Caught my 12 year old son going to porn sites

[jawnswoop]

I have no issue with what you're saying.

But let's use a hypothetical example. As a young and horny young man. Were you interested in looking at the female form? I'm going to say, "YES." But, was that the "only" thing you were interested in? "NO."

I'm going to use myself as an example. When I was 12, some friends and I found a stash of Playboy and Players magazines at one of the Homie's house. I think they belonged to his uncle or cousin. We would look at that shit and be mesmerized. Then, we'd go play baseball, basketball, or football. I started playing the saxophone at that time. So I was passionate about being a musician. So those magazines, and the female form wasn't the only things on my mind.

So I'm saying that if the young man came here, there's a possibility that while on here looking at women, some other threads may peak his interests.

I can Relate while I might've did some things a lil different because when we were young we always had something to do even when we did watch or saw porn at a young age. But it's the fact parents want to try to hide porn or punish their kids for discovering some porn to make them feel guilty about seeing it.

 

[playahaitian]

Can you imagine a 12 year old Jackson Walsh with today's technology at his fingertips? I would have been choking bitches out before my mustache grew in.

/dead

 

[Simply Sickenin']

I have no issue with what you're saying.

But let's use a hypothetical example. As a young and horny young man. Were you interested in looking at the female form? I'm going to say, "YES." But, was that the "only" thing you were interested in? "NO."

I'm going to use myself as an example. When I was 12, some friends and I found a stash of Playboy and Players magazines at one of the Homie's house. I think they belonged to his uncle or cousin. We would look at that shit and be mesmerized. Then, we'd go play baseball, basketball, or football. I started playing the saxophone at that time. So I was passionate about being a musician. So those magazines, and the female form wasn't the only things on my mind.

So I'm saying that if the young man came here, there's a possibility that while on here looking at women, some other threads may peak his interests.

Well sir
I just hope kids today are still going out to play ball with the boys.

I got a nephew and he's an elite God level sniper in Call of Duty but honestly can't handle the rock for shit

 

[WorldEX]

I didn’t bust his balls, his Mom bought him the cell and basically gave him free reign.

I checked his history and advised him not to do it, told him I wouldn’t rat him out but I would be checking more often.

lil mfka will be on BGOL Jr by 16.

Was kinda proud for about 7 seconds.

I know that feeling.

 

[shaddyvillethug]

Nigga

I been crying for 20 minutes before I seen a post yet

I am screaaaaaaaaaaaaaming

U bitch niggas thought yawl kids was safe from BGOL and Al gores internet

If it was me, I would tell him it will ruin his life and everything around it.

To each his own tho

His friends at schools prolly showed him some shit

Imagine yo kids going to school with @Bullet ’s kids

 

[yasky777]

Look up Oedipus you and you will not appreciate the incest comment from that fag Constanta

Brother my Mother is a psych therapist and I’ve read more than I care to about shit like that, I ignored that fullback fag for a reason.

 

[shaddyvillethug]

I didn’t bust his balls, his Mom bought him the cell and basically gave him free reign.

I checked his history and advised him not to do it, told him I wouldn’t rat him out but I would be checking more often.

lil mfka will be on BGOL Jr by 16.

Was kinda proud for about 7 seconds.

Better be glad it wasn’t no weird tranny porn or gay porn.


That’s what I would be checking for

I’ll let that lil niggu go crazy over some pinky or Cherokee

No gay shit

 

[pookie]

A budding addict! What would you do if you caught your son smoking crack?

Whatever the answer to that is what the answer to this should be!

Come on man you know good and well that's not the same

Sounds like he’s….normal

Yeah shit is normal, at 12/13 you start not only liking girls but wanting to see what the female body looks like and feels like

Boys will be boys. Never caught either of my sons watching porn but one of mine caught me. At the time I was married. Ole girl took the kids out for the evening. I was like cool. Checklist.

