Caught my 12 year old son going to porn sites

djpolo

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Boys will be boys. Never caught either of my sons watching porn but one of mine caught me. At the time I was married. Ole girl took the kids out for the evening. I was like cool. Checklist.

1. Astroglide, check!
2. Computer hooked up to 80 inch, check!
3. Reclining in theatre seat, check!

I had one of those keypad locks AND I was upstairs. This lil nikka was like the Flash pressing in those numbers on the keypad. I'm fumbling trying to get that slimy ass Astroglide off me and put the shit away, naw son. My son was up those stairs so fast it was almost like he flew upstairs.

With dick in hand covered up with napkins and shit. I was like, you caught me. Man WTH are you doing back so damn fast? I wanted to tell you something, well, that shits gonna have to wait son.
 

dbluesun

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You hook him up with a BGOL login yet? Make sure you show him where the ignore button is.

Also, give him some allowance $ so he can head to the



i think this is a good idea
the porn here is tame and there is so much more on here that is valuable
that would put him head and shoulders above his peers
 

MYSTIC

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wanting to see naked ladies is natural esp at that age, but I would say stay on top of him to ensure he doesn't "get addicted" these kids not socializing like we used to, so it's a lower chance of your son getting those experiences with a real girl. Little nigga need to learn how to kiss, learn a woman's body language, have time to sharpen his game, learn how to date, learn how to determine a good woman from a bad one, etc... All the shit we learn from actual experiences with a woman. Sex is only a part of it and if he's learning from porn he may be wanting to spit in a chick mouth or any other outlandish porn shit and thinking that's how to turn a chick on. Fuck around and bring a trifling hoe in your house and be all in love cause she know how to suck a dick and does anal.
 

yasky777

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I appreciate yalls feedback, everything except the dumbass crackhead narrative wackest shit I’ve read this year. Ive actually looked forward to this day. He’s in the 98percentile physically and a size 13 Nike. I gotta give him the real.
 

Simply Sickenin'

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You hook him up with a BGOL login yet? Make sure you show him where the ignore button is.

Also, give him some allowance $ so he can head to the



First of all....

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Secondly, BGOL is something that a young male should discover on his own. I'm sure all the vet posters who have a story of what lead them here, would agree :dunno:
 

jawnswoop

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I mean if you tried to hide porn or discipline him for it like most dumb ass parents do, it would only lead them to want to discover it with either stealing it or watching it at his friends house because guess what, porn is everywhere and I told yall how my parents tried to hide it from me only made it worst for themselves because i was able to find ways to watch it no matter what back then. But a lot of use came up in the era when porn was on VHS to DVDs and now the Internet which is much easier to access to porn in today's generations because of all the apps they can watch porn on .
 

Camille

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You hook him up with a BGOL login yet? Make sure you show him where the ignore button is.

Also, give him some allowance $ so he can head to the



i think this is a good idea
the porn here is tame and there is so much more on here that is valuable
that would put him head and shoulders above his peers

Nope. BGOL will teach him to hate women. He needs to have a chance a healthy relationships in life and BGOL is full of too many men saying women are worthless and only to be used. There are some who will say they aren't talking about ALL women, just "thots", but even if true (depending on the member, it's not) there is no way he would be able to discern the nuances. There is a way to teach to protect yourself w/o demonizing all women and he won't learn that here.
 

DJ

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Yasky777Jr

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I appreciate yalls feedback, everything except the dumbass crackhead narrative wackest shit I’ve read this year. Ive actually looked forward to this day. He’s in the 98percentile physically and a size 13 Nike. I gotta give him the real.
Look up Oedipus you and you will not appreciate the incest comment from that fag Constanta
 

dbluesun

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Nope. BGOL will teach him to hate women. He needs to have a chance a healthy relationships in life and BGOL is full of too many men saying women are worthless and only to be used. There are some who will say they aren't talking about ALL women, just "thots", but even if true (depending on the member, it's not) there is no way he would be able to discern the nuances. There is a way to teach to protect yourself w/o demonizing all women and he won't learn that here.
you are always so damn logical
i think the incels are a minority on here
but you would know better than me
i still stand by my statement with the caveat to wait till he is a little older
knowing the city where yasky is located i still believe bgol would enhance the young man;s education
 

illdog

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Every hung up parent actually believes it their sworn duty to trump biology...It only makes forbidden fruit seem even more exciting. It's not just lil white preacher's daughters dyin to go away to college...

 
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PsiBorg

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BGOL is seriously diverse. If you did decide to introduce the young man to BGOL, just make sure he knows that he's going to have to have a thick skin. He's going to have to look out for hella trolls...

