men like shit because good men are lame and boring.

I'm actually related to a guy who talks just like you!

He's in and out of jail, a thuggy, a druggy, the whole nine. But females are falling all over him because he's gangsta - or as you would say - has swagga!

Those same females will be pregnant by men later on just like that thug, and you know what? They will be screaming for someone to feel sorry for them. And asking where all the good men are at. You know the good men... without the swagga.

But you don't even see it. You're too busy running cover for these crazy females who don't get it.

You're sort of a warped bizzaro version of captain-save-a-ho!!!

You're like, sort of a... captain-save-a-crazy-bitch. Yes?

 

[DAYNE]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

and a hit dog will holler

ol white linen and jesus sandals wearing venti frappachino drinking floating candles in the bathroom cake ass nigga

that was wack cocksucker

 

[catalyst]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

I actually agree with a lot of what the OP posted. It describes a lot of women out there, but certainly not all of them. I just try to avoid the professional "victims" that make perpetual bad decisions in life and blame it on some piece of shit man that magically wasn't a piece of shit when she decided to have unprotected sex with AND carry his seed.


We as men need to step up but women must also do the same. Until then, I'mma keep steppin' over busted broads with baby daddies, drama and baggage while my stock continues to rise.


Some cats are way too serious with the accusations of black hate in this thread though. The truth is often revealed most poignantly by a mirror. Change within, THEN change the world.

 

[bionicbrown]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Exactly! I know several college females who are doing the same thing. And I know for a fact that good and decent brothas be stepping to them. But they don't prefer them. They prefer du-rag thug-john.

See that's the problem. It wouldn't be so bad if it was just the hoodrats, but when the college educated and the professional women start chasing the the 50 Cents and the Nellys, and choosing them over other educated brothers, then it's a problem out of control.

Sigh . . . . yeah.

I don't know man, I don't see it getting any better. It would be nice if having Obama in office makes these bitches wake up and aspire to have an intelligent man like him, the leader of the free world, as the father to their fucking children. But if that doesn't work, nothing will. And I don't really think it will.

I don't put too much stock into these bitches man. This shit is biological with them. Many of them don't think logically about their selection, they let their pussy think for them. So I just don't put too much stock into them. A good black woman is the exception these days, despite all the shit they talk. That's the fuckin truth. Most of the stats point towards 70%.

If they ain't ghetto, they fat as hell. If they ain't fat, they got kids. If they aint got kids rolleyes, they gotta have a thug. If they don't want a thug, they stripping. And SOME bitches have the nerve to be ghetto, fat, want a thug AND strip/trick all at the same time.

Fuck em dude, they won't hesitate hold me accountable to my actions if I fuck up, so I'm shonuff holding them to theirs.

 

[GucciGucci]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

YOU DON'T GIVE 2 FUCKS ABOUT YOUR OWN COMMUNITY, YOU DUMB MAMMAS BOY SON OF A BITCH

I EXPECT THIS FROM FUCK NAMED GUCCI MAN

Calm down lil buddy. Get some pussy and you wouldnt be so angry. How would you know what my feelings are or my actions are in the or towards the community? By my screenname? You ARE ignorant. Take your woman hating faggot ass to stormfront with the Black women bashing. Emotional Tevin Campbell ass skinny-jean wearing pussy niggas like you are the problem.

 

[DeSiRe]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

that was wack cocksucker

whats wack is your nonpussy getting ass in here getting emotional

i wasnt talking to or about u...but i guess the message hit home

 

[GucciGucci]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Yes. "I-think-I'm-An-Alpha-Male-And-You-Got-No-Game-So-I'm-Going-To-Look-Down-My-Nose-at-You" cool guy.



Yes. You are in fact part of the problem.

It's the reason I was waiting for you to show up so I could use you as an illustration.

The world is not divided into lames and not lames.

You perpetuate problem by helping black women perpetuate the myth that it is ok to treat good men like shit because good men are lame and boring.

I'm actually related to a guy who talks just like you!

He's in and out of jail, a thuggy, a druggy, the whole nine. But females are falling all over him because he's gangsta - or as you would say - has swagga!

Those same females will be pregnant by men later on just like that thug, and you know what? They will be screaming for someone to feel sorry for them. And asking where all the good men are at. You know the good men... without the swagga.

But you don't even see it. You're too busy running cover for these crazy females who don't get it.

You're sort of a warped bizzaro version of captain-save-a-ho!!!