1. Astroglide, check!
2. Computer hooked up to 80 inch, check!
3. Reclining in theatre seat, check!

I had one of those keypad locks AND I was upstairs. This lil nikka was like the Flash pressing in those numbers on the keypad. I'm fumbling trying to get that slimy ass Astroglide off me and put the shit away, naw son. My son was up those stairs so fast it was almost like he flew upstairs.

With dick in hand covered up with napkins and shit. I was like, you caught me. Man WTH are you doing back so damn fast? I wanted to tell you something, well, that shits gonna have to wait son.

Lmaoooo....man I've never thought of something like this happening, I can't even imagine how you explain this..lol

 

[shaddyvillethug]

If it hasn't been discussed before, the talk needs to extend beyond porn to keeping it in his pants and possible long term consequences if he doesn't. Respect for himself and.others. Me too movement. Pregnancy. STD's. Peer pressure etc. If he's watching it, he's thinking about doing it. Kids always think you are trying to stop them from having fun, but there is nothing they can do now that won't be a better and safer experience if they wait until they are older.

He’s fucking 12 years old

He’s not fucking yet

He’s in 6th grade

Wtf

I would hate to be your son.

 

[shaddyvillethug]

I was watching hella porn at 12. Literally found the stash when I was 11. I'm more concerned that you gave him the impression that you have no power and the mom has it all.

You gatta realize bro, some BGOL niggas gatta go outside and leave the house to see Dey kids.

 

[yasky777]

please do. give him that talk asap. my oldest is 13 and about a month ago, i decided we need to have about an hour alone time just me and him and one of the topics or fatherly advice i plan on giving him was to try to avoid porn as much as possible if damn near at all. a lot of brothers on here may or may not agree with me but porn is one of those things that has been of no benefit to mankind (if you really think about it critically). And i say that with authority because at one point during my teenage years, i was the consummate porn user. now i think about it and i ask myself what value did porn really add to my life? no, seriously. for guys like us though, we at least had a bit of a counter balance, right? women were still approachable, there was no social media...etc etc. there was balance. These kids these days though, there is no counter. once they start delving into porn, that's it.

This hit home, part of what I said to him at Top Golf is “you’ll never have a woman problem your dark tall smart talented and bread to win. Porn is fiction and not healthy. I’m not mad just want you to not see certain things at this age.”

 

[jawnswoop]

He’s fucking 12 years old

He’s not fucking yet

He’s in 6th grade

Wtf

I would hate to be your son.

Single mothers are the worst raising their kids getting mad at them for seeing naked women which is crazy to me. But I'm not projecting that Camille is a single mother but just talking in general.

 

[jawnswoop]

This hit home, part of what I said to him at Top Golf is “you’ll never have a woman problem your dark tall smart talented and bread to win. Porn is fiction and not healthy. I’m not mad just want you to not see certain things at this age.”

Respect, wish more parents talked to their kids that way with a level head.

 

[yasky777]

Nigga

I been crying for 20 minutes before I seen a post yet

I am screaaaaaaaaaaaaaming

U bitch niggas thought yawl kids was safe from BGOL and Al gores internet

If it was me, I would tell him it will ruin his life and everything around it.

To each his own tho

His friends at schools prolly showed him some shit

Imagine yo kids going to school with @Bullet ’s kids

Lil Yasky JR bring his homie from band and basketball home to play Xbox named Lil Bullet. He will be asked to leave immediately and have his Mom call me.

 

[blackbull1970]

Your kid is 12 years old.

He had full access to Internet Porn once he started Kindergarten and fully engaged with other boys 6 years ago.

If he had a classmate in first grade who had older brothers in their teens, high chance he was exposed to internet porn thru his friend.

When a parent sits their kid down to talk about sex, you are usually 3 to 4 years late cuz they already learned from their knucklehead friends they associate with.

 

[jawnswoop]

Lil Yasky JR bring his homie from band and basketball named Lil Bullet. He will be asked to leave immediately

 

[shaddyvillethug]

Single mothers are the worst raising their kids getting mad at them for seeing naked women which is crazy to me. But I'm not projecting that Camille is a single mother but just talking in general.

Lol @ u thinking somebody seeded her up

 

[jawnswoop]

Lol @ u thinking somebody seeded her up

 

[shaddyvillethug]

Lil Yasky JR bring his homie from band and basketball home to play Xbox named Lil Bullet. He will be asked to leave immediately and have his Mom call me.

Lol

Lil niggu named BJ

 

[DJ]

Brother my Mother is a psych therapist and I’ve read more than I care to about shit like that, I ignored that fullback fag for a reason.

Say less famo.
Each one, teach one.

 

[Genesiswiz]

While you can't stop biology, you can coach him and guide him to better understanding and controlling those urges.

Or you could buy him some proper lube

 

[Costanza]

Look up Oedipus you and you will not appreciate the incest comment from that fag Constanta

lol @ your dumbass having to look up that very common reference

It was a commentary on the sibling porn discussion, not an actual suggestion about the OP’s son.

 

[Costanza]

Brother my Mother is a psych therapist and I’ve read more than I care to about shit like that, I ignored that fullback fag for a reason.

I said “imagine if,”

Don’t bring YaskyJr on here to be a sensitive bitch with poor reading comprehension

 

[Helico-pterFunk]

@yasky777

Got a quick, funny story for you.

Got our first home internet in the fall of 1997. I’m tracking down places like BGOL / Online-Video founded in 1996 and home to the illustrious 30-second sample clips playable in MPEG or Real Player type format(s). My kid brother is searching for indexes of Playmates past and present.

Within the first 6 months he says to me the computer has a Search History. Oh shit! What the fuck?! We both panic and tell each other we need to clear that regularly or deal with the consequences of 3 letters ... M O M.

It’s like we had seen a ghost.

We smartened up from that day forth.

 

[jawnswoop]

@yasky777

Got a quick, funny story for you.

Got our first home internet in the fall of 1997. I’m tracking down places like BGOL / Online-Video founded in 1996 and home to the illustrious 30-second sample clips playable in MPEG or Real Player type format(s). My kid brother is searching for indexes of Playmates past and present.

Within the first 6 months he says to me the computer has a Search History. Oh shit! What the fuck?! We both panic and tell each other we need to clear that regularly or deal with the consequences of 3 letters ... M O M.

It’s like we had seen a ghost.

We smartened up from that day forth.

I wasn't so lucky since I've gotten caught trying to turn the computer off quickly that my mom used to turn it back on and found out I was watching porn and the fact she could see everything that I watched in the searched history but it never stopped me from watching porn and she just basically gave up from spying on me for watching porn to the point she didn't care anymore or didn't make a big deal about it anymore. But my dad did give me some game to let me know that the porn I watched doesn't mean you will be doing all that shit meeting a girl and he was right giving me that advice back then!

 

[Helico-pterFunk]

I wasn't so lucky since I've gotten caught trying to turn the computer off quickly that my mom used to turn it back on and found out I was watching porn and the fact she could see everything that I watched in the searched history but it never stopped me from watching porn and she just basically gave up from spying on me for watching porn to the point she didn't care anymore or didn't make a big deal about it anymore. But my dad did give me some game to let me know that the porn I watched doesn't mean you will be doing all that shit meeting a girl and he was right giving me that advice back then!

My most embarrassing moment. Logged in at the college campus computer lab at the library around 2000. Whoever had used it previously had visited some gross shit. Start getting hit with nasty pop-up ads. I stormed over to a librarian and told them immediately. That shit ain’t me and is not being linked to my student ID. Fuck that!!!

Whoever was using that computer was out to lunch. That computer lab was a large square with large glass windows. You could see all the monitors with a quick walkby. Not exactly the best place to browse freak nasty shit.

And HFunk is not getting suspended or expelled for your shit.

I’ve got Sprint Canada dial-up for my damn BGOL at home! Shiiiiiiit.