But, he'll be privy to some of the brightest minds on the net. He can use that to his advantage. There low key Doctors, Lawyers, Brokers, Craftsmen, Tradesmen... shit, what isn't here?
 

rph2005

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We were at Top Golf so I didn’t make a scene I plan to pick his brain and give him the talk.
please do. give him that talk asap. my oldest is 13 and about a month ago, i decided we need to have about an hour alone time just me and him and one of the topics or fatherly advice i plan on giving him was to try to avoid porn as much as possible if damn near at all. a lot of brothers on here may or may not agree with me but porn is one of those things that has been of no benefit to mankind (if you really think about it critically). And i say that with authority because at one point during my teenage years, i was the consummate porn user. now i think about it and i ask myself what value did porn really add to my life? no, seriously. for guys like us though, we at least had a bit of a counter balance, right? women were still approachable, there was no social media...etc etc. there was balance. These kids these days though, there is no counter. once they start delving into porn, that's it.
 

Simply Sickenin'

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BGOL is seriously diverse. If you did decide to introduce the young man to BGOL, just make sure he knows that he's going to have to have a thick skin. He's going to have to look out for hella trolls...

But, he'll be privy to some of the brightest minds on the net. He can use that to his advantage. There low key Doctors, Lawyers, Brokers, Craftsmen, Tradesmen... shit, what isn't here?
At 12 was you trying to hear what Doctors, Lawyers, Brokers, etc had to say. Be honest....

I know 12 year old me could have been in a room with Einstein and still feel like the smartest son bitch walking under the sun. Yes the knowledge can be found on BGOL but it has to come in its proper time.
 

dbluesun

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please do. give him that talk asap. my oldest is 13 and about a month ago, i decided we need to have about an hour alone time just me and him and one of the topics or fatherly advice i plan on giving him was to try to avoid porn as much as possible if damn near at all. a lot of brothers on here may or may not agree with me but porn is one of those things that has been of no benefit to mankind (if you really think about it critically). And i say that with authority because at one point during my teenage years, i was the consummate porn user. now i think about it and i ask myself what value did porn really add to my life? no, seriously. for guys like us though, we at least had a bit of a counter balance, right? women were still approachable, there was no social media...etc etc. there was balance. These kids these days though, there is no counter. once they start delving into porn, that's it.

so did porn harm you?
and to over a counter point
there isn't much real porn on the main board
most of it is commentary,current events,politics,gossip,etc.
 

Chiyo

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I didn’t bust his balls, his Mom bought him the cell and basically gave him free reign.

I checked his history and advised him not to do it, told him I wouldn’t rat him out but I would be checking more often.

lil mfka will be on BGOL Jr by 16.

Was kinda proud for about 7 seconds.
Fuck BGOL Jr. When I was 16 I was already on this site with your old ass:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:
 

PsiBorg

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At 12 was you trying to hear what Doctors, Lawyers, Brokers, etc had to say. Be honest....

I know 12 year old me could have been in a room with Einstein and still feel like the smartest son bitch walking under the sun. Yes the knowledge can be found on BGOL but it has to come in its proper time.
I have no issue with what you're saying.

But let's use a hypothetical example. As a young and horny young man. Were you interested in looking at the female form? I'm going to say, "YES." But, was that the "only" thing you were interested in? "NO."

I'm going to use myself as an example. When I was 12, some friends and I found a stash of Playboy and Players magazines at one of the Homie's house. I think they belonged to his uncle or cousin. We would look at that shit and be mesmerized. Then, we'd go play baseball, basketball, or football. I started playing the saxophone at that time. So I was passionate about being a musician. So those magazines, and the female form wasn't the only things on my mind.

So I'm saying that if the young man came here, there's a possibility that while on here looking at women, some other threads may peak his interests.
 

dbluesun

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I have no issue with what you're saying.

But let's use a hypothetical example. As a young and horny young man. Were you interested in looking at the female form? I'm going to say, "YES." But, was that the "only" thing you were interested in? "NO."

I'm going to use myself as an example. When I was 12, some friends and I found a stash of Playboy and Players magazines at one of the Homie's house. I think they belonged to his uncle or cousin. We would look at that shit and be mesmerized. Then, we'd go play baseball, basketball, or football. I started playing the saxophone at that time. So I was passionate about being a musician. So those magazines, and the female form wasn't the only things on my mind.

So I'm saying that if the young man came here, there's a possibility that while on here looking at women, some other threads may peak his interests.
you articulated my point exactly
 
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