You're like, sort of a... captain-save-a-crazy-bitch. Yes?

You have no idea what you are talking about. Most women would say Im nice and a good man. Im just not a lame ass dude. I have style and confidence (swag). They pick up on this. Im no thug either. I smoke weed and drink but so what? Damn near half the country does. I did my dirt in the past but I work a 9to5 and take care of my kids. Women eat that shit up. Most women I know dont like thugs but they want a dude thats still not corny. They know Im a good dude but if something pop off Im not gonna bitch up and that a nigga wont fuck with her while she with me. They also know Im gonna beat up the pussy like a "thug". Thats what they love. My advice is loosen up and maybe you too can fuck something.

 

[DAYNE]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Calm down lil buddy. Get some pussy and you wouldnt be so angry. How would you know what my feelings are or my actions are in the or towards the community? By my screenname? You ARE ignorant. Take your woman hating faggot ass to stormfront with the Black women bashing. Emotional Tevin Campbell ass skinny-jean wearing pussy niggas like you are the problem.

fuck off you pusedo homo thug on training wheels

 

[DAYNE]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

whats wack is your nonpussy getting ass in here getting emotional

i wasnt talking to or about u...but i guess the message hit home

eat a dick bitch

 

[darkninja7000]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

NOW WATCH HOW THESE COCKSUCKERS TWIST AND TURN THE FACTS AS A DEFLECTION TO YOU FOR NOT BEING SUCCESSFUL WITH BLACK WOMEN
WATCH

c/s. his original post and rebuttal are on fucking point.

 

[The Dark Mind]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Now keep in mind I'm not talking about all black women. There are those who will choose a good man over a bad one. But they are the exception and not the rule. There was a time when it was they were the rule and not the exeption. Which brings me to another point... it also appears to be an age thing.

I talk to women over 40 and they tell me there was a time when if a man didn't respect a woman, he couldn't get a date.

Especially if you talk to people in their 60's and 70's. Women just didn't give those guys that type of play. And because men wanted sex/companionship/date/girlfriend. They acted accodingly.


YES LADIES. MEN WOULD BEHAVE FOR THE PUSSY!!!

I am the first brotha who will tell you that simping is O-U-T!!!

Tricking not necessary either.

But if you talk to them old dudes they will tell you that they weren't tricking and simping.

But it was understood that if you wanted to hit the booty, you had to be a gentleman, and had to be well dressed, and well groomed.

Heck this was true as recently as the 80's. Remember Spike Lee's Schooldaze and Cosby's It's A Different world???

The people were dressed well and well groomed.

Now days you see the dudes with pants around their butts and their hair all over the place tattooed up and look like they just stepped out of prison.

And they be the one with the baddest females on their arm.

 

[CaliChampNo.1]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

Sigh . . . . yeah.

I don't know man, I don't see it getting any better. It would be nice if having Obama in office makes these bitches wake up and aspire to have an intelligent man like him, the leader of the free world, as the father to their fucking children. But if that doesn't work, nothing will. And I don't really think it will.

I don't put too much stock into these bitches man. This shit is biological with them. Many of them don't think logically about their selection, they let their pussy think for them. So I just don't put too much stock into them. A good black woman is the exception these days, despite all the shit they talk. That's the fuckin truth. Most of the stats point towards 70%.

If they ain't ghetto, they fat as hell. If they ain't fat, they got kids. If they aint got kids rolleyes, they gotta have a thug. If they don't want a thug, they stripping. And SOME bitches have the nerve to be ghetto, fat, want a thug AND strip/trick all at the same time.

Fuck em dude, they won't hesitate hold me accountable to my actions if I fuck up, so I'm shonuff holding them to theirs.

Exactly. I wouldn't be surprised if that 70% is close to 80% when we're 10-20 years older. We'll be seeing more Tyra "State of the Black Women Union" specials and brothas continuing to be thrown under the bus. It's a shame.

 

[DeSiRe]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

eat a dick bitch

im sure u can show me better than u can tell me fag boy

 

[DAYNE]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

im sure u can show me better than u can tell me fag boy

speak on the issues ho

 

[DeSiRe]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

speak on the issues ho

this is no longer entertaining...have a nice night

 

[DAYNE]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

this is no longer entertaining...have a nice night

thats what I thought, bird brain ho

 

[ClevelandDawg216]

Re: Black women are destroying the black community and we need to find a way to stop

@ swagga.