 

[DJ]

lol @ your dumbass having to look up that very common reference

It was a commentary on the sibling porn discussion, not an actual suggestion about the OP’s son.i

I got 2 degrees, i didn't have to look shit up. I digress, you made it apparent whats the first thing that comes to mind when see the word porn.
Faggit.

 

[YoungSinister]

This is a positive my nigga

 

[jawnswoop]

My most embarrassing moment. Logged in at the college campus computer lab at the library around 2000. Whoever had used it previously had visited some gross shit. Start getting hit with nasty pop-up ads. I stormed over to a librarian and told them immediately. That shit ain’t me and is not being linked to my student ID. Fuck that!!!

Whoever was using that computer was out to lunch. That computer lab was a large square with large glass windows. You could see all the monitors with a quick walkby. Not exactly the best place to browse freak nasty shit.

And HFunk is not getting suspended or expelled for your shit.

I’ve got Sprint Canada dial-up for my damn BGOL at home! Shiiiiiiit.

Yeah, we came a long way from them ugly bulky computers back then that didn't have no privacy because everyone could look over at someone's computer since the computers right next to each other or close behind. But during my high school years back then, we hardly had a teacher in class that would be absent most times and leave us in there by ourselves that we could watch porn in peace making sure the classroom door was locked as well..

 

[Costanza]

I got 2 degrees, i didn't have to look shit up. I digress, you made it apparent whats the first thing that comes to mind when see the word porn.
Faggit.

Yep, sure. Glad I could teach you a new concept-- You're welcome.

 

[shaddyvillethug]

I said “imagine if,”

Don’t bring YaskyJr on here to be a sensitive bitch with poor reading comprehension

Nobody wants to imagine your pedo fantasy’s

 

[Costanza]

Nobody wants to imagine your pedo fantasy’s

You are such a dumbass instigator. If you tried to kill your father so you could have your mother to yourself, that would be an Oedipus situation even at your advanced age. Of course your father abandoned you and your sexual preference is not women, so this would never apply to you. But it is not pedo shit.

 

[pookie]

Your kid is 12 years old.

He had full access to Internet Porn once he started Kindergarten and fully engaged with other boys 6 years ago.

If he had a classmate in first grade who had older brothers in their teens, high chance he was exposed to internet porn thru his friend.

When a parent sits their kid down to talk about sex, you are usually 3 to 4 years late cuz they already learned from their knucklehead friends they associate with.

Lil Yasky JR bring his homie from band and basketball home to play Xbox named Lil Bullet. He will be asked to leave immediately and have his Mom call me.

Yeah this is true, if he's looking at it out in public instead of his bedroom lil man is hooked, just make sure he's not on any of those webcam sites sending hoes money...lol

 

[jawnswoop]

Yeah this is true, if he's looking at it out in public instead of his bedroom lil man is hooked, just make sure he's not on any of those webcam sites sending hoes money...lol

I used to do that back then and my mom cussed me out...lol

 

[Camille]

Single mothers are the worst raising their kids getting mad at them for seeing naked women which is crazy to me. But I'm not projecting that Camille is a single mother but just talking in general.

The Demon Spawn you quoted is on ignore. No where did I say get mad or punish his son. I don't have kids. I have common sense. I've always valued learning from others mistakes. I know what I and others did at my age, what we were lacking in education. Who did what because of, or in spite of, parental influence and actions. I have friends with kids, nieces and nephews that I've partially raised. I've seen good and bad parenting up close and have seen the fallout of both.

I've seen people who were wild as hell growing up being overly strict because they know what they did behind their parents backs as well as people who are too trusting with their kids who don't supervise enough.

The mothers that I see freak out, single or married, is not usually because of the porn itself, it's because of their child growing up and maturing beyond what THEY as a parent are prepared to deal with and all the fears (pregnancy, STDs, being labeled, growing up too fast, not having a child hood, failing grades dropping out) that it can lead to that children aren't thinking about because their perspective is limited. He needs to learn and focus on self control and that there is a time and place for sex but that he shouldn't be ruled by his desires.

BTW FUCK YOU for your comment about single mothers and that cockeyed midget you quoted.