And here is the problem with everything you're saying. You don't get that he's not TRYING TO BE a relationship expert. That's not his goal. He is largely speaking to women who want a man of a certain economic value. But it's through the shattering of that lens that he is unearthing the general overall issues with how Black women perceive and view Black men. But in order for you to fully understand this, you have to be familiar with what he has been doing all along. Just watching a few viral clips won't get you there.
Yes, it's one sided. That's the whole point. A platform giving men's perspective without women telling us who we're supposed to be, how we should think.. or how us just being men is "toxic". You want a woman's point of view? Just turn on the TV. Because most of what is aired on television is the woman's perspective. I can't think of any daytime shows that focus on what men think. Women do not like to be held accountable for the shit they do and definitely not for the bullshit they put men through. And anyone addressing it is a problem...clearly. And notice that all of your critiques is exactly what women have been doing to men through media completely unabated for YEARS. But now this is a problem??
I don't have any issue with the dude making money from this as long as he is spitting facts. And that's what people (women/beta males) don't really like. They don't appreciate that he is making women accountable for their own selfish bullshit.
*Telling a woman she is wrong for having kids for a sorry ass dude and then expecting a man making money to want her overweight ass and 2 debt-hole kids is what should have been happening all along. But modern women wanted "freedom". Well...they got it. And this is what many have done with it.
*Telling a woman that she likely missed her opportunity to have a healthy marriage because she chose to be a hoe in her 20's..passing up good dudes because they weren't making enough..then in their 30's are upset and calling men trash because no decent guy wants to marry them - YEAH! This is what they should have been taught all along. But now that this one guy is saying it, he's a problem. Even though it's common damn sense.
*Telling a woman that her looks, weight, and how she carries herself will have a huge impact on the kind of man available to her is what they should have been told all along. But women "empower" other women (sell them shit - books, trips, products, etc) by telling them they are queens, they are goddesses, that men should be bowing to them and giving them the world regardless of how they look. It's bullshit. And when they realize it's bullshit, they blame men and call US trash because we don't want them.
So if you don't like the guy...fine. Everything isn't for everybody. But acting like he's pushing a false narrative and or painting women in a bad light when all he's doing is calling them on their own shit is being disingenuous at best